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Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:16pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I need u guys advice on this situation like rite nw! My boyfriend who is in his early twenties (20-23) just asked me to marry him! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() This thing z jx so messed up! Pls this z serius, i dnt wanna lose him ![]() |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:19pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
You've my blessings. Get married. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by aristocrazzy: 3:20pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Don't marry someone against your will. If you want to wait till 25 then no problem. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by ALKARULEZ615(m): 3:23pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Marry him ooooo.......so as to avoid "Shiloh'2024" ![]() 12 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by manutdadex(m): 3:26pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
from ur statement...you stil need to grow, tell him to wait til u finish skool, if he loves u he wil wait...live life to d fullest because wen u get married u wont av time to grow! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Beesluv: 3:28pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Tell him to allow u finish atleast uni. Cos in future, he can bring an educated girl that can be taken to events as a second wife 1 Like |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by PervRocker: 3:33pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:how financially stable can a young man of 23 be? Abeg gerrout joor 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by sexylogan(m): 3:33pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina: How will he feed you? Does he have a job? Marriage no be beans oh... You don't sound like you're ready to marry. Don't rush it. If it's meant to be, he will wait till you're ready. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
sexylogan:yeh, he has a job and his family z rich. he has like his own house and he z really stable in every way. But i just turned 18! Do u nw see the prob? :-( |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by 25omega(m): 3:40pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:trust your first instinct of not being ready to settle down. If you are not ready but get married anyway, you will probably end up regretting it. By the way have you guys had sex? or are you holding out till marriage? Just incase, some men will say anything to get in your pants. Like some others mentioned, Marriage on the outside seems based on love but the real deal about marriage is money. Who or how will you both support yourselves? needless to say the kids that come along. You don't have to break up with him or him you but calmly let him know that dont feel ready. Make sure you lay out your concerns and for God sake don't mention wanting to go to NYSC or have a little fun. Though if that is your mind set you should def not be getting married. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by sexylogan(m): 3:40pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina: Hmmm...ok It's a tricky situation. But from what I sense, I don't think you're ready. When does he want you guys to get married? Saying yes doesn't mean tomorrow is the wedding u know. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by 25omega(m): 3:41pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:his family's money is not your money. you will be reminded of that on a regular basis. But then again, can't you go to school while married? |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I was expecting the ''his family is rich'' line ![]() Ok, bye ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
25omega:no! We've not had sex. We've nt gone past pre-intimacy. I stand on no sex b4 marriage, bt i dnt think he wants to marry me 4 jx sex ![]() |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
sexylogan:ofcoz i knw. i thought that he meant proposing to me, then if i accept, we will wait til future to get married. bt he said he wants the wedding now! and he wanted me to clock 18yrz b4 proposing, that am an adult now. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by menix(m): 3:52pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Its obvious d guy is Doro Ego. Go ahead nd marry him cous I did wait 2 remarry u.. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Obalende: 3:52pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
OP what you fail to realize is that at 25 you are less desirable. You better marry now that you are most desirable. Most ppl dont know what they have until they lose it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Tallesty1(m): 3:55pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Another Erotic Lie From Angelina. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by chimerase2: 3:56pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
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Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by sexylogan(m): 3:58pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
EroticAngelina: You're not ready for marriage dear. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Neldrizzy(m): 4:00pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Shawty needs to chill.... *Underage* 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Neldrizzy(m): 4:04pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
25omega:uhh noway! School isnt even the matter! Im an independent girl, i dnt wanna depend on him, and Im not emotionally, physically n spiritually ready to go on that forever journey ok? I just turned 18! Im just celebrating freedom from childhood to adulthood, all those things i dreamt to do when i was a small girl bt cudnt do them bkus i wasnt up to 18, i cn do them nw! im free nw and the best present he knew to give me was a marriage proposal!?! seriusly! who does that? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by lilmax(m): 4:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by ROZZAYY(f): 4:06pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Wishing u my dear erocticangel HML in advance n I'd like to be in ur bridal train. If u r rily saying the truth I'd advise u marry him after all omotola married @ 18 so deres nofin like having ur kids while young, if u rily love him o. Anyways ur choice. |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by ALKARULEZ615(m): 4:08pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Neldrizzy:lol.. Na real_matters me dey yarn d bae so |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by lilmax(m): 4:08pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Tallesty1:true 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Tallesty1:mtcheeeeeewwwwwww nonsense ![]() |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by jnrbayano(m): 4:18pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Can 18 year old cervix, labia majora and vullva ready to withstand thrust and counter thrust, attack and counter attack of which your name "eroticangelina" suggests? 18 years is still young for marriage in my own books. 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
jnrbayano:Your dp sha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed! by jnrbayano(m): 4:36pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
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