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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Pes13: 3:49pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by bosun11(m): 3:50pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: my dear...to be frank with you....its gonna take a long time before he stops.say 5-10 years unless God touches them..He is addicted to it already and if you know you cant cope with his bad habits....QUIT..Its as simple as that, any bad habit you know you cant endure from your partner during marriage ,its better to leave while dating or in courtship ..My 2 cents |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: You have far more important issues, healthwise, in your relationship than who rides shotgun. If you're dating for ONLY a year and you're noticing unacceptable then the time to KHTTC is sooner than later. I still for the life of me can't figure out why people settle. Of the millions of eligible bachelors in Nigeria surely you can find one that is acceptable. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by AreaFada2: 3:54pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Classicalmusic:. And girls always like to tell us they are not after a man's money. Maybe they think we live on mars. We see the truth everyday. 2 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by sho0369: 3:57pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
My dear u love someone who is not proud of u. Asking u to go to the back seat means that you are nobody before him. If within one year of dating him you are disregarded then expect the worse when he marries you. As for his smoking habit which according to you " smokes everything smokeable"" thats red flag according to Charles B. I don't know of your age anyway but its better you search for more responsible guys out there 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
MORNDEW:Guy, take it easy on her. Shuuuu! She said that she didnt know d guy smokes when she met him. Isn't dat possible? She own her personal car. What's it about d ride? Dis is a serioz issue dat nid delicate solution. I dnt mean 2 b personal. Just an observation! 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by passionate88: 4:02pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann:Then quit the relationship, not because of the car thingy, but because of the late nights, smoking.. You might be thinking of the years spent with him and how to start a new relationship... It's better to be single and happy than be unhappy in a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by cy4cent(f): 4:03pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Sweetheart, what is your definition of advice? you are asking for advice cos you don't like d situation you are in n yet you are attacking all those not telling you what you want to hear.in every nonsense there is sense!pick d sense n leave d nonsense. As for Dat guy d combination of drink,smoke n asking you to go to back seat cos of his friend doesn't depict a man that respects a woman,cos he could come home one day with a woman n ask you to go to d guest room!he might even be high n if you disobey he could give you d beating of your life, s next day wen his eyes are clear he will tell you it was alcohol. he doesn't have respect for you, relationship is not all about love but respect also!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by passionate88: 4:03pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Mprex:Thank you... It happens to guys also... Thinking they can change a girl when they start the relationship... 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by cy4cent(f): 4:04pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Sweetheart, what is your definition of advice? you are asking for advice cos you don't like d situation you are in n yet you are attacking all those not telling you what you want to hear.in every nonsense there is sense!pick d sense n leave d nonsense. As for Dat guy d combination of drink,smoke n asking you to go to back seat cos of his friend doesn't depict a man that respects a woman,cos he could come home one day with a woman n ask you to go to d guest room!he might even be high n if you disobey he could give you d beating of your life, next day wen his eyes are clear he will tell you it was alcohol. he doesn't have respect for you, relationship is not all about love but respect also!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by UTEWUOJO: 4:04pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I have not recieve my December salary up till date, therefore, i need rest of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Coolguy89(m): 4:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
You have said it,He is smoker, smokers value der fellow smoker more than any oda ppl,girl d guy is not gud for u just leave him n find anoda coolguy ,as for me no body wil sit wit me in my car wen my gurl is around d front seat wil be her permenant seat |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by passionate88: 4:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
cy4cent:So girls like this dey Nairaland? Thank God 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by elbinmanny(m): 4:07pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Small girls with front of cars....tufiakwa .. (spits) |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by MORNDEW(m): 4:07pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Eddyken:Which solution? That she opened her eyes nd was dating a smoker, abuser, drunkard etc nd kept quiet? Guy be sincere if its a broke guy will she continue? She have a car why not get a good guy nd let him drive her in front seat. Beside she did not list reasons she love the guy so much. 3 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Mintayo(m): 4:09pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
The signs are always there, Yet they neglect such signs... 2 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by youngice(m): 4:09pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I chose to be a hater, the guy obviously has no respect for you, all you babes dating g boys, the guy hammer small bar come dey treat u like slave, mtcheew oshi 3 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by angelsing(m): 4:10pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
sexyseun:well said!...just to chip in seun u look smooky on ur dp...*wipes sweat off his face and runs out of thread |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by donbabade: 4:11pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
God punish u!!! Watz ur own with my own? If I view topic he concern u? Abi weyrey labiso e nii? Uncultured Toad Pes13: |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by elbinmanny(m): 4:13pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
The Bible says " Thou shall not fornicate" ...yet una dey straff like dogs for mating season...smoking wey no dey 10 commandment na all of una dey kick against...walahi hypocrites na dem full this nairaland o I smoke and drink ...yet respects my woman... its a character issue no that of a habit so na smoking bad pass the 69 wey all of una dey do? 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Neldrizzy(m): 4:13pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann:so Чou have a bf ?? |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by cy4cent(f): 4:13pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
passionate88:passionate 88, I no understand what you mean ooo |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by freecocoa(f): 4:16pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I honestly don't understand how one can put up with a guy who derives joy in being an a$$hole, the fact that he's not changed after always promising to, is enough to tell you he isn't changing any time soon, if he ever changes. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by lesluga: 4:20pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
andromida: Make she leave d guy mk u pass her back collect am abi? andromida: Make she leave d guy mk u pass her back collect am abi? |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: Its obvious he has little or absolutely no respect for you nor the relationship..........as for the smoking you either can live with it or you can't,and if you can't be hard on yourself enough to move on . |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Koninda(m): 4:28pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
#The Fact dat he drink n smoke dnt min he's a bad guy abi ? #He witout sin alwys cast da 1st stone, mny here wil misguard u on da pssble way forward. #You or anybdy can't stop him 4rm doin wat he's already into....only God and/or mayb him as well. #U can only b source of encouragement, support e.t.c to him e.g if he do tak lik 5 sticks a day, help him reduce to 3 or 2 sticks if possble n wit tym it wil over madam n same goes to the drink madam... It a matter of tym, keep the faith And on the issue front my sis..... U can play politics in evry xpect of ur life. u knw ur guy is da type dat alwys say, babe abeg leave da front seat 4 my padi....my advce here is, as soon as he stops 4 his frnds, kindly open door n say bros com tak da front seat ..he may say No or he may accpt base on hw coded da guy is sha..bt if he accpt it, use da the bck seat...use the middle btw the two front seats n relax ur shoulder dear. I guess is even more romantic than setin at da front .... Finally don't 4gt, God is the answer ! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by lovelyadeola(m): 4:29pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
GUESS PLEASE?
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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by D33VA(f): 4:30pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Communicate with ur partner. #dats all |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by DesChyko: 4:33pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Juliaann: This is your reaction to the best advice on this thread? Your problem must be from the village. Don't ask for advice if you aren't ready to take one. Peace! 3 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by 14DUI(m): 4:36pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Girls love bad guys, this is another case study. As for the car thingy, make sure anytime you are going out, be the driver; that way even if he want his friend in the car, they can occupied the back sit if they want to. if the guy get shame, he will stay in the front with you. Regard the smoking stuff, he wont change, even prayer cant stop him from smoking. Accept him or leave. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Juliaann(f): 4:36pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
DesChyko:Mr man swerve 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by tonychristopher: 4:38pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
I just don't know why many girls are clueless and funny I do that ..my wife knows that she goes behind once I pick my friend and we are okay with that Its my car ..now I still smoke and she aunt happy on that So if your not okay with the heat pls leave the kitchen |
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