I had a misunderstanding with my sweetie for like a week now and he is angry with me. He hasn't been responding well to my chats and calls. Yesterday I needed to call an aunt of mine who had an accident and I was already home from work. My estate gate was locked and I didn't have a dime on my phone, I chatted him and told him to please send me credit cos I knew he will still be on his way back from work,he said he doesn't have. This morning he sent me the credit and when I tried to call him back to thank him and just have a good chat he was still sounding like he didn't want to talk to me of which he didn't pick my call but he called me back. Is he still angry? Did he send d credit in annoyance or because he actually cared?? why did he call me when he still sounding angry on the call??

if you ask me!!! na hu I go ask

*Yawns*ion understand;;;;;YOU DIN HAFF a DIMM;bt YOU CALLED HiM TO SEND YOU AIRTIME?(shooooouuuu?)ok;;;;;see abeg repeat am again

remsonik:
I had a misunderstanding with my sweetie for like a week now and he is angry with me. He hasn't been responding well to my chats and calls. Yesterday I needed to call an aunt of mine who had an accident and I was already home from work. My estate gate was locked and I didn't have a dime on my phone, I called him and told him to please send me credit cos I knew he will still be on his way back from work,he said he doesn't have. This morning he sent me the credit and when I tried to call him back to thank him and just have a good chat he was still sounding like he didn't want to talk to me of which he didn't pick my call but he called me back. Is he still angry? Did he send d credit in annoyance or because he actually cared?? why did he call me when he still sounding angry on the call??

What exactly did you do?
Apparently he is still upset about the misunderstanding but he is still willing to be there for you

You are dating someone and you can't even tell if he's angry or not. LMAO. Whatever rocks your boat Hun...

bisous:

What exactly did you do?
Apparently he is still upset about the misunderstanding but he is still willing to be there for you

Cos he went ahead to pay for something which we both agreed that should be on hold till next year. I got angry with him and he accused me of insulting him

FLAWLES:
*Yawns*ion understand;;;;;YOU DIN HAFF a DIMM;bt YOU CALLED HiM TO SEND YOU AIRTIME?(shooooouuuu?)ok;;;;;see abeg repeat am again

Oh I didn't call I sent him a msg on bbm chat

remsonik:
I had a misunderstanding with my sweetie for like a week now and he is angry with me. He hasn't been responding well to my chats and calls. Yesterday I needed to call an aunt of mine who had an accident and I was already home from work. My estate gate was locked and I didn't have a dime on my phone, I chatted him and told him to please send me credit cos I knew he will still be on his way back from work,he said he doesn't have. This morning he sent me the credit and when I tried to call him back to thank him and just have a good chat he was still sounding like he didn't want to talk to me of which he didn't pick my call but he called me back. Is he still angry? Did he send d credit in annoyance or because he actually cared?? why did he call me when he still sounding angry on the call??

You just answered yourself sweetie

remsonik:

Oh I didn't call I sent him a msg on bbm chat

.ok

remsonik:

Cos he went ahead to pay for something which we both agreed that should be on hold till next year. I got angry with him and he accused me of insulting him

I think every woman should read fascinating woman by Helen Andelin,its one of the best books on relationships I have come across......anyways you both agreed it should be on hold and he thought otherwise and so he used his veto(which is vital to every man's ego) power as the man to pay for it and then you got angry
1) He isn't your child that must do as you have said
2) He is the man allow him and his ego to sometimes use that veto power so that he can b the man in the relationship
3) He went ahead despite your agreement that should have been your point of argument not saying anything that will make him feel insulted
4) Apologize to him and make him understand that the reason you were upset was because you had an agreement and he reneged on that agreement meaning he didn't respect your agreement
Basically what am saying is state your case without getting emotional about it.......

bisous:


I think every woman should read fascinating woman by Helen Andelin,its one of the best books on relationships I have come across......anyways you both agreed it should be on hold and he thought otherwise and so he used his veto(which is vital to every man's ego) power as the man to pay for it and then you got angry
1) He isn't your child that must do as you have said
2) He is the man allow him and his ego to sometimes use that veto power so that he can b the man in the relationship
3) He went ahead despite your agreement that should have been your point of argument not saying anything that will make him feel insulted
4) Apologize to him and make him understand that the reason you were upset was because you had an agreement and he reneged on that agreement meaning he didn't respect your agreement
Basically what am saying is state your case without getting emotional about it.......

Ok.....thanks I already apologised

if u cry almost everyday in ur relationship,jst sit down nd ask urself"am i datin a human being or an onion....

He's still your man hun, he is prolly still upset but will come around, just keep being nice and show him love as before. One getting angry is allowed, we're humans

Cared

remsonik:

Ok.....thanks I already apologised

Good move .......since you did allow him come round....wish you well

whytnblack:
if u cry almost everyday in ur relationship,jst sit down nd ask urself"am i datin a human being or an onion....

LMAO....nice one

bisous:

Good move .......since you did allow him come round....wish you well

Thank you so much

whytnblack:
if u cry almost everyday in ur relationship,jst sit down nd ask urself"am i datin a human being or an onion....

I don't cry and he's simply a good man

I think he is still angry. Though, he sent you the airtime because he cared. I shall advice you to have heart to heart talk to clear up the anger and set things right. Try call him and stamp the matter out. I hope this is gonna work.

syras:
I think he is still angry. Though, he sent you the airtime because he cared. I shall advice you to have heart to heart talk to clear up the anger and set things right. Try call him and stamp the matter out. I hope this is gonna work.

Thanks.....I am actually awake waiting for him to get home. We have to resolve it tonight

remsonik:

Cos he went ahead to pay for something which we both agreed that should be on hold till next year. I got angry with him and he accused me of insulting him

.....The thing no get name Madam?

He is still angry nd acting weird after u av apologized?? Thats childish

DonaldGenes:


.....The thing no get name Madam?

Haba, must u know every thing?? So jst cause u wanna advice her nah (which might not even be reasonable/useful at the end of the day) she has to give every little detail? Nawa o

DonaldGenes:


.....The thing no get name Madam?

He insisted on changing his old car while we agreed the money will be used to get a decent flat for him as he stays with his elder brother then he can change his car next year. He said the car is too old and no one uses that type again that it doesn't dignify him. I insisted that a man's worth isn't measured by how flashy they look of which I am not complaining even his peeps are not complaining.

So he is still angry?..*sips juice*


*Observing*

remsonik:

He insisted on changing his old car while we agreed the money will be used to get a decent flat for him as he stays with his elder brother then he can change his car next year. He said the car is too old and no one uses that type again that it doesn't dignify him. I insisted that a man's worth isn't measured by how flashy they look of which I am not complaining even his peeps are not complaining.

You're widely Material .A very good one a that but this issue of recharge card ehhh

remsonik:
I had a misunderstanding with my sweetie for like a week now and he is angry with me. He hasn't been responding well to my chats and calls. Yesterday I needed to call an aunt of mine who had an accident and I was already home from work. My estate gate was locked and I didn't have a dime on my phone, I chatted him and told him to please send me credit cos I knew he will still be on his way back from work,he said he doesn't have. This morning he sent me the credit and when I tried to call him back to thank him and just have a good chat he was still sounding like he didn't want to talk to me of which he didn't pick my call but he called me back. Is he still angry? Did he send d credit in annoyance or because he actually cared?? why did he call me when he still sounding angry on the call??

No! He's happy!


















Wetin concern us for this una matter

Op to call u mumu de hungry me die but hey no as a man of God I can't do dat is against ma calling
U came to a faceless forum to ask us weda ur boi friend whom u spoke to heard his harsh voice even u chatted him self only for u to come here and ask us weda he is angry with u
Dat means u de call us winches nah for us to knw his mood

Naija babes nd credit . U want him to gt a flat so he can settle down wit u asap Abeg call ur guy nd sort it out. Nl cNt hlp u

bisous:


I think every woman should read fascinating woman by Helen Andelin,its one of the best books on relationships I have come across......anyways you both agreed it should be on hold and he thought otherwise and so he used his veto(which is vital to every man's ego) power as the man to pay for it and then you got angry
1) He isn't your child that must do as you have said
2) He is the man allow him and his ego to sometimes use that veto power so that he can b the man in the relationship
3) He went ahead despite your agreement that should have been your point of argument not saying anything that will make him feel insulted
4) Apologize to him and make him understand that the reason you were upset was because you had an agreement and he reneged on that agreement meaning he didn't respect your agreement
Basically what am saying is state your case without getting emotional about it.......

I do not agree with the above post.

Being a guy doesn't give one the right to go back on any agreement reached with the lady without proper cobsultation with her. Its very disrespectful.

If at all the guy thought it wise to breach the agreement, he should have discussed this first with the lady in order for them to be on the same page.

The 'Alfa male syndrome' shouldn't apply here.

Remsonik,

If your guy is still acting all worked up then go and talk to him about it.

Let him know the reason you reacted that way and if he still feels insulted ask him to let you know what he wasn't particularly happy with.

If his reason for being upset has a proper footing then an apology would be in order.

If he has an ounce of maturity in him, he should also apologize for going back on the agreement.

ednut1:
Naija babes nd credit . U want him to gt a flat so he can settle down wit u asap Abeg call ur guy nd sort it out. Nl cNt hlp u

Well I never asked him such before..........I had a urgent need and I had to ask him of which he's aware of the person I needed to call at that time. Mind you I was only interested in his wellbeing as is brothers house is choked up and its time for him to be on his own. I am not desperate to tie the knot and for your information I work and earn a decent living