alphaomega:


words of a childish feminist-to be..

coolfredo:
It will nt work for u cos ur mama knows u r nt 21yr , she knows ur real age, fogt ur "football age"

Kachisbarbie:

remsonik:

The only reason you are writing this post is probably simply because you regretted not doing some things or achieving some of your goals which could have been better done when you were single.

remsonik:
Op is married and you are here telling people to marry later in life. Is it when I am 50 that i will marry?? Mind you once you have all that you nees to sustain that marriàge and make it work pls get married!!!
For some people it happens at 20 and for some later but once u re matured and comfortable enough to sustain a family pls do marry!!! MInd you a lady's body isn't designed for child bearing past the age of 35 cos a lot of complications will come with it.

Kachisbarbie:


yeayeaaaa

Sweetie, I am very much aware of that.
Now, tell me something I am not aware of.
Thanks

chibwike:
I haven't met anyone...buh i really wanna get married before 25th...is that possible?

Beennkumar:
You've got a point. Nice thread.

I think I prefer getting married early though, at least, being a grandpa at 50 ain't a bad idea.

Kachisbarbie:


[i]Is this top 10?
Personal? Romantic side of me?
What's yo definition of those words?
You wanna see a thread on how I twerk on the D*ck or what?
Pls elucidate.....

FolarinLondon:
The most important thing before going into marriage is to ensure that your fiance or fiancee is in love with you. Please, make sure that you are 200% sure she/he is in love with you because if you miss it at that point in time, that is the beginning of the end of the marriage.

No marriage can stand the test of time without the foundation of the marriage being built on Love.

Don't ever take or equate "I love you" to genuine love. Don't even bother about this simple sentence; it has no value.

Let his/her actions be your Cursor in the relationship, let his/her action tell you what to believe " Either he/she loves you or not"

It's pretty easy to know who is 200% in love with you.

After genuine feeling/love has been established, there questions that need to be answered individually and the most important one is; Am i happy as an individual, if you not, it ll be hard to give what you don't have and that is why you need an happy independent life before marriage. Are you mentally(maturity comes out of this) and spiritually ready to lead a woman? if you not, there is no point dragging an innocent soul into your unknown world. As a woman, am i ready to support my man spiritually and mentally? if the answer is no, there is no point saying yes to his proposal but if you ignorantly accepte is proposal cos of your own selfishness, i can assure you that you are still coming back to that single ladies world you are running away from.

Finally, ensure you have mentors(people in happy marriage) who would advise you from time to time cos no matter how compatiable you both are, issues ll always arise and sometimes, you need more than your own wisdom to deal with it. Equally ensure you surround your marriage with people in their own happy marriages.

Make him/her your best friend, be adventurous, do new things together and ensure that God element is not left out in your marriage.

If you are fortunate to find your destined woman or man, you could settle down at age 18yrs old and nothing ll stand on your way to success in life. Having a man/woman in your life would even speed up the success of your career.

Dymondgurl:
I pray our parents, especially our mothers, will understand

Kachisbarbie:

ireneony:
see funny thread o everyone here will definitely get married. no need to give us reasons

merry xmas to you all
i love you all

Kingscee:
How old are you? them dey pressurized you?

Kachisbarbie:

My marital status is not the topic here Ma'am


Please what's your definition of hypocrisy?did I stamp the thread and impose it on everyone/anyone?
So bc I am married, I should 'force' every other lady to do same?
Are all my topics on NL supposed to be centred on my life? I never knew that.



Now, this is the topic @hand.
Thanks

chisco82:


Please mam, give right advice to your, did you make enough money more than u can finish before getting married?
Did you get your Phd before getting married?
From your post during Djdolla's case i realised that you are married already so why deceiving the young ones here?
Though it should n't be a do or die affair but every grown up adult should aspire for it.
★Shalom★

Kachisbarbie:


ohhh.
Y'all are misconstrueing the point joor.
Did I say anyone shouldn't marry ni?
I done tire to explain.

chisco82:

Are the ladies going to marry when they have entered menopause or the Men when andropause took place?

Kachisbarbie:

Kachisbarbie:


I am replying you for specific reasons. Your refuting points doesn't really tally with my points.
I never specified the extent of the wealth/career.

Kachisbarbie:

1: It gives you time to build your education/career: A sound educational qualification is a good step to building your career. Growing a career takes a lot of time/energy which you might not be able to spare when you have a family.

2: Financial Independence/Stability: All things being equal, financial stability should go alongside a career. If you're a prudent bachelor/spinster, this is the time to save and make investments. You would be needing the money later in life. #Owo ni koko grin

Kachisbarbie:


Once again, I said later. Check up the definition biko

Kachisbarbie:


You're the priest/pastor that wedded me?