baba11:
so do you wanna tell me that you haven't been with any guy prior now....I doubt you...even as close to you as blossom friend # maybe possible sha.....

Ofcourse, alot of friends indeed but no string attached from my own side; was afraid of Commitment.....

Davivah:



Ofcourse, alot of friends indeed but no string attached from my own side; was afraid of Commitment.....

You must be really brainy be that oooo....that aparts,I hop you are not here to derail our thread because I can deduce from your profile that you're just registering today....are you f or m#identityconceal.....

baba11:
You must be really brainy be that oooo....that aparts,I hop you are not here to derail our thread because I can deduce from your profile that you're just registering today....are you f or m#identityconceal.....

Muslim Sis; change of name n email,I get stalkers

Davivah:


Muslim Sis

really?!
Nice one
Welcome on board....

olamidey3:
her parents are practising muslims, she told me it will b difficult for her to go back to islam, just hoping I can convince her

How versed are you in terms of Islam, can you teach her the true teachings?

olamidey3:
her parents are practising muslims, she told me it will b difficult for her to go back to islam, just hoping I can convince her

If she doesn't change before your marriage, the chances that she'll change after is small.

My advice: RUN!

maclatunji:


How versed are you in terms of Islam, can you teach her the true teachings?

little knowledge, just start learnin arabic, bt dn't miss my 5 daily prayers n always listen n attend tafsir n hoping to grow more in Islam. I'm proud to b a muslim. So need to stay away frm hinderance

maclatunji:


I am beginning to wish I am taken you know.

@Tayras, you are appreciated. Allah knows best and may he grant us the best spouses (Ameen).

Shukran yah Akhi; Ameen to your du'a

Davivah:



Shukran yah Akhi; Ameen to your du'a

You are welcome.

As Salaamu Alaykum,
Then young sister who said sdhe is waiting for the brother with all this criteria that is just foolish and yes Granny would be upset. The is no perfect man sweety no not and as time goes by more in more qualified men disappear. You want a man that is Religious Religious Religious because you have to obey him and if he is of no Tawa of Allah he will ruin you. Money is important as long as he can feed you cloth you and place you in a home or apt its good Allah will provide. But if you young Muslims struck with this mind of you want a perfectly finicially and educated husband and men theory want a perfectly beautiful wife you gonna look around and be old and alone. Sisters our life is not complete without families of our own. Women with pickiness end up with no husband and no children working all their lives living with cats. And I live in America I see it all day long. Young sisters waste their childbearing years chasing colloege and jobs its massive brainwash. We need to turn off the T.V and music Authu Bill ah and pick up the Qurand Hadeeyhs and find our roles as some. Muslim women. Do let your youth pass you by.take my advise I'm Muslim 9yrs its how Allah chos me but I'm tell in you at 14 I needed to be married. But Allah chose me at 26 by that time I was just figuring it all out. I can see why you still want freedom. But that freedom gonna get them dishonored. Get married my young people dont waste your youth and risk commiting zina. Fear Allah and no muslim women can never marry a christain man. In African they do but in Islam it is Haraaam . an a picky girl shouldn't be talking to any boys her father should be talking to boys not her. Obviously she is a virgin? I'm praying because only fast girls choose there own husband and for a virgin in Islam that is haraam and the marriage is invalid? So in truth these vvirgin boys and young girls should be online even talking about marriage. A young man if he is not financially stable and a young women if she is a virgin simple. Third party is Shaaytaan. And Im a mother and and Elder. So Fear Allah young people

^Thank you for the advice.

bro latunji,you have been following this trend since sept 2011 thats awesome

Dikolas:
bro latunji,you have been following this trend since sept 2011 thats awesome

Thank you bro.

For those of is that want 4 girls nko?

say4gunit:
For those of is that want 4 girls nko?

Start with one first.

AbdH:


Start with one first.

Abi, and let her know about your plan to marry 4.

maclatunji:


Abi, and let her know about your plan to marry 4.

Lobatan.

maclatunji:


Abi, and let her know about your plan to marry 4.

why letting her know that you would marry 4?

busar:
why letting her know that you would marry 4?

The man has the confidence to say that he wants to marry 4 women, he should have the confidence to tell his potential first wife na.

He should be confident, that way he will not waste his time and those of women who can't stand the thought of a second wife talk less of marrying four.

Many ladies have said there are very few good "husband material " among men. However, the MSMS has thrown-up so many profiles of young men with good prospects as husbands , we have not found ladies to match them with. https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms#29129334

So, where are the single ladies that are searching at?

No one to answer my question. It is very easy to make theories and assertions but when they are tested many fail to hold any substance.

Is it safe to say that the assertion that "there are few suitable single men available for marriage has been debunked"?

I think so.

maclatunji:
No one to answer my question. It is very easy to make theories and assertions but when they are tested many fail to hold any substance.

Is it safe to say that the assertion that "there are few suitable single men available for marriage has been debunked"?

I think so.

I don't agree with you because I have witness several scenario whereby a guy was ready to settle down but couldn't see/meet her 'taste '.Although, no thanks to the present economic situation in the country.... now tell me.. who's going to marry a liability as wife

Folks are basically skeptical primarily because of economy. It's not easy indeed. It's not only in Nigeria.

^^Present economic situation can't be wish away When considering settling down....

Both couple has a role to play in it.....

maclatunji:
No one to answer my question. It is very easy to make theories and assertions but when they are tested many fail to hold any substance.

Is it safe to say that the assertion that "there are few suitable single men available for marriage has been debunked"?

I think so.

They are afraid of falling into the wrong hands

Now Following . . . but I guess I came at a time the thread can be described as 'dead'

Keyana:
Now Following . . . but I guess I came at a time the thread can be described as 'dead'

..Not really,it has been upgraded to real match-matching service..If you don't mind,you can put in for it..lol!

Davivah:



They are afraid of falling into the wrong hands

Ok.

baba11:
..Not really,it has been upgraded to real match-matching service..If you don't mind,you can put in for it..lol!

… and how do I sign up? #morning

Keyana:

… and how do I sign up? #morning

Kindly follow this link and if you have any other questions to ask,tell me:

https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms

baba11:

Kindly follow this link and if you have any other questions to ask,tell me:

https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms

alright, will do that. Jazaks!

Keyana:
alright, will do that. Jazaks!

Wa iyyakum