Am new in this forum, pls guys i need your advice. No insults please. Here goes my dilemma; there's this girl i have been dating for some time now, it's been more than a year actually. I love her so much and i believe she does so as well. Am so scared of losing her. Our relationship is a distant one anyway. Your candid advice peeps. Compliments of the season.

Okay just in case

I don't understand, @Korel

You sound insecure. or does she give you reason to doubt? if not. try and be a great guy, so she would be afraid of losing you

korel9:
Okay just in case

No hope for this trash...

If only shes scared of loosing you

Use rope

Simplemach, lol.

Latoch:
Am new in this forum, pls guys i need your advice. No insults please. Here goes my dilemma; there's this girl i have been dating for some time now, it's been more than a year actually. I love her so much and i believe she does so as well. Am so scared of losing her. Our relationship is a distant one anyway. Your candid advice peeps. Compliments of the season.

It's a Self-fulfilling prophecy.

You will surely lose her.

Because you are insecure about the relationship.

Your fear of losing her will push you to hurt her unintentionally by your "protective" instincts thereby stifling her.

This will push her to seek a way out of the relationship.

Your wish, though unwanted, becomes a painful reality.

A self-fulfilling prophecy I say...

Simple ways to make sure you'll never lose her;





1. Find a high quality rope (not China made oooo), bind it around her waist and drag her around to wherever you go!










2. Meet that Baba for your village and beg him to tie 2 of you together under him calabash (you must have seen it done in Nollywood) .










3. Go and make mega money! That way, you'll be sure that she's the one chasing after you!







Outside these 3 ways, you're OYO!

iceberylin:
If only shes scared of loosing you

word!

iceberylin:
If only shes scared of loosing you

fact!!!

Simple equation!!! The solution to your dilemma is in your post; turn the table around and let her do the chase.

This is the right time for you to know if you are wasting your time or not. Stop the calls, attention and of course the whinning about how much can't live without her.

If you can't survive this abstinence for like a week to three weeks, start making friend with another babe you like so much; you are only doing this so as to divert your attention away from her but if you are the type that could move on for that period of time, good for you. then, pay your attention to something more productive..................

Henceforth, stop chasing her, engage your time in something you enjoy doing and if you are d jobless type; still looking for job i meant, then engage in skills acquisition and let her do the chase. The more you look desperate to her, the more she is running after a guy who knows how to play his game.

If she likes you, she would chase you but if she doesn't call you throughout that stipulated period of time, bro, move on as fast you can cos there is no point wasting your precious time on a long ting.

And finally, never be a rebound.........................

She's probably having sex with some dude right now....

Don't let doubt creep in bro!
And please don't be insecure!

The relationship needs more considering the distance involved! And don't worsen it with your insecurity.

Just keep loving her, don't fail to express it at every given opportunity.

Endeavor to visit her or she visits once in a while and as often as possible.

That's all.

And relationship isn't one way, she must be willing too!

iceberylin:

No hope for this trash...

Every ish has hope on nairaland these days

Why are you scared of losing her when you have lost her already.
Brace up

Thanks guys!

Y ARE U SCARING OF LOOSENING HER NA

Don't create pyromanansial drinculum for ur self@OP, What will be will be. Just pray she doesn't get to know u r afraid of loosing her if she does then you have enter a return-returnee one chance.

wtf?

Op I was in a distance relationship longer than U can guess, it's a relationship for d strong hearted coz she couldn't stop saying " Kenny, I know U are strong" even after she broke up with me. So bruh, when going into distance relationship always prepare that the worst can happen any time.

Don't ignore any signs no matter how big or small they are, and if symptoms persist, consult ur heart for a possible breakup.
Won't mind giving distance relationship another chance if she's worth it...