I'm guessing many of you on seeing the topic of this thread, would have thought I wanted to start whinning about how my friend's ex-girl friend is hitting on me.... Errrrrmmm....Unfortunately that's not the case, not quite unfortunately though because the dudette has major scroin scroin

Anyways...My friend's ex girlfriend and I are friends on BBM....we are kinda cordial...A little bit above the "hi hi" flow. Now, my friend recently deleted her from his bbm... The question is, in a bid to prove my unflinching loyalty to my buddie(one of the two best buddies I have on earth) should I also delete her?... Would it make me come across as petty and immature?

Or is it actually the next reasonably objective thing to do

Bro it depends......

On what?...

Eating iru wit eko.

^^For your mind now you don make sense abi

Why will u delete her? Don't you have a mind of your own?

^^The mind of my own wants to delete her because I feel there's no point having her on my bbm since she's no longer my friend's woman

I'm just trying to garner opinions

dpndz on hw close u are wit d gal.if u both re gud frndz,u shouldn't dlete her nd ur guy shld understnd

jayRemi7:
dpndz on hw close u are wit d gal.if u both re gud frndz,u shouldn't dlete her nd ur guy shld understnd

I would say we chat like once in 3weeks...but when we do, we may end up chatting uninterruptedly for 2hours.

The thing is, I diss and tease my friend alot with my pms and dps... So I'm just thinking that if I still keep her on my bbm, she may have intermittent sneak peeks into what's going on in my friend's life..... Which of course isn't supposed to be so, because they are now exes

1one:


I would say we chat like once in 3weeks...but when we do, we may end up chatting uninterruptedly for 2hours.

The thing is, I diss and tease my friend alot with my pms and dps... So I'm just thinking that if I still keep her on my bbm, she may have intermittent sneak peeks into what's going on in my friend's life..... Which of course isn't supposed to be so, because they are now exes

hmm,,3 weeks is a hell of lng time 2 not talk 2 sum1,buh on ma part 2hourz evry 3wiks z enof 2 make u a veri gud buddy of mine..well,i wouldnt dlete her,dats if i were u buh i aint u,ure u so u gotta make a choice,i'd suggest u folow ur heart.inner voice givz da best advice most times.

1one:
^^The mind of my own wants to delete her because I feel there's no point having her on my bbm since she's no longer my friend's woman

I'm just trying to garner opinions

Since you've already made up ur mind don't you think there's no point seeking for other people's opinion.

Lols na you date her
Funny question

1one:
^^The mind of my own wants to delete her because I feel there's no point having her on my bbm since she's no longer my friend's woman

I'm just trying to garner opinions

small pikin dey worry u

Guy code 101,loyalty to your brother..

Exes can go to hell.

jayRemi7:
hmm,,3 weeks is a hell of lng time 2 not talk 2 sum1,buh on ma part 2hourz evry 3wiks z enof 2 make u a veri gud buddy of mine..well,i wouldnt dlete her,dats if i were u buh i aint u,ure u so u gotta make a choice,i'd suggest u folow ur heart.inner voice givz da best advice most times.

Thanks a bunch.

Yomieluv:
Guy code 101,loyalty to your brother..

Exes can go to hell.

Hehehe
True that

samflexxy:
Lols na you date her
Funny question

Oluwatosean:
small pikin dey worry u

Thanks for dropping by Grandpa

What if they come back 2geda, what now happens... U re-add

Guys and dem mumu brain... My 1cent

shortgun:

Since you've already made up ur mind don't you think there's no point seeking for other people's opinion.

Honestly I've not made any cast in stone decision yet, it's just that one of my possible choices may be weightier than the other at the moment... Just want to know what people think.

Peer pressure?? Or is it 'my best friend syndrome'??

Lol!!!

Dude your life shouldn't revolve around your friends, no matter how close they are to you.

Their friends need not be your friends, let alone their 'enemies'.

Personally, I stay clear of all my friends girls. I don't store their numbers, I don't accept their BBM pins, I don't even help them solve any relationship challenge.

Since you'd rather be close to the girls of your friends and it works for you then good but you need not throw away a friendship built with them because your buddies can no lomger be with them.

countsparrow:
What if they come back 2get what now happens... U re-add

Guys and dem mumu brain... My 1cent

Well...If they do(I honestly doubt it though), I don't think I would re-add her to avoid that awkward "hey so let me have your pin again"

1one:


Well...If they do(I honestly doubt it though), I don't think I would re-add her to avoid that awkward "hey so let me have your pin again"

So deleting her in d first place doesn't make sense...

striktlymi:
Peer pressure?? Or is it 'my best friend syndrome'??

Lol!!!

Dude your life shouldn't revolve around your friends, no matter how close they are to you.

Their friends need not be your friends, let alone their 'enemies'.

Personally, I stay clear of all my friends girls. I don't store their numbers, I don't accept their BBM pins, I don't even help them solve any relationship challenge.

Since you'd rather be close to the girls of your friends and it works for then good but you need not throw away a friendship built with them because your buddies can no lomger be with them.

Lol.

I understand what you're saying perfectly, but to avoid being overly lengthy in my reply, I wouldn't want to render some submissions that may make you see exactly why I'm even asking this question in the first place.

That said, I steer clear my friend's girlfriends too and I don't think anybody does it better than me to be honest, and that's why this case is kinda peculiar.

Thanks for your reply.

countsparrow:


So deleting her in d first place doesn't make sense...

So let me ask, and I hope you can be as candid as possible, would you feel good if your buddie and your ex are [constantly] chatting up on social media?

1one:


Thanks for dropping by Grandpa

lol



Back to the topic.

It would be better if you try to reconcile them than deleting her,that's what shows that you're their friends + you'll be respected by both parties

Janeify:
lol



Back to the topic.

It would be better if you try to reconcile them than deleting her,that's what shows that you're their friends + you'll be respected by both parties

Make I no lie you my sister...Their matter don pass reconciliation and quite honestly I wouldn't want them to be reconciled because she gave my friend so "much less" than he deserved, and that's a very unbiased submission, I'm not saying so because he's my friend.. When you're talking of mood swings, she's the world heavy weight champion.

I've finally decided to keep her... When she's tired, she would of herself delete me.

1one:


Make I no lie you my sister...Their matter don pass reconciliation and quite honestly I wouldn't want them to be reconciled because she gave my friend so "much less" than he deserved, and that's a very unbiased submission, I'm not saying so because he's my friend.. When you're talking of mood swings, she's the world heavy weight champion.

I've finally decided to keep her... When she's tired, she would of herself delete me.

All good.
Your decision is what matters, it's good to avoid stories that touch later on

Isnt she ur frnd?

1one:
^^The mind of my own wants to delete her because I feel there's no point having her on my bbm since she's no longer my friend's woman

I'm just trying to garner opinions

starling:
Isnt she ur frnd?

In a manner of speaking, yes she is

So y do u want to delete her? Its she nd ur frnd dat has isshh not d both of Ɣ☺ΰ... I know u will be feelin awkward bin in d middle but u deletin her isnt goin to be fair

1one:


In a manner of speaking, yes she is