safarigirl:
phucked up mindset.

Nobody will be doing any phuckin' until you've paid my dowry, but if you want, you can exorcise your demons outside. Just incase it doesn't work out, I won't be the one with regrets

hey stuuupid biiiiitch dont just try me with your maggot behaviour, cos am gonna burn you alive.

Be warned......make u no try me.

Hmmmm....Sex sha. I don't believe in that philosophy....I dated my ex for over a year and I didn't even touch her not that am an "okobo" but because I believe genuine love is not about sex. although it wasn't easy for me but God's grace is always there for me. funny enough she jilted me and eventually left me.

he will gain alot oh,at least all those who didnt give him sex wil attend his wedding ;Dhe will gain alot oh,at least all those who didnt give him sex wil attend his wedding

braintext:
Is dating and relationship all about SEX??

yes, it is all about sex

Thebrightest:
Who love and respect don help

Mprex:
So the guy asked the girl out not because he loves her but because he wants to "gain" from her?


Disabusing the mindset of this generation will be one hell of a job

But one way or the other. That would come to play later in the relationship.. it's a shark and remora association my sister only if u re just trying to feign ignorance

Louis055:
Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

VERY SIMPLE, if she says "no sex" then u tell her "no money "

he will gain zip up.

midasbliss:
Seriously? Must u have sex?
Sex this, sex that...
You saying gain like she is some kinda business or commodity :-/

Op@ dis are the type of girls your gf make friends with, always looking for d next maga to hit! watchout man some one else is combing her mercilessly!

Why would sex be the basis of love ?

All I kn is dat once relationship is mentioned, d lady involved should not put rules in dat relationship becos if d guy puts his own rules, d relationship will not stand. e.g if d lady says no sex until marriage and d guy says no gifts and money until marriage, d lady will leave. I tink better understanding and once in a month enjoyment should be there becos is called relationship and not causal friendship.

djeezy:
All my previous relationships I've been sleeping with the girls. I never knew what it felt like dating a girl and not having sex with her. So I decided to take sex away in my current relationship and to my dismay, I still love her. As for what you gain, there are whole lots of it. Only the thought of knowing there's someone out there who truly loves and care for you is enough gain for me.

SECONDED !!!!

If u fall for the platonic bullshit, don't be surprised if after breakup, she may even deny she ever dated you or even met you in real life
Sex is like a bargaining right guys have over girls for life. She will always acknowledge the fact that you v marked her register &would respect u even if u Guyz r not together anymore.

mencade4:
hey stuuupid biiiiitch dont just try me with your maggot behaviour, cos am gonna burn you alive.

Be warned......make u no try me.

the only stuuupiddd biiitch is the one who trained an eediotic scoundrel as yourself.

Any man trained by a proper woman would never have your debased mentality. If you like, when you have daughters give them to every eediot that expresses interest in them so they can be used and dumped like you use women. Karma is a b*tch

Now go stick your 3-inches in the poor wench tolerating your dumb azz...or you can keep talking to yourself. I'm done witcha

Tymax:

Equation balanced!

na really balance .....no time

[quote author=donpeey22 post=29248145]I smell hypocrisy on this thread

@all those saying she will buy boxers, wash your cloths, clean your house etc, if I hear! Shey she be your house maid ni?

There is a reason why she is a "girl friend" and distinct from all the other females friends in your life. You should share some moments of intimacy, including protected sex, there's nothing wrong in that. Period.

If a girl knows she isn't gonna have sex, then she shouldn't have a boyfriend in the first place. Or she can go look for some "brothers in the lord" with whom she can have that 'no sex' shit. She shouldn't be going out with a regular niccur with some raging testosterone and expect not to be banged.

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I'm prating for your soul

A lot of folks here pretending to be saints just to get some likes. If you gain nothing in a relationship what's the essence being in the relationship? Each person has his own definition of "gain" so if sombody says he gains sex its his choice and should not be castigated for that.

If she really say no to sex,den she shold be a motivator,if not I go giv her red card.

youngds:

Op@ dis are the type of girls your gf make friends with, always looking for d next maga to hit! watchout man some one else is combing her mercilessly!

na so them dey do

djeezy:
All my previous relationships I've been sleeping with the girls. I never knew what it felt like dating a girl and not having sex with her. So I decided to take sex away in my current relationship and to my dismay, I still love her. As for what you gain, there are whole lots of it. Only the thought of knowing there's someone out there who truly loves and care for you is enough gain for me.

u want 2 prove if she truly loves u...give me her digit make i sync her with some phone5EX!

kachimor:
All I kn is dat once relationship is mentioned, d lady involved should not put rules in dat relationship becos if d guy puts his own rules, d relationship will not stand. e.g if d lady says no sex until marriage and d guy says no gifts and money until marriage, d lady will leave. I tink better understanding and once in a month enjoyment should be there becos is called relationship and not causal friendship.

so in a relationship only the guy gives gifts?

If you're dating a girl that doesn't shower you with gifts, then the babe no even like you. I can never consider sex before marriage, but I'm all for gifts

alot

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rman:
NOTHING!

Everything she claims she can do for you in a relationship without sex, you can do for yourself.

Never fall for the trick of no sex while in a relationship with any lady, unless you are 100% certain it will lead to marriage.

It is a strategy girls have devised so they can eat their cake and still have it.

Because even without sex, their emotional and financial demands will still be on you 99% of the time.

Guys, be wise.

so sex makes u feel otherwise bass
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donpeey22:
I smell hypocrisy on this thread

@all those saying she will buy boxers, wash your cloths, clean your house etc, if I hear! Shey she be your house maid ni?

There is a reason why she is a "girl friend" and distinct from all the other females friends in your life. You should share some moments of intimacy, including protected sex, there's nothing wrong in that. Period.

If a girl knows she isn't gonna have sex, then she shouldn't have a boyfriend in the first place. Or she can go look for some "brothers in the lord" with whom she can have that 'no sex' shit. She shouldn't be going out with a regular niccur with some raging testosterone and expect not to be banged.

GBAM!!!


You said it all.

Its a pity some guys are forming too holy here. "I've never had sex with my gf" bullsh*t...awon oniro oshi.

Even the girls...they expect u to buy this and buy that,and no sex...

Whoever said relationship isn't business is a fuckin gay!

Partnership toh bad...I willbuy you ferrari...you will gimme the kpomo!

Pls quote me

Sex in a r/ship is no gain!just dis-abuse ur mind from it.......Marriage is profitable bed undefiled

SEX CAUSING PROBLEMS SINCE THE TIME OF KING SOLOMON......IS RELATIONSHIPS ONLY ABOUT SEX?

eyaaaa! i go pity d poor Boy..
but why Girl go wicked like dat?

Louis055:
Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

my suggestions based on my exposure 1. Sleep with without s#x 2. Stare into each other’s eyes for extended periods of time.
3. Spend the holidays together.
4. Take care of her when she’s sick and allow her to take care of you when you’re sick
5. Write her a love letter.
6. Tell her she’s beautiful.
7. Sex is a covenant let it be the last thing to come to your mind very risk

djeezy:
All my previous relationships I've been sleeping with the girls. I never knew what it felt like dating a girl and not having sex with her. So I decided to take sex away in my current relationship and to my dismay, I still love her. As for what you gain, there are whole lots of it. Only the thought of knowing there's someone out there who truly loves and care for you is enough gain for me.

liar

Friendship, companionship, love and so much more.

If all your girl friend offers you is sex then you are dating the wrong person.
There's a whole lot more to a woman than her #$%&*^

I thought dating is to check if two ppl r compatible enough to stay together for ever. Besides a woman has other uses apart from sex. You wil have a confidant,someone who encourages you to face the world. Someone who you can tell your weakness without being scared,someone who will make you feel loved. Someone you can trust,a person you can play with..behave like a child and still retain your dignity. If only you know how sex makes a r/ship complicated. R/ship is stil fun without sex.