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I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I have tried.... I mean, really really tried but it is not just working out. I think it very odd to have a grownup lady and pamper her as if she is a toddler. If I do that to her, what pamper would be left for our children? #Just thinking aloud; soughta. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
You are WEIRD ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
![]() ![]() what kind of pampering are you talking about? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by quivah(f): 7:51pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pampering bibo? give an example care shouldn't be taken as pamper |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
badoolee: Definitely! |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by pasqal09: 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Op, pampering someone doesn't actually mean you'd treat her as a toddler |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: quivah: The kind that requires me helping the lady feel all warm and fuzzy inside when it is not necessary in my books. I guess that's still a bit vague. Let me give an example... She comes to my crib a bit down cause she had a fight with her mum... She doesn't want to talk about it just yet but expect me to pat her on the back and call her fun names etc till she gets over what I have no clue about. Haba...how do I pet someone who is not a pet? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pasqal09: Um...care to enlighten me what its all about? I go through threads where u see a guy offends a lady but the lady is expected to go back and massage his ego a bit... I may be wrong but ain't that like pampering the guy? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I believe you'll enjoy pampering at the receiving end. So do to another as you wish to be done to you. 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by quivah(f): 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: ![]() you are not pampering her, you just helping her get over and talk about it. we are wired differently you know? I don't need that much act to talk about one thing at the same time, I need it to talk about another thing(esp things I find uneasy to say) |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by pasqal09: 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: pampering your partner doesn't mean treating them as a kid just as you mentioned above |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: lol , that's childish na . 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Akdegreat: Not really... I am not really a great 'pet' even while on the receiving end. I see it as being a bit superficial. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Tymax(m): 8:09pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Words of wisdom. I tell you. 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
quivah: Lol! I truly appreciate the fact that people are different and with that difference comes different ways of relating with them but won't it be easier to come and just talk about what happened instead of wanting to be cuddled first before opening the 'cookie jar'? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pasqal09: Ohkay... Maybe I am getting it all wrong then. Care to enlighten me a bit? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: Anyway , once in a while , it spices things up . However moderation is key |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: Alas, a lady who understands... You are definitely not from Mars. What part of Earth are you from? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Akdegreat: I can live with once in a loooooooong while. Definitely will be a struggle. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Tallesty1(m): 8:17pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Too many yeyeism from them. Pampering isn't annoying as asking what you have eaten all in the name of caring. Haba, is that the only way to show that you care? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by pasqal09: 8:17pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi:can't you show care to you partner? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: Lol , am not from earth ![]() |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Its one of the ways nau |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pasqal09: I don't mean to brag (maybe just a little) but in my previous relationships I have been accused of showing too much care, such that it scares the ladies. I am not talking about care. That should be a given in any relationship. A relationship without care is so not desirable. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by pasqal09: 8:24pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi:so what are you saying then? |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey: Wow... Definitely not from Mars either... Hmmmm...maybe she's from Pluto.... That would explain a lot. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Juliaann(f): 8:28pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Pamper them o! or no pamper them! bris e no consign me jorr! |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nothing wrong with pampering. But when it's becoming too much n d lady starts acting like her life depends on it____nw dtx childish 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Tallesty1(m): 8:29pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Elantracey:E no follow. Here is what we need. My love, I just collected my salary, do you need it? It is January, have you paid your rent, I have about 100k in my account so lemme know when you are going to pay. Y'knw, stuffs like that. If I tell you say I dey hungry, wetin U go do? 1 Like |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
striktlymi: Lol , not even from Pluto , the none of the seven planets can inbreed a super human like moi ![]() |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Mynd44: 8:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Err..... Okay na. |
Re: I Cannot Pamper Any Grownup In The Name Of Relationship. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pasqal09: A lady comes to you upset... She doesn't say a word about the cause... You are clueless but expected to tell her so many sweet things in order for her to feel a bit better... She gets better after 30 minutes to one hour of constant petting... I don't know if you feel my flow? That's the kinda pampering I am talking about. At least something close. |
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