Absolutely Nothing!!!!

djeezy:
Hmmm. Your opinion bro. You guys shouldn't make a big deal out of this. When you finally find the right one, no one can bang or take her away from you. If you read my post very well,I've had sex so much that it doesn't freak me anymore.

Who cares of you have fúcked 1000 whóres in your life?
I'm only telling you the fact.

sawdust:



Bros,e b like say Ita Giwa don comot her hand for d tin oo

na she dey sponsor am b4?

This one that ladies are on fire.....answer, what else are you worth aside all the ''assests'' you flaunt? Good question!

if she says no kpekus....no wahala....but make she no complain if i start 2 dey chop kpekus outside...dat one no be cheating oo

mencade4:
na she dey sponsor am b4?

na she b senior organizer na
she dei incharge of those Brazillian Babes

study her very well,if u notice dat u ar d only guy she is dating and she is sincere,honest and kind to u,pls hold her tight and follow but in a situation u get to knw dat u ar more dan 3 dating her,guy wake up,she's taken u as muwu while odas wil b lighting her.

Relatnsip witout sex,is lik a sentence witout a ful stop....nd until u add a fulstop is nt complt

I tried checkin mai dico 2 get wat ds girlfrnd/boifrnd is al abt, I found out dat it actually mean a girl/guy (nt woman/man) u had "romantic feelinx" wit (nt for; ds mean d oda partner has d same feelin as u do) while anoda dico sayz a female/male companion wit whom one has "romantic/sexual" (d word romantic again) relationship.

If I shuld check dat on mai own aspect, am a kind of person dat I cnt av sex wit a girl/lady I av no feelin 4, dats y I cn neva imagine mysef sleepin wit a LovePeddler or runs girl, it gonna luk irritatin 2 me, if I av a girlfrnd who is ready 4 a serious relationship (I said dat cos d ladies we av now dnt wanna go in2 anytyn bein tagged "seriousness", dey prefer 2 b in d midth of many guyz so as 2 av enuf of wat dey want, nt dat a guy cnt provide bt dey hardly cope wit little) and she undastndz wat bein a girlfrnd means, den she has no excuse 2 say no sex, I dnt see dat as gain bt as wat a relationship need

D girl accept 2 b ur girlfrnd cos she belvz d two of u can work tinz out 4 gud, nt sex alone, dre ar alot a gud relationship cn produce, helpin ursefz in tym of needz, solvin problemz 2geda by sharin ideas, talk abt hw n wat d future is gonna luk lik, steps 2 take, whr 2 go, 2 mention few, av seen a lady who sponsor her boyfrnd wit financial needs n dey both get married @ d end, dats y I said serious relationship av a lot u cn eva imagine, dey wre som single guyz/ladies dat bcam rich n famous tru d help of dre partners

Som ladies av ds belv dat wit sex dey cn get wateva dey want, dats y most of dem flirt, I hp dey shuld try n undastnd dat guyz ar nt tagged "provide always" in a relationship, dre ar many ways she cn equally help 2 build a strong companion, by doin so wil mak it easy 4 d guy 2 propose cos he gonna belv he already has a gud wife he cn rely on

Letz make amendment....tnkz

No quote me oo

Sharksblow:
what many of us aren't getting is this. If you meet a lady with those good qualities you want, sex will be the last thing on your mind. How many ladies have these qualities? The OP must have observed a fall in the standard of a good wife material before he asked the question. What do I stand to gain from a girl who can't cook, wash, and help me while at work and she'll still expect me to pay bills. is that not like I'm throwing away my money?

If you meet a good girl, a really good one. The only thing on your mind will be to marry her.

hmmmmm....yaf seen life ooo.

True talk sha..

sawdust:


na she b senior organizer na
she dei incharge of those Brazillian Babes

abadiem!


And our ladies mp sano roll nyash ooooo

1stola:

Who cares of you have fúcked 1000 whóres in your life?
I'm only telling you the fact.

That's not a fact. Itz ur own opinion. If your girl banged another dude because you didn't bang her, you tell us. Stop generalising and stop thinking all girls are whores.

braintext:
Is dating and relationship all about SEX??

I tire o. Sex! Sex! Sex everywhere as if its sex that'll will cleanse d world.

lizbum:

I rest my case bro! Keep aving sex in return nd gudluck wit dat!

You have no case sis. I don't go into a relationship just because of sex but I will also not date any girl that gives me a no sex condition.

It is a fraudulent arrangement that favours only the girl.

Girls that give no sex condition should remain single till they are ready to marry.

stnwani:
when a gal closes her legs,the man zips his pocket...

I guess it's only men that make money shey?? *hiss*

My Dear, let me nt deceive myself here because am nt a pretender, i can't date a girl without Sex. Except otherwise she will nt b demanding anytin 4rm me then i can.

deavicky:
why will I guy like a girl if there will be no sex? U look at from this angle, I will stress my self toss u, maybe u played had to get. I wil, out of the pocket money my dad give me that I'm supposed to manage in school with, I will press my self and give her some. Maybe I'm working with plenty of money I will give some money, I will also spent my time calling her and even take time to comport myself before her. Infact many things to sacrifice n one of d only thing she can sacrify she would no to it.Ok u tell me what should I expect to get from d such relationship.

Since you and other pple with like mind think sex is what you gain from a relationship and nothing else, why not save your money and the stress of toasting a girl and just visit the nearest brothel i.e ashi joint, i can assure you, u will have enough sex that worth your money.
Going into a relationship means more than or at best never include sex.
It means commitment towards a life long partnership.

Louis055:
Please my fellow nairalanders I need your comments on this. How can a guy be sure if a girl loves him when she suddenly says No sex in the relationship. What else will the guy gain from dating her. Since relationship is mutual and the girl is closing her part, what will the guy be gaining from her.

Your thread title should read "Why In Gods Name Is A Guy Doing Dating A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship?"

U gain truelove n friendship,respect,value from her.she has her reasons For saying choosing that kind of relationship.if u dnt love her enough to stay with her,its best u take a walk.

donpeey22:
The guy will be watching her like a TV program.

Lmao!
Comment of the day

OlamiB:

That is work o!
But to my understanding it will only mean the relationship will stand better mainly because you are able to love each other in absence of intimacy compared to when some guys break up with a girl simply cos she got tired of the whole sex ishh, such relationship is based on sex and cnt stand the test of time in absence of sex ;Dlol! Am I free?

asko.. i no gree.. u gan sef.. i pardon u sha

quivah:
gain is relationship a kinda business or what?

are you both business associates
so sex is the only thing a girl can offer in a relationship

#disappointed!

U 've a point, but did u bring 2 'ur own relationship?

djeezy:
That's not a fact. Itz ur own opinion. If your girl banged another dude because you didn't bang her, you tell us. Stop generalising and stop thinking all girls are whores.

Not at all.
My current gf is a corper now and i started dating her last year.
To surprise you, she is a confirmed virgin. I am a medical personnel and i have checked her. That is the only thing that gives me guaranty. I even stylishly do recheck her frequently. I don't even care if someone is fúcking her in the àss.
Girls of this days ain't loyal.

dorlapoh20:
he wil gain love respect and faithfulness. A guy who dates a gal to gain should be ready for pains too

Oh please!
And the girl gains what; money, free airtime, clothes and gifts?
If the guy doesn't provide any of the above, y'all females tag him as stingy.
Yet you want to offer him love, respect and faithfulness.
That's why he's got a dog.
Ladies, if you ain't giving any, don't demand any.
You can't eat your cake and have it
.

tania28:
U gain truelove n friendship,respect,value from her.she has her reasons For saying choosing that kind of relationship.if u dnt love her enough to stay with her,its best u take a walk.

*Laughing in Afrikaans*

I never said sex in a relationship is not required but building a relationship based on sex is totally wrong. In other words, when the sex get boring, the relationship is on the verge of crashing.

For the Op to refer to sex as his only gain from a lady he claims to love is very bad. What happened to being his companion, friend, advicer, helper, and every other attributes that is expected in a relationship.

I dont care if i get bashed till next year but i totally disagree with this. If its all about sex, then its not worth it.

Cc: TheBrightest tallesty1 codeinejunkiee 1stola plaetton deavicky

SeverusSnape:
Well, That's how most guys see it, In most relationships, The lady hardly contribute in term of finance and stuffs. So the mind set is this; You can't contribute in cash, Then you can contribute in Kind.

Note: I don't buy this idea, Just saying.
And I've never had sex with my girl friend(s)

Guy u fit bet 'ur life on 'ur last statement?

1stola:

Not at all.
My current gf is a corper now and i started dating her last year.
To surprise you, she is a confirmed virgin. I am a medical personnel and i have checked her. That is the only thing that gives me guaranty. I even stylishly do recheck her frequently. I don't even care I someone is fúcking her in the àss.
Girls of this days ain't loyal.

Lol that mouth action and ass anal thing is becoming so ramnapnt now many virgins been straffed in the mouth and ass..#Sighs

midasbliss:
Seriously? Must u have sex?
Sex this, sex that...
You saying gain like she is some kinda business or commodity

Is it op's question you are answering?

Mprex:
I never said sex in a relationship is not required but building a relationship based on sex is totally wrong. In other words, when the sex get boring, the relationship is on the verge of crashing.

For the Op to refer to sex as his only gain from a lady he claims to love is very bad. What happened to being his companion, friend, advicer, helper, and every other attributes that is expected in a relationship.

I dont care if i get bashed till next year but i totally disagree with this. If its all about sex, then its not worth it.

Cc: TheBrightest tallesty1 codeinejunkiee 1stola plaetton deavicky

I deducted some logic now...

SHOCK7:

U 've a point, but did u bring 2 'ur own relationship?

I think that's something only my bf and I need to know
tell me one reason why I should tell you.

donpeey22:
I smell hypocrisy on this thread

@all those saying she will buy boxers, wash your cloths, clean your house etc, if I hear! Shey she be your house maid ni?

There is a reason why she is a "girl friend" and distinct from all the other females friends in your life. You should share some moments of intimacy, including protected sex, there's nothing wrong in that. Period.

If a girl knows she isn't gonna have sex, then she shouldn't have a boyfriend in the first place. Or she can go look for some "brothers in the lord" with whom she can have that 'no sex' shit. She shouldn't be going out with a regular niccur with some raging testosterone and expect not to be banged.

meehhn! This is exactly why I don't date; cuz even the bruhvas in the Lord are just 'regular niccurs' who wear suits to church on sundays... It is a real wa