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If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by chibwike(m): 8:37pm On Dec 28, 2014
ok, you partner just lets you be, he doesn't complain when he sees you with another guy.


Would you be bothered?

or you'd just take that he trusts you and knows you cant cheat on him.

This applies to the guys too.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by 2SWT(f): 8:40pm On Dec 28, 2014
I'll be very bothered
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by vizkiz: 8:41pm On Dec 28, 2014
a girl i only use to keep myself warm at cold nights can do whatever she wants...i don't give half furck tongue

But my girl with another dude??!! I aren't gonna get jealous,i am gonna get madangry

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Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by chibwike(m): 8:44pm On Dec 28, 2014
vizkiz:
a girl i only use to keep myself warm at cold nights can do whatever she wants...i don't give half furck tongue

But my girl with another dude??!! I aren't gonna get jealous,i am gonna get madangry
you dont get the topic...i meant, if your girl doesn't complain..when she sees u with another guy....would you be bothered?
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by chibwike(m): 8:45pm On Dec 28, 2014
2SWT:
I'll be very bothered
Lol..buh he respects ur feelings and allow you do what u want....hence, he doesn't complain when he see's u with another guy...isn't it a gud thing.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by LogoDWhiz(m): 8:48pm On Dec 28, 2014
Sure!

I'll be worried! A little bit tho, if she doesn't show any sign of jealousy.


But that's all.

Jealousy is good, shows your partner loves u.

But what I don't like is overjealously and insecurity!
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by vizkiz: 8:48pm On Dec 28, 2014
chibwike:
you dont get the topic...i meant, if your girl doesn't complain..when she sees u with another guy....would you be bothered?

uhmmmn...sorry i don't do guys undecided
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Dec 28, 2014
Yahweh is my role model,because he loves us ,he gets jealous over us ,he calls himself a jealous God,
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by chibwike(m): 8:50pm On Dec 28, 2014
vizkiz:


uhmmmn...sorry i don't do guys undecided
Lol..my bad...i actually meant girls....oya modify
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by chibwike(m): 8:50pm On Dec 28, 2014
Unibenstudent:
Yahweh is my role model,because he loves us ,he gets jealous over us ,he calls himself a jealous God,
wat re u saying

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Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Sanchez01: 8:51pm On Dec 28, 2014
The problem of this thread is the 'there is no true love without jealousy'. While this claim still remains unproven, I could be worried my partner is silent and it could scare me, not because I expect her to get jealous but that she could have something at the back of her mind. On my own part, i'd keep quiet. I hardly put up jealousy because I've seen it destroy friends and their relationships. I ask questions though when I need clarity but beyond that, nothing else.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by eph12(m): 9:11pm On Dec 28, 2014
I guess i should be worried but if she refuses to care then i believe its her way of saying "sweets i know you're a guy and sometimes you guys are insatiable so no big deal as long as you come back to me" cool
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by ayanbaba2(m): 10:25pm On Dec 28, 2014
just here to read comments...
here in mogadisu where i schooled, we bomb anyone who come close to our lover... God punish devil!
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Chizzy20(f): 10:36pm On Dec 28, 2014
i wil b bothered cos it shows he doesnt really care cos if he really luvs u he wil guard nd protect wat belongs to him.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by tobiboss(m): 11:02pm On Dec 28, 2014
I'd be bothered, cos i'll feel she's probably cheating and wants me to, so we can call it even, or she's nt realy in luv wit me
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Nobody: 11:42pm On Dec 28, 2014
chibwike:
ok, you partner just lets you be, he doesn't complain when he sees you with another guy.

Would you be bothered?

or you'd just take that he trusts you and knows you cant cheat on him.

This applies to the guys too.

Why should I complain?

Her silence screams of maturity, I can only be glad about it.

When you really can't vouch or trust your partner with the opposite sex, then your unnecessary doubts will mutate into gigantic jealousy. This has been the bane of most unions.

I expect my partner to trust me. I expect my partner not to be my watchdog. Eavesdropping on my calls, browsing through my phones, looking out for lipsticks stains on my shirts, tailing me around and creating a needless scene when I'm with a lady, only goes to show how immature and insecure she is.

My partner must be emotionally sound to handle whatever that comes her way, it makes her unique and special.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by tpia411: 12:52am On Dec 29, 2014
Just here for the comments
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Nobody: 8:43am On Dec 29, 2014
No
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Dreyl(m): 10:13am On Dec 29, 2014
No time.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by 2SWT(f): 10:31am On Dec 29, 2014
chibwike:
Lol..buh he respects ur feelings and allow you do what u want....hence, he doesn't complain when he see's u with another guy...isn't it a gud thing.
If he doesn't feel jealous, then he's with another lady
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 29, 2014
I'm not Jealous,so if she is not Jealous it won't bother me.
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by filani(m): 1:02pm On Dec 29, 2014
Chizzy20:
i wil b bothered cos it shows he doesnt really care cos if he really luvs u he wil guard nd protect wat belongs to him.

@ Chizzy

It's ironic that you say it that way
'if he loves you he will protect what belong to him'

The truth of the matter is if you are trying to deliberately make him jealous by flirting or allowing other guys to flirt with you in his presence , you are indirectly saying that you don't belong to him, you are announcing to him and to the world that you are a 'free agent'

Now to be sure many guys will react jealously and try to 'corner' you ,which from your post I deduce is the kind of response you want from a guy but more experienced guys will simply observe you quietly and start making preparations to REPLACE YOU since you are showing him that you have too many guys chasing you.

Sharp guy like that does not have time to beg any girl to be with him, he values his time and his dignity too much to put up with that crap!

A mature girl does not play games with her guy. She understands that in as much as she asks the guy to commit to her fully then the responsibility is on her to show him that there is no other guy distracting her attention from him.

" I don't chase 'em , I replace 'em " -
Lyrics from the song ,One more chance. By The Notorious B.I.G

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Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by quivah(f): 1:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
it definitely will sadsad
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by filani(m): 1:17pm On Dec 29, 2014
2SWT:
If he doesn't feel jealous, then he's with another lady

@ 2swt

So, are you admitting that you deliberately try to get your guy jealous?

If so then the answer I gave to Chizzy above applies to you as well !!!
Re: If Your Partner Has No Jealousy, Would It Bother You?. by 2SWT(f): 3:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
filani:


@ 2swt

So, are you admitting that you deliberately try to get your guy jealous?

If so then the answer I gave to Chizzy above applies to you as well !!!
that is just how l feel....my guy is the type chibwike described above and at times am forced to feel that he's cheating though he doesn't flirt with girls

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