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Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 12:33pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!! |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Lolaabokoku(f): 1:30pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
dam_007: my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!!So what do you want us to do? To ask you to tell your friend to marry SS or wat? Next pleaaaaaaase...! 1 Like |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 1:46pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
Lolaabokoku: So what do you want us to do? To ask you to tell your friend to marry SS or wat?don't be so harsh.. He actually never knew until they got so deep +could have happened anyone...... |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Nobody: 1:49pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
Some stories are just so hard to beleive...at this age and time? Such things still happen. Afterall the awareness created on such health related issues? Seriously, SS and no crisis for four years? This is a big joke!:/ |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Lolaabokoku(f): 1:49pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
dam_007:Am not harsh ok but there are some question that doesnt need answers |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Mynd44: 2:34pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
They should get married but should not have biological kids |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by uniqueren(f): 2:52pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
or better still they should get married and then explain to their kids y they had to put them through such punishment for christ sake love is about sharing ur life with somebody and at this age, genotype are one of the thing ur close frnds especially of the opposite sex should know before the relationship assumes another direction 2 Likes |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by missojugo(f): 9:16am On Dec 29, 2014 |
dam007:. Curious to know if your friend eventually married the love of his life? |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 10:45am On Dec 29, 2014 |
missojugo:they split up few months ago. After so much drag.. They're really good friends now.. Which actually feels a little unhealthy.. |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by missojugo(f): 2:41pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
dam007: Waoooo. I would have advised to get married but put measures in place not to have biological kids together rather they can adopt. They sound like a match made in heaven and may never get over each other even if they marry other people. Life is too short to be married to a second best partner. |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by MayflowerB(f): 3:17pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Op I don't get d gist.....are they kids? Cos dats d only excuse u would give to me for not knowing their genotypes.....are u trying to tell me she never had any break down for d four yrs of relationship....I find ur story hard to believe |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 3:23pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
missojugo:still can't call each other ex's.. Tho they both claim to have moved on.. |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Deapexboy(m): 3:39pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
They should think of the future, bringing those kids to suffer wat they knw not..pls |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
The SS should go to any Bible believing church and explain the issue to the church,let them pray for him/her and He/she shall be healed. I can come over and pray for the SS for Healing. This is my advice. |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dammy336(f): 3:52pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
"They are still in love wiv each oda,they are stil holding on"....."they broke up some few months ago" this story is confusing.Are they stil together or....they broke up already.Moreova,sickle cell carriers will always av crisis so how come sins d past four years,ur friend jst got 2no?? |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by empressteemah06(f): 6:05pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
dam007:cant reply pm |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 11:38am On Dec 13, 2017 |
empressteemah06:thanks for the courtesy. you're a good one! |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 11:40am On Dec 13, 2017 |
missojugo:fast forward to December 2017, they' set to wed! |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by shinarlaura(f): 12:12pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
dam007: Really? |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by personal59: 12:47pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
lies from anywhere u bring it from baba ss never knew he is a carrier ahhhhhhhhh mo GBE no crisis from birth till his present age hunnnñn liars are liable to ... ..... |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by empressteemah06(f): 3:30pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
dam007:you welcome |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by habsydiamond(m): 4:01pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
medically if dem like demselves dey should leave eachother.....that's if they don't want to bury their own kids.....sorry to say ooooo....but spiritually they can marry......just kidding ooooo |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by ibietela2(m): 4:34pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
Lolaabokoku: Lol |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by dam007(m): 4:37pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by shinarlaura(f): 5:23pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
dam007: Wooow. Not minding the consequences of their actions. |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by missojugo(f): 9:04am On Jul 11, 2018 |
dam007: Yay! Hope they are going great...Congrats to them! |
Re: Really Confused... Go On Or Turn Back? Its Almost 5 Years. Help! Please... by ImaIma1(f): 9:47am On Jul 11, 2018 |
There is no way someone will not know that they are SS. An SS person is always particular about who they date from day 1. In fact, my friend asks for the genotype right after the name of the person. Bringing up children with SS and the challenges involved is enough to suck out every love and passion they feel now especially if they lose their child due to it. Except they have other alternatives asides bringing a child to suffer, they should break it off. It is not fair to bring a child and watch them suffer. It will be heart breaking. |
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