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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by ikombe: 11:42am On Dec 29, 2014
undecided go ahead na
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 29, 2014
He's hot

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by RealAlfranco: 11:43am On Dec 29, 2014
ilotriouzAY:
D guy cute small
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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by kendrick9(m): 11:45am On Dec 29, 2014
VickyyB:
He's hot
will u marry him?
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by onadana: 11:45am On Dec 29, 2014
coolSure na.....like poles attract.Moreover HIV is not a big deal.......Ebola....hepatitis....malaria....obesity...cancer....these are life instant claimers.
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Jostico: 11:45am On Dec 29, 2014
zleemshaddy:
cee ur lyf angry



like your own
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by temmypotter(m): 11:46am On Dec 29, 2014
FrancisTony:
I pity a "gold digger" that would agree to marry him.

Prevention is better than cure.
When he was womanising and yanshing everything inside skirt, he didn't know...undecided
let him that has no sin cast the first stone...besides what makes you think that's the only way one can get infected?..and as it would seem..his status has brought him some sorta prominence nd fame.#moral of story--always make best use of wtsoever situation you find yourself..

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 29, 2014
Dude is smoking hot! But the HIV?...
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by mediachirps(m): 11:48am On Dec 29, 2014
see body, see fine man. true HIV no de show 4 body. who knows how many chicks wey dis bobo don bleep!
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by delishpot: 11:48am On Dec 29, 2014
FrancisTony:
I pity a "gold digger" that would agree to marry him.

Prevention is better than cure.
When he was womanising and yanshing everything inside skirt, he didn't know...undecided

Gold diggers do their home work well bros. The women I will pity are the greedy ones or the quiet ones. Those types nairaland guys want to marry. Those ones that dont ask their guys questions, dont say a word and do as oga/ bobo says so as to keep him happy.
BTW, why do you think any woman that decides to marry him must be a gold digger? Why do you guys just use those terms so loosely?

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Kenneth205(m): 11:48am On Dec 29, 2014
angelTI:
Jeez!
This dude is good looking!

Marry him. grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 11:48am On Dec 29, 2014
kendrick9:
will u marry him?
Tempted but No

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Kenneth205(m): 11:49am On Dec 29, 2014
dorlapoh20:
Good for him. waiting patiently for the family

Will yhu marry him ?? grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Kenneth205(m): 11:50am On Dec 29, 2014
ireneony:
This guy is so hot and cute

Will u marry him ? grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Akshow: 11:51am On Dec 29, 2014
wow! he is my Facebook friend. I didn't see that coming. He presents very intelligent arguments on Facebook and I always like his updates.

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by jonezz(m): 11:52am On Dec 29, 2014
Hmmm this guy doesn't look like a patient o...Na food come make am like this or what?
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 29, 2014
[quote author=Kenneth205 post=29301694]

Will yhu marry him ?? grin[/quote
noooooo. he is too big grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Ilekeh(f): 11:54am On Dec 29, 2014
Funny thing is, even after airing his hiv status, some Nigerian girls will still follow this guy home for money. Dem think say HIV cure na spinach.
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 29, 2014
FrancisTony:
I pity a "gold digger" that would agree to marry him.

Prevention is better than cure.
When he was womanising and yanshing everything inside skirt, he didn't know...undecided

You should know better.

HIV positive people can actually marry negative people and still have negative children. They only need to adhere strictly to their drugs and not miss a dosage. At a point they'd become undetectable, therefore they can then sleep with their wives/husbands without transmitting the virus.

Meanwhile, Kenny has a kid already. And I'm sure he had the kid while he was already diagnosed with the virus.
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by fanex: 11:55am On Dec 29, 2014
Be completely honest and stick to what you prefer. i can almost guarantee that you got infected through homosexual sex.
lalasticlala:
Brands expert Kenny Badmus, who took to his Facebook page on December 1st, to reveal how he's been living successfully with HIV for the last 15 years, just revealed that he can get married and have children if he wants to despite being HIV positive. what he wrote below...

One of the most frequently asked questions from hundreds of emails I received after December 1st is : Will you be able to get married and have a child if you are HIV positive? [ or if you are going through some major medical issue ].

Let me cut to the chase here and say a bold yes. [ If I want to ]. Being Positive does not preclude anyone from getting married or having children – thank God for science.


Research suggests that anti-HIV therapy during pregnancy plus planned caesarean delivery may reduce the risk of transmission to as low as 1 in 50 women. ( AidsMap) The question is ‘how many of these women are accessing healthcare? If you want to have a healthy child and you are HIV +, quickly get on therapy and follow your doctor’s advice.

To be in love or starting to date again should not scare anyone. And you don’t have to start looking for HIV positive people to date. There are people out there – though very few- who care less what your sero status is. The best prevention you can give your lover/spouse, if they are negative, is for you to ensure you are on treatment. Yes.

The second largest study – 052- to look at whether people with HIV become non-infectious if they are on antiretroviral therapy (ART) has found no cases where someone with a viral load under 200 copies/ml transmitted HIV, either by anal or vaginal sex. Although this study continues into 2017, with best practices and eliminations of other STDs, it’s almost impossible to infect your partner with HIV if you are adhering to your treatment. Even if you don’t use condoms. (AidsMap)
Having established the foregoings, the most important thing for me are the psychosocial issues surrounding the quest for marriage and having a child. It is more of a traditional thing for most of us in Africa to want to get married or have a child by all means. In my opinion, I think it’s a very dogmatic way of living our lives. Why live to make others approve of you? It’s not worth it. Marriage or having children do not guarantee our lives will be better.

As someone who had lived with these societal expectations for many years myself, I became healthier and emancipated the day I dropped these societal impositions. Check this page soon to see my journey into marriage, love, parenting and more. I have seen people in marriages who are very happy, and I have seen people in marriages who are very miserable. I have seen people with children who are very happy.

Just the same way I have seen people with children who are very lonely and miserable in their old age. What brings happiness is living our best lives. Marriage or being being married does not solve all our problems if we enter into it for all the wrong reasons. Being in love is much better. Marriage is a legalistic way of looking at love. It allows for claims, societal celebrations and approvals of our mates. You don’t have to be in love to get married.

The two are not mutually exclusive although they are better when they go hand in hand. Hence, the sham marriages around us today. But you have to be in love to say you are in love. Love has no true love or false love. Marriage on the other hand can be falsified. I’d rather you pushed towards being in and finding love. And if that love leads to marriage, how lucky are you! Embrace it. Do it to gain the legal benefits if you have to marry.

Having a child is about the same. If you can have your own child biologically, embrace it, and cherish it. Science also has made this possible. We should look at this at other time. If you cannot, go pour your love on other children around you. Children are the most visible victims of undernutrition. According to worldhunger.org, ‘children who are poorly nourished suffer up to 160 days of illness each year. Poor nutrition plays a role in at least half of the 10.9 million child deaths each year–five million deaths.’

Further statistics reveals that undernutrition magnifies the effect of every disease, including measles and malaria. The estimated proportions of deaths in which undernutrition is an underlying cause are roughly similar for diarrhea (61%), malaria (57%), pneumonia (52%), and measles (45%) (Black 2003, Bryce 2005). You can be a godmother. A foster parent. An adoptive father. The list goes on.
Ever heard of John H. Johnson and his wife Eunice Walker Johnson? The owners of one of the biggest media platforms in the world, Ebony magazine. This couple never had their own biological children. They adopted Linda Johnson-Rice, who carried on their legacies. History has thousands of such couples. Having a womb and a dick do not make parenting. What makes great parenting is our heart of love.So there you have it. Remove the limitations and the dogmas surrounding your life, and go have some fantastic authentic life. Love. Travel. Eat well. Go volunteering. Give. Buy chocolates. Go partying. Dance. Laugh. Read new books. Write. Take pictures and ‪#‎LIVE‬


Source:

http://lindaikeji..in/2014/12/hiv-positive-kenny-badmus-says-he-can.html?m=1

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Kenneth205(m): 11:57am On Dec 29, 2014
[quote author=dorlapoh20 post=29301782][/quote]

Hahahaa... Funny Yhu... Wot About Someone Like Me ?? grin grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by LordDarius(m): 11:58am On Dec 29, 2014
Damn, brother u look big for someone living with HIV for wat? 15yrs, mehn, dat some trouble u re been goin through.
Cant allow my sis to marry you though.
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Emmalot121(m): 12:00pm On Dec 29, 2014
Ladies cool
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by zubby29(m): 12:00pm On Dec 29, 2014
y are some of like dis,is ur life beter dan his,go have a seat if u dnt have anytin good to say
kristina1:
Good for him.
I pity his wife
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 29, 2014
I see...

Any objection?

Then move on!
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by pimplucious: 12:02pm On Dec 29, 2014
Which one be Mr Macho pix ur uploading? Where's the pic of the guy with HIV?
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Emmalot121(m): 12:02pm On Dec 29, 2014
FrancisTony:
I pity a "gold digger" that would agree to marry him.

Prevention is better than cure.
When he was womanising and yanshing everything inside skirt, he didn't know...undecided
No be you advice them to be gold diggers?
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by darediamond(m): 12:04pm On Dec 29, 2014
You need to bé quoted to get corrected.
You need it.
FrancisTony:

Comment on topic.

Don't quote me. smiley
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by kazmanbanjoko(m): 12:05pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mumu. Na only your soul dey function. Yur body is gone.

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:05pm On Dec 29, 2014
Kenneth205:


Hahahaa... Funny Yhu... Wot About Someone Like Me ?? grin grin
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by zubby29(m): 12:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
dis is not fair,u dnt know hw he contracted d virus bt yet u are pasing jugdmnt,is hiv d end of d world?der are far more deadlier disease out der dan hiv,what do u think he would feel wen he reads your coment,happy or sad? let us heal with our words
dorlapoh20:
Good for him. waiting patiently for the family

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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
FrancisTony:
I pity a "gold digger" that would agree to marry him.

Prevention is better than cure.
When he was womanising and yanshing everything inside skirt, he didn't know...undecided

Hmmmm....At least, he has learnt his lesson d hard way... As if u dnt womanize and do sme yanshing too like u said.

Btw, its nt only by yanshing people contact d Hiv/aids virus nw..undecided

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