By Pastor BISI
ADEWALE

([b]1) Living with a man who has not paid their pride price or married you.
(2) Sending their nude pictures to guys in the name of Love.
(3) Sharing all their secrets with a man they barely know.
(4) Stealing their Parents money to finance a guy.
(5) Giving their School fees to a guy to Celebrate his birthday
(6) Accepting to be a second wife because of so called love.
(7) Wearing the engagement ring of man who doesn’t even know their homes, seen their parents or received their consent.
( Fighting all their friends and family members who oppose their love affairs.
(9) Giving your BRIDE PRIDE (virginity) to a man who has notpaid your BRIDE PRICE.
(10) Turning themselves to a Man intimacy gadget and slave in the name of love.
(11) Bathing naked with their Guys, who may secretly snap the picture and post it on the internet.
(12) Turning themselves to guy cook.
(13) Turning themselves to launderer washing clothes for guys they say they love.
(14) Public show of romance with your boyfriend who is only deceiving you.
(15) Abusing all other guys around because they feel they are already hooked.
(16) Disobeying their parents for the sake of a man who their parents don’t even know or accept.[/b]


Bisi Adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting and Family Life, He is the author of the best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Parenting Teenagers and more than 70 other best selling books on marriage and family life.


He is the president of Family Booster Ministries International and College of Marital Success (CMS), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.


http://citypeoplegroup.org/i/pastor-bisi-adewale-reveals-42-foolish-things-girls-do-in-the-name-of-love/


There are actually 42 things he enlisted.

On another note, a guy I met in 2008 pinged me about two months ago telling me he wanted to marry me and me alone.
I was shocked and said okay, he rarely pinged me on bbm or even called so i knew he wasn't serious. I checked on him once in a while to be sure he was okay.

Sometimes he would request for my nude pics and I'd say no, then he would call me boring and no fun.

Today I went to Instagram and saw his wedding pics for this past weekend.

I just laughed and thanked God i did not enter one chance.

Sorry guys. I'm Jobless ATM.

(1) Living with a man who has not paid their pride price or married you.

Is the guy using her or are they helping each other. Nothing wrong at all if it's the latter.

(3) Sharing all their secrets with a man they barely know.

LMAO. Never trust a woman who tells you her age.
If a lady tells you her very secret, Biko, RUN.

(6) Accepting to be a second wife because of so called love.

Huh? It's her choice. And polygamy is allowed.

(7) Wearing the engagement ring of man who doesn’t even know their homes, seen their parents or received their consent.

Now Is this even possible?

( Fighting all their friends and family members who oppose their love affairs.

@Romeo & Juliet et: continue fighting for your love.
All is fair in love and in war. Never mind.

(9) Giving your BRIDE PRIDE (virginity) to a man who has not paid your BRIDE PRICE.

Give your virginity to your husband.
Not to someone with a bride price.

(11) Bathing Unclad with their Guys, who may secretly snap the picture and post it on the internet.

This is funny.
How can they both be bathing together, and at the same time, him taking secret shots?

(12) Turning themselves to guy cook.

They cook to eat too.
It's not like the guy is eating alone.

(14) Public show of romance with your boyfriend who is only deceiving you.

How do you know he's only deceiving her?
PDA is acceptable for lovers.

Am not a lady but not all his points re valid..

see e ugly face

times have changed bro

Lalasticlala I agreed with everything he said except number 9.
You are keeping your virginity for your future husband when you don't know the countless of women he has bleep all his life, yet he wants to marry a virgin

Naturally gals have no sense of dias

All these listed points are obvious, we need not be told these.

kennygee:
On another note, a guy I met in 2008 pinged me about two months ago telling me he wanted to marry me and me alone.
I was shocked and said okay, he rarely pinged me on bbm or even called so i knew he wasn't serious. I checked on him once in a while to be sure he was okay.
Sometimes he would request for my nude pics and I'd say no, then he would call me boring and no fun.
Today I went to Instagram and saw his wedding pics for this past weekend.
I just laughed and thanked God i did not enter one chance.

Lucky you

Mayb..

Any time they abuse my virgins on Nairaland, it gets into my skin. NL babes I'm here to protect you.
Boko haram says so

Spot on Sir,

This man said the absolute truth only if ladies would listen.
Only few that I know don't do all these; I hate rolling with girls that won't concur him...

I know some perverted guys would bash him. Smh

True talk

I don't agree with no 4 and 12.

There are some things we do for someone that we love, and I don't think its foolish!

It can only be termed foolishness, when u know the guy doesn't love u and u keep doing it!

But if they both love each other, they can make sacrifices for each other!

beautifully stated.. wish they would learn

using his picture as ur DP

How many of them after reading this will change?

mhyra:
beautifully stated.. wish they would learn

cn u boldly tell me dat u've done none of d aforementioned?

FrancisTony:
Spot on Sir,

This man said the absolute truth only if ladies would listen.
Only few that I know don't do all these; I hate rolling with girls that won't concur him...

I know some perverted guys would bash him. Smh

And if they don't do some of this things some of guys will say they are not caring enough or don't love u enough!

Balance is the key!

LogoDWhiz:
I don't agree with no 4 and 12.

There are some things we do for someone that we love, and I don't think its foolish!

It can only be termed foolishness, when u know the guy doesn't love u and u keep doing it!

But if they both love each other, they can make sacrifices for each other!

Stealing is not corruption?

TDstarr:
see e ugly face

times have changed bro

truth is bitter right?I'm sure you are among those that lure and abuse young ladies.

jmoore:

Stealing is not corruption?

Don't want to go into that arguement!

We all know what's right!
Let's do what's pleasing and right in our sight!

And make decisions u won't regret

2,4,5,6,7,8,10,13(except clothes we both use eg bed sheet,towel),15,16------->> God forbids! labbish!


I think no 11 is cool tho but the picture part.. shey she blind ni?

no 1.. that's couples' live is school taaarrrh I see no big deal if she goes to spend the weekend or few days with him and vice versa but virtually living with him labbish!!


no 12, its actually cool ... but when you turn it to my job,,by waiting for me to come around to Cook when you can just take your ass to the kitchen and cook for us,I thought we are partners?! I'm not your employed cook gradually I will stop most especially if you are unappreciative


and no 9, tsssssssswwwww! I'm not keeping my self because of one future husband who is prolly frolicking with other babes somewhere... I'm keeping me cause I want to. I am keeping myself or not based on my own choice . so fvck bride pride! what's groom's pride yeye dey smell!
#shoutout to the male Vs and chaste guys


when unmarried couples do this, what's left for marriage

LogoDWhiz:


And if they don't do some of this things some of guys will say they are not caring enough or don't love u enough!

Balance is the key!

A lady should be doing all those thing stated at the OP to her husband.

That's why she has to be an independent woman not a parasite.

A guy can only expect the trash from her girlfriend if she's depending on him for cash.

ireneony:
Lalasticlala I agreed with everything he said except number 9.
You are keeping your virginity for your future husband when you don't know the countless of women he has bleep all his life, yet he wants to marry a virgin

you are not doing the man!you have your own dignity to respect. This is how ladies think and that's why they fyiok about because they think ALL MEN bang about.
I will use myself as an example, I am 29 and I can boast I am a male virgin.

FrancisTony:

A lady should be doing all those thing stated at the OP to her husband.

That's why she has to be an independent woman not a parasite.

A guy can only expect the trash from her girlfriend if she's depending on him for cash.

I get your point. But what u don't get is, if she doesn't do some of these for her bf, he will complain.

There will be talks of 'not much commitment' and so on

Dbestmax:
Naturally gals have no sense of dias

absolutely right my brother! you hardly get one that has got self -discipline and wisdom.

ireneony:
Lalasticlala I agreed with everything he said except number 9.
You are keeping your virginity for your future husband when you don't know the countless of women he has bleep all his life, yet he wants to marry a virgin

You don't have a point.

There are also guys that a virgin.

Stop depending and blaming anybody for your chastity.

shadowgwalker:
you are not doing the man!you have your own dignity to respect. This is how ladies think and that's why they fyiok about because they think ALL MEN bang about.
I will use myself as an example, I am 29 and I can boast I am a male virgin.

one thing I have learnt in this life is not to judge people....if you are a virgin be proud of yourself and don't judge others.....someone not being a virgin doesn't mean he/she f#$k around.
You being a virgin doesn't not guarantee you as a husband material

LogoDWhiz:


I get your point. But what u don't get is, if she doesn't do some of these for her bf, he will complain.

There will be talks of 'not much commitment' and so on

All guys are not the same...

I'm a male, so I know about myself. Even the Pastor is also a Male!

shadowgwalker:
you are not doing the man!you have your own dignity to respect. This is how ladies think and that's why they fyiok about because they think ALL MEN bang about.
I will use myself as an example, I am 29 and I can boast I am a male virgin.

seconded

am 27 and still a male virgin too.