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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by darediamond(m): 12:07pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Gagaun!! Kokokoko... Gaga gaga gagaun!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() GAZZUZZ: |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
FrancisTony:I'm still on the lookout for that post of yours that will make utmost sense. U are as dumb as ur monicker. Grow up lad 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Kenneth205(m): 12:10pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by klodike(m): 12:12pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
And who told u that was how he acquired it? FrancisTony: 3 Likes |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Fourwinds: 12:15pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
angelTI:hmmmm. a honest guy to have confessed. BTW dis kind of guy girls will see in a nice car and will be dying for yet never know dust to dust awaits dem 1 Like |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by darediamond(m): 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Seriously your comment is an Heavy one and it needs to bé broken down. Can you please do the dew further? kazmanbanjoko: |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
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Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Vikkie14: 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Abeg, who go marry am oo. He said he dey look for girlie'o to get hooked with. AYAM sure, na soso bleeping u take contact am, abi na injection cox am? BTW, even if rat dey wear skirt, you fit fall for am. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by kazmanbanjoko(m): 12:19pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
darediamond:He was happy bcoz he is positive. Datz a weird tin for me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Toeyean1507(f): 12:19pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
kendrick9:U got it all wrong,sir. There are lotta measures dat once put in place,d wife and hopefully,kids won't be infected 1 Like |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by bebe2(f): 12:20pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
See pple talking rubbish, if he didn't declare it , wud u guys know his status? Some of u here have d virus but fear no go let una go test. No be who first sick dey first die oo. He will probably outlive alot of pple here 8 Likes |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Fourwinds: 12:21pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
e no dey show for face. kai u kmow how many girls dey run after him before him declare him status.? na here greed dey finish girls |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Here in Otuoke we have never heard such super story |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by ussy09(m): 12:22pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
ilotriouzAY:. Seein dis type of comment I wish a space is created for dislike. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
zubby29:gentleman i am not blaming him for anything just wondering if there is any lady (not gold digger) who will want to marry him. that is why am waiting patiently for his family. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by DonaldGenes(m): 12:31pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
ireneony: Then, Go and yansh him nah 1 Like |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by vislabraye(m): 12:32pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
ireneony:Let it stop there |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by vislabraye(m): 12:35pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
VickyyB:.. Yes, hotter than the guy you are holding in your dp... ![]() |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by 1stola: 12:35pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
angelTI:E no dey show for face o. wakawaka no good o.. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 12:45pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
This guy epitomizes everything I stand for. Enlightened, brave, well to do and cares less about the tenuous opinions of inconsequential people. I can let my sister or daughter settle with him becuase he knows what he is doing. He might be hiv positive but science has gone so far that hiv is manageable and not life threatening anymore. I believe poverty of the mindset which most NLders exhibit is 10 times worse than hiv. I admire the guy and I am glad he is living beyond his positive status. He is far better than those positive ones who go about sharing the virus silently. He has take a giant leap and I pray jesus favours him immensely. Poverty of the mindset is a worse disease. Nairaland is a hodgepodge of people from different backgrounds. Some are perpetual failures and never do wells. Those are the type that will come here to judge and form holier than thou when they never chop. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Rexnegro(m): 12:54pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Veralaw:U dey mind all those who sound as if they holy pass.... As if na by only yanshing person fit take get am.... Bro wagbayi Jare ur head correct unlike those yanshing word people 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by tiarwale: 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
FrancisTony:u no well, olohun gbo ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by delishpot: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
fanex: Ha ha. See him talking about reduced chance. Not even that its 100% fact o. I understand if he talks about marrying for love and using protection. He is talking about puting his HIV semen in a clean woman and expecting her to gamble on "reduced risk" of transfering the virus to the woman and child. Why would she take such a gamble? I understand if she marries him and they adopt kids or she gets pregnant from a sperm donor. Abegi, he is asking for too much jare. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by horlarswitmie(f): 1:06pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Cute |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by DaPhilosopher(m): 1:08pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Chai! See as NL ladies they trip! Una fit marry the guy? ![]() |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by kennygee18(m): 1:13pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
[quote author=lalasticlala post=29277606]Brands expert Kenny Badmus, who took to his Facebook page on December 1st, to reveal how he's been living successfully with HIV for the last 15 years, just revealed that he can get married and have children if he wants to despite being HIV positive. what he wrote below... One of the most frequently asked questions from hundreds of emails I received after December 1st is : Will you be able to get married and have a child if you are HIV positive? [ or if you are going through some major medical issue ]. Let me cut to the chase here and say a bold yes. [ If I want to ]. Being Positive does not preclude anyone from getting married or having children – thank God for science. Research suggests that anti-HIV therapy during pregnancy plus planned caesarean delivery may reduce the risk of transmission to as low as 1 in 50 women. ( AidsMap) The question is ‘how many of these women are accessing healthcare? If you want to have a healthy child and you are HIV +, quickly get on therapy and follow your doctor’s advice. To be in love or starting to date again should not scare anyone. And you don’t have to start looking for HIV positive people to date. There are people out there – though very few- who care less what your sero status is. The best prevention you can give your lover/spouse, if they are negative, is for you to ensure you are on treatment. Yes. The second largest study – 052- to look at whether people with HIV become non-infectious if they are on antiretroviral therapy (ART) has found no cases where someone with a viral load under 200 copies/ml transmitted HIV, either by anal or vaginal sex. Although this study continues into 2017, with best practices and eliminations of other STDs, it’s almost impossible to infect your partner with HIV if you are adhering to your treatment. Even if you don’t use condoms. (AidsMap) Having established the foregoings, the most important thing for me are the psychosocial issues surrounding the quest for marriage and having a child. It is more of a traditional thing for most of us in Africa to want to get married or have a child by all means. In my opinion, I think it’s a very dogmatic way of living our lives. Why live to make others approve of you? It’s not worth it. Marriage or having children do not guarantee our lives will be better. As someone who had lived with these societal expectations for many years myself, I became healthier and emancipated the day I dropped these societal impositions. Check this page soon to see my journey into marriage, love, parenting and more. I have seen people in marriages who are very happy, and I have seen people in marriages who are very miserable. I have seen people with children who are very happy. Just the same way I have seen people with children who are very lonely and miserable in their old age. What brings happiness is living our best lives. Marriage or being being married does not solve all our problems if we enter into it for all the wrong reasons. Being in love is much better. Marriage is a legalistic way of looking at love. It allows for claims, societal celebrations and approvals of our mates. You don’t have to be in love to get married. The two are not mutually exclusive although they are better when they go hand in hand. Hence, the sham marriages around us today. But you have to be in love to say you are in love. Love has no true love or false love. Marriage on the other hand can be falsified. I’d rather you pushed towards being in and finding love. And if that love leads to marriage, how lucky are you! Embrace it. Do it to gain the legal benefits if you have to marry. Having a child is about the same. If you can have your own child biologically, embrace it, and cherish it. Science also has made this possible. We should look at this at other time. If you cannot, go pour your love on other children around you. Children are the most visible victims of undernutrition. According to worldhunger.org, ‘children who are poorly nourished suffer up to 160 days of illness each year. Poor nutrition plays a role in at least half of the 10.9 million child deaths each year–five million deaths.’ Further statistics reveals that undernutrition magnifies the effect of every disease, including measles and malaria. The estimated proportions of deaths in which undernutrition is an underlying cause are roughly similar for diarrhea (61%), malaria (57%), pneumonia (52%), and measles (45%) (Black 2003, Bryce 2005). You can be a godmother. A foster parent. An adoptive father. The list goes on. Ever heard of John H. Johnson and his wife Eunice Walker Johnson? The owners of one of the biggest media platforms in the world, Ebony magazine. This couple never had their own biological children. They adopted Linda Johnson-Rice, who carried on their legacies. History has thousands of such couples. Having a womb and a dick do not make parenting. What makes great parenting is our heart of love.So there you have it. Remove the limitations and the dogmas surrounding your life, and go have some fantastic authentic life. Love. Travel. Eat well. Go volunteering. Give. Buy chocolates. Go partying. Dance. Laugh. Read new books. Write. Take pictures and #LIVE Source: http://lindaikeji..in/2014/12/hiv-positive-kenny-badmus-says-he-can.html?m=1[/quote) Regardless of those stats,I stil tink ur sayin rubbish |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by justscorch: 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Ignorance is bliss |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by seangy4konji: 1:24pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Stop the discrimination. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Wyclefniranz(m): 1:32pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
angelTI:Teasing |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
vislabraye:He's not. |
Re: I Can Still Get Married & Have Kids- Hiv+ Nigerian CEO Says (pictured) by OLUJOSHINS(m): 1:50pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
JOETYNO: U started well. |
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