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Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 12:47pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
A friend of mine shared his story with me nd i want to suggest that he goes for deliverance...Pls what are the signs you see that makes you say a Man is weak...i was thinking these signs are one of them 1)not being able to address a little crowd 2)masturbating 3)being afraid to speak 2d opposite sex 4)feeling responsible for everyone around him,i.e wanting to help every one around him 5)getting easily emotional... |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Ploy(m): 1:14pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
He doesn't need any deliverance, all he needs is exposure. He should go out and mingle. Girls won't come knocking at his door and a sex-starved guy will self-service. Helping people around us is natural, we do it by instinct but wake up when people take us for granted. Public speaking on its own is not in-built, it is a learned behaviour. He should start speaking to people in twos, threes, fours and then crowd. The bottom line is; HE SHOULD MINGLE. NEXTPLEASE 2 Likes |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by harbibi: 1:23pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Self service aint good... He should be bold to approach a lady as a man |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 4:58pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
harbibi:are also saying he's weak |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 5:01pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Maccoy1: How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"? |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 5:02pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Ploy:tanks for the proffering solution, but the question was does these signs means he's a weak dude |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 5:10pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:thats your opinion, what am saying is him not being able to approach a lady makes him look like a coward...nd that's why am saying maybe he's weak.but since you've singled out self service i'll take it as ur own view...what ur take about the rest of the point |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Maccoy1: I haven't given you or anyone my opinion on this thread. Asking a question isn't the same thing as giving an opinion. Maccoy1: That doesn't address the question I asked you. My question to you was: How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"? Maccoy1: And what "view" is that, if you don't mind my asking? |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Ploy(m): 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Maccoy1: Ok, He isn't a weak dude he is a lonely dude. |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 10:56pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Ploy:thanks for your contribution |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 11:05pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:ur question reveals ur objection to the point listed above...nd that is ur opinion...pls always read before you post gibbrish, i wasn't standing on a point which i was not sure of nd that's why i said what your view of those point...don't come hear nd start asking questions like mr lecturer-too-know -all |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 11:40pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Maccoy1: And I suggest that you go sort out your comprehension issues if you believe that asking questions is akin to holding a contrary view to your perceived albeit non-existent point(s). I asked you how masturbat!ng makes a man "weak" based on your opening post. Now answer the question damn it and stop trying to reach above your level. 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by baby124: 11:43pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
He's not weak. Just a regular teenager with low self esteem and bad habits. 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Evina(f): 11:49pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Eeerr, please what is the story? Advice on what exactly? 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by LordReed(m): 9:37am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Ploy: Spot on. Not every problem needs "deliverance". |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 9:56am On Dec 30, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:pack well,go Look for your e-war opponent else were |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 9:59am On Dec 30, 2014 |
LordReed:yea,thanks.maybe 'll ask him to see a counselor |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 10:36am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Maccoy1: Mtcheew. |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by bukatyne(f): 10:56am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Ploy: 100% correct And I think we abuse weakness or perceived strength a lot in our society as regards men A man who is always bossing those around him is a bully... A man who is always unable to assert himself or always going with the flow (whether he wants to or not) is a push over Both are actually weak and have low self esteem exhibited in different ways Greed and Selfishness are two sides of a coin 2 Likes |
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 1:33pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Evina:the point listed above were the problems he shared with me.i was about recommending him 4 deliverance since i thought it as being weak, but i decided to get other people opinion and proffered advice on how to solve the issue |
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