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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Imoh888(m): 8:43pm On Dec 29, 2014
richardjemedafe1:
I want to use this opportunity to appreciate all guys
who commented positively... Am so greatfull u have
given me a reson not to organize a gang rape on her
so she will fills what I feel.
u dont have to do that. 6k is nothing.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by ifex370(m): 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2014
emiraty:


Coming from a potential rapist? That's a compliment.


whatever
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2014
rman:


You are morally bankrupt.

What is trivial about a girl lieng to get a loan she knows she is not going to pay back? Forget the amount involved, it is a betrayal of trust.

If you don't see that as wrong then I pity the people you have around you as family and friends.

Another pained nigga grin
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by SkinnyDude(m): 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2014
AncientJerk:
O.P you have been quite silly but thats ok, this should be a learning experience for you. It is obvious that you cant afford to lose that 6k which makes your actions all the more silly. I never loan money to ladies.... and even to guys its only my most trusted guys that i can loan money to. why? coz people in general are untrustworthy and girls in particular can be users.

but for next time, what you should have done was play cool and not get angry with the girl before putting in motion your plans to recover your cash, at least then you may have stood a 25% chance coz it seems like she never intended to pay you back give the character you have painted her to be here.

and for those laughing at the O.P and his 6k....smh.

thank you. it's not only girls. people in general are not trustworthy. i could remember when my barber, i am his regular customer. he saw me when i was passing, and stopped me. he asked me to help him with any amount, that he wants to buy something with it now. i should come to his shop in the evening and collect it. i had 1k, and the money wasn't even mine. out of pity, i gave him the 1k. to cut the story short, it took me cool 1 month to get 500naira from him. the dude started was playing me like ball. i quietly forgot him and the money. that was how i gave up on people.. there are no trustworthy and honest people in Nigeria.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by erico2k2(m): 8:52pm On Dec 29, 2014
richardjemedafe1:
I want to use this opportunity to appreciate all guys
who commented positively... Am so greatfull u have
given me a reson not to organize a gang rape on her
so she will fills what I feel.
U are very stupid my friend, are you high on cheap Weed? that statement alone would land you in Jail where I live, rape should never be used as an instrument of torture in any circumstance.U my friend deserve what you got if this is the frame of mind you posses,I withdraw my support for U.

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by erico2k2(m): 8:54pm On Dec 29, 2014
cococandy:
what a disgusting post . See me supporting you since not knowing you could think such evil in your mind.

Maybe she saw this part of you that made her say she will pour water on you when you come to her house.
I hope she makes it boiling water. Animal.
Boiling water+ virgin green powder pepper

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by tonididdy(m): 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2014
Natasha2:



I dey mad abi? undecided
yes dear u dey mad...pay the OP back e money.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by tonididdy(m): 8:57pm On Dec 29, 2014
[size=68pt]da biatch deserves whatever is coming her way...




OP I support any decisions u take[/size]
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Natasha2(f): 8:58pm On Dec 29, 2014
tonididdy:
I am a big goat, a smelling pig and a useless fowl, I think from my anus thats why I advised the op to share her nude pics on the net.


Fixed cool

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 29, 2014
cococandy:
what a disgusting post . See me supporting you since not knowing you could think such evil in your mind.

Maybe she saw this part of you that made her say she will pour water on you when you come to her house.
I hope she makes it boiling water. Animal.

I'm nt sure u are right there ma'm. Why would she see an animal in him and still dupe him. Maybe she wants this animal to consume him and that's wat he's planning to do. Anyway she asked for these because nobody likes been cheated.

Bk to d op. As a guy to guy ehn.. just free her. it's all part of growing up. Just learn from this and move on.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by tonididdy(m): 9:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
Natasha2:



Fixed cool
your Boyfriend...
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by PrettySpicey(f): 9:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
I actually laughed and laughed when I finished reading this.

JeffreyJamez, see wetin ya generation dey do? Una no go kill me o... Na only collect... and it made FP too Smh
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by lordfalcao(m): 9:03pm On Dec 29, 2014
AgapeCharis:
did u read d part he said d girl said he should borrow her and dt she'll pay back?? And did u also read d part he said dey've nt had sex together?

The money wasn't a gift. It was a loan.
I wonder d tender loving care u'r talking about dt d guy didn't even probably show more. Mtchew! Nonsense!!

I'm seriously holding myself nt to type something dt would offend u cos ur comment and a lot of similar comments on d 1st page is nt called for at all. Ur comment n dt of ur like-minded fellows is very very odious.

Its nt about been broke. I for one will nt take it funny when someone trys to play smart on me. To top it, u'r stl claiming right! Even if it's #1000 I'll make sure I get d money back. Not because I'm broke but because i wna tell u I'm nt stupid.

And no one even commented on d useless and nauseating attitude of d so called gf! God punish dt girl.

richardjemedafe1

go get ur money back. She doesn't pick ur call any longer? Text her! She didn't respond? Take d teller to her mum n explain everything to her n demand for ur money.
gbam! Gbagam! Gbam gbam! Spot on bro

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by olympus121: 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
OMG! Na wetin I no go read for this Nairaland? Guy na cos of 6k? I knw say things hard but forget dis money and move on. Let it be that she's owing u for life and u owe her nothing. Always learn to date a lady somehow below ur level. Women have gone terrible these days.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
PrettySpicey:
I actually laughed and laughed when I finished reading this.

JeffreyJamez, see wetin ya generation dey do? Una no go kill me o... Na only collect... and it made FP too Smh

Lol in this economy 6k no be beans o lol
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by lordfalcao(m): 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
veegirl:

Where did the stealing come from? Did you hear the OP say she collected the money at gun point?
she borrowed the money to return bk, its not a gift, dont call it a mere 6k, because you as a person cant dash me 6k.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by ogbonoeba: 9:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
richardjemedafe1:
I have a girl friend we stay in Uyo but
different university. and we never had sex. She just
graduated this month. I have travel to see her once and
I mistakenly saw her nude pictures she snap (only pant
and bra) and some with boys (pant and bra) and she
told me that was her birthday. Her mum knows me.
She borrowed 6k from me that she wants to use it to
sort, that her mum(lecturer) won't give her money to
sort. That she will refund it. She posted a pix on
whatssap and I comented thus; ''the pix is pretty n
glittering who is reponsible''. She became angry. We
cudnt chat nor call again till she came back this xmas. I
told her mum that I will be visiting them for xmas and I
called her to inform her, and she said I shouldn't come
if not she will pour me water unless am coming to give
her money, I was so angry. on saturday I told her we
should see so that we can discuss and its not about the
money she owed me, and that whether she will come 2
my house or we meet in restaurant or her house and
she replied that she won't be able to go anywhere, I
now asked her to refund my money and she says I
should never call her again, that I dashed her the
money, which she lied. Please what tricks should I do
to get back my money since she never pick my call
again? And I have the bank teller

You have no recourse, next time don't give away money you can't afford to lose.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by DaBullIT(m): 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2014
See people self

6k is not a lot of money abi ? ? ? rice is 8400 , half bag is 4,200 , one bottle of mamador gnut oil is 1500 , that's 5,700 , If a student has half bag of rice in his kitchen, forget any problems , it'll take as much 5 months

veegirl:
Lol. Broke ass. So of all d things she did to u, its d money u gave her that pains u most. Very funny dude.
Poverty is really a thing of d mind.
as for you , I won't blame you , He's a browke arsee nigga, have you given 6k to someone recently ? ? ? , You type likes to take and give nothing back, its not the part where the guy isn't getting anything back that hurts, its the fact that you try to play smart, when a guy is being modest and helpful

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Natasha2(f): 9:24pm On Dec 29, 2014
tonididdy:
my father .
grin
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by kenex4ever(m): 9:29pm On Dec 29, 2014
firstEVA:
How much is the money again? undecided
6million nna ila
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by kenex4ever(m): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2014
kristina1:
Seriously,you have to forget it,,c'mon,the money is not dat much.
genuine advice
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by tonididdy(m): 9:34pm On Dec 29, 2014
see dem wiches

Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Sunshinelady(f): 9:36pm On Dec 29, 2014
AgapeCharis:
did u read d part he said d girl said he should borrow her and dt she'll pay back?? And did u also read d part he said dey've nt had sex together?

The money wasn't a gift. It was a loan.
I wonder d tender loving care u'r talking about dt d guy didn't even probably show more. Mtchew! Nonsense!!

I'm seriously holding myself nt to type something dt would offend u cos ur comment and a lot of similar comments on d 1st page is nt called for at all. Ur comment n dt of ur like-minded fellows is very very odious.

Its nt about been broke. I for one will nt take it funny when someone trys to play smart on me. To top it, u'r stl claiming right! Even if it's #1000 I'll make sure I get d money back. Not because I'm broke but because i wna tell u I'm nt stupid.

And no one even commented on d useless and nauseating attitude of d so called gf! God punish dt girl.

richardjemedafe1

go get ur money back. She doesn't pick ur call any longer? Text her! She didn't respond? Take d teller to her mum n explain everything to her n demand for ur money.
. Lol!! Btw, tender loving care must not be sex. If u r sick & ur gf takes care of u isn't it worth more dan sex? Besides d guy say na borrow he borrow am d moni, d grl talk say na dash he dash am, so how do we know who is tellin d truth?
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by kenex4ever(m): 9:37pm On Dec 29, 2014
Vivly:
The guy still has the bank teller sef.
Take it to a law court. Sue her. Use the teller as evidence.
Owu na bastard.
mouth!
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 29, 2014
Sunshinelady:
. Lol!! Btw, tender loving care must not be sex. If u r sick & ur gf takes care of u isn't it worth more dan sex? Besides d guy say na borrow he borrow am d moni, d grl talk say na dash he dash am, so how do we know who is tellin d truth?
tender loving care has nothing to do with sex at all and d guy could possibly have shown dx tender loving care more cos from her attitude, I doubt she even showed 10%

D girl should pay back jhr. She's lucky I'm nt d one.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2014
NO 1...she is not op's lover....she is just a girlfriend..

NO 2....op did not give her the money willingly...it was based on borrow...nairalanders take note...

NO 3....she promised to pay back...(and of which she is refusing to pay back now....dats a breach of contract..)..yes its a contract cos it was based on lending and returning...agreement...

NO 4:...op is on his wright to get his money back...and it is not a crime...even if its #200...

please nairalanders...stop telling the op dat he is stingy or broke..or dis and dat......what she is doing now may have consequences on her later....she will not realise...but carma is working....

if i am op...i will just go let her mum know about it....then if i dint get any reasonable responds from the mum and the girl....i will seize the girls phone whenever i have the chance....and there is nothing anybody can do about it...call me any name...i dont give damn...cos its my money...i worked for it...AIN'T NOBODY'S BUSINESS...after collecting it from her by any means...i will in her presence give the money out to a beger or better still use it to do offering in church...she aint worth my dime...nonsense...and ingredients...

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Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by bosun11(m): 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2014
sukkot:
bros no talk am ooo. if i carry 30 pounds enter tesco or asda i go collect 4 pack odeku, collect pack of grapes, collect a packet of beef, collect like 2 cartons of orange juice, collect 2 big bags of mars bars, collect spinach, collect apples, collect bananas, collect 2 loaves of bread, collect 2 digestive biscuits and still have change for £10. abeg make u lef matta alone. 30 pounds is not small money. it can feed you for 2 weeks or even 3 weeks




grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin i laugh so tey i fall comot chair...any money giving to a babe is otherwise known as dash to me so the guy made a mistake...na economics u study for school ??
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by kenex4ever(m): 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2014
veegirl:

If my bro ask girl to return everything wey he give am because she f up, i go first slap am then disbrother am
if I dey with u na to dey knock ur head every 5seconds
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by SkinnyDude(m): 9:53pm On Dec 29, 2014
urchbarbie:
And I gave my frnd a guy wristwatch of 14k to sell for me. Out of 14k he only gave me 6k. Pay me d remaining kwanu, for whr! Abeg! Let it be dat d money av balance. When u see dat my frnd, his name is Alex, tell him to give u my remaining 8k to cover d money dat d gal is owing u!
chai. that your friend sha. this is what i can never do to my friend who has trust in me.
my mum tells me not to betray a friend or a person who has trust in you.
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 29, 2014
lordfalcao:
she borrowed the money to return bk, its not a gift, dont call it a mere 6k, because you as a person cant dash me 6k.
Why will i dash you 6k? I know you before? Or is your name charity?
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
[quote author=RedBenson post=29312782][/quote] hi, that your thread is dry nowadays what's happening?
Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by erico2k2(m): 10:03pm On Dec 29, 2014
Sunshinelady:
. Lol!! Btw, tender loving care must not be sex. If u r sick & ur gf takes care of u isn't it worth more dan sex? Besides d guy say na borrow he borrow am d moni, d grl talk say na dash he dash am, so how do we know who is tellin d truth?
fah fah fawl, Lie,dat one na true for girl's world for guy man the kongo must drop or no show grin grin grin

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