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Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 12:47pm On Dec 29, 2014
A friend of mine shared his story with me nd i want to suggest that he goes for deliverance...Pls what are the signs you see that makes you say a Man is weak...i was thinking these signs are one of them

1)not being able to address a little crowd
2)masturbating
3)being afraid to speak 2d opposite sex
4)feeling responsible for everyone around him,i.e wanting to help every one around him
5)getting easily emotional...
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Ploy(m): 1:14pm On Dec 29, 2014
He doesn't need any deliverance, all he needs is exposure. He should go out and mingle. Girls won't come knocking at his door and a sex-starved guy will self-service.

Helping people around us is natural, we do it by instinct but wake up when people take us for granted. Public speaking on its own is not in-built, it is a learned behaviour. He should start speaking to people in twos, threes, fours and then crowd.


The bottom line is; HE SHOULD MINGLE.

NEXTPLEASE

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Re: Need Your Advice On This by harbibi: 1:23pm On Dec 29, 2014
Self service aint good... He should be bold to approach a lady as a man
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 4:58pm On Dec 29, 2014
harbibi:
Self service aint good... He should be bold to approach a lady as a man
are also saying he's weak
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 5:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
Maccoy1:
A friend of mine shared his story with me nd i want to suggest that he goes for deliverance...Pls what are the signs you see that makes you say a Man is weak...i was thinking these signs are one of them

1)not being able to address a little crowd
2)ma.sturbating
3)being afraid to speak 2d opposite sex
4)feeling responsible for everyone around him,i.e wanting to help every one around him
5)getting easily emotional...

How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"?
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 5:02pm On Dec 29, 2014
Ploy:
He doesn't need any deliverance, all he needs is exposure. He should go out and mingle. Girls won't come knocking at his door and a sex-starved guy will self-service.

Helping people around us is natural, we do it by instinct but wake up when people take us for granted. Public speaking on its own is not in-built, it is a learned behaviour. He should start speaking to people in twos, threes, fours and then crowd.


The bottom line is; HE SHOULD MINGLE.

NEXTPLEASE
tanks for the proffering solution, but the question was does these signs means he's a weak dude
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 5:10pm On Dec 29, 2014
EfemenaXY:


How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"?
thats your opinion, what am saying is him not being able to approach a lady makes him look like a coward...nd that's why am saying maybe he's weak.but since you've singled out self service i'll take it as ur own view...what ur take about the rest of the point
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2014
Maccoy1:
thats your opinion

I haven't given you or anyone my opinion on this thread. Asking a question isn't the same thing as giving an opinion.

Maccoy1:
what am saying is him not being able to approach a lady makes him look like a coward...nd that's why am saying maybe he's weak.

That doesn't address the question I asked you. My question to you was: How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"?

Maccoy1:
but since you've singled out self service i'll take it as ur own view...what ur take about the rest of the point

And what "view" is that, if you don't mind my asking? undecided
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Ploy(m): 5:38pm On Dec 29, 2014
Maccoy1:
tanks for the proffering solution, but the question was does these signs means he's a weak dude

Ok,
He isn't a weak dude he is a lonely dude.
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 10:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
Ploy:


Ok,
He isn't a weak dude he is a lonely dude.
thanks for your contribution
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 11:05pm On Dec 29, 2014
EfemenaXY:


I haven't given you or anyone my opinion on this thread. Asking a question isn't the same thing as giving an opinion.



That doesn't address the question I asked you. My question to you was: How does masturbat!ng make a man "weak"?



And what "view" is that, if you don't mind my asking? undecided
ur question reveals ur objection to the point listed above...nd that is ur opinion...pls always read before you post gibbrish, i wasn't standing on a point which i was not sure of nd that's why i said what your view of those point...don't come hear nd start asking questions like mr lecturer-too-know -all
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 11:40pm On Dec 29, 2014
Maccoy1:
ur question reveals ur objection to the point listed above...nd that is ur opinion...pls always read before you post gibbrish, i wasn't standing on a point which i was not sure of nd that's why i said what your view of those point...don't come hear nd start asking questions like mr lecturer-too-know -all

And I suggest that you go sort out your comprehension issues if you believe that asking questions is akin to holding a contrary view to your perceived albeit non-existent point(s).

I asked you how masturbat!ng makes a man "weak" based on your opening post. Now answer the question damn it and stop trying to reach above your level.

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Re: Need Your Advice On This by baby124: 11:43pm On Dec 29, 2014
He's not weak. Just a regular teenager with low self esteem and bad habits.

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Re: Need Your Advice On This by Evina(f): 11:49pm On Dec 29, 2014
Eeerr, please what is the story? Advice on what exactly?

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Re: Need Your Advice On This by LordReed(m): 9:37am On Dec 30, 2014
Ploy:
He doesn't need any deliverance, all he needs is exposure. He should go out and mingle. Girls won't come knocking at his door and a sex-starved guy will self-service.

Helping people around us is natural, we do it by instinct but wake up when people take us for granted. Public speaking on its own is not in-built, it is a learned behaviour. He should start speaking to people in twos, threes, fours and then crowd.


The bottom line is; HE SHOULD MINGLE.

NEXTPLEASE

Spot on. Not every problem needs "deliverance".
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 9:56am On Dec 30, 2014
EfemenaXY:


And I suggest that you go sort out your comprehension issues if you believe that asking questions is akin to holding a contrary view to your perceived albeit non-existent point(s).

I asked you how masturbat!ng makes a man "weak" based on your opening post. Now answer the question damn it and stop trying to reach above your level.
pack well,go Look for your e-war opponent else were
Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 9:59am On Dec 30, 2014
LordReed:


Spot on. Not every problem needs "deliverance".
yea,thanks.maybe 'll ask him to see a counselor
Re: Need Your Advice On This by EfemenaXY: 10:36am On Dec 30, 2014
Maccoy1:
pack well,go Look for your e-war opponent else were

Mtcheew.
Re: Need Your Advice On This by bukatyne(f): 10:56am On Dec 30, 2014
Ploy:
He doesn't need any deliverance, all he needs is exposure. He should go out and mingle. Girls won't come knocking at his door and a sex-starved guy will self-service.

Helping people around us is natural, we do it by instinct but wake up when people take us for granted. Public speaking on its own is not in-built, it is a learned behaviour. He should start speaking to people in twos, threes, fours and then crowd.


The bottom line is; HE SHOULD MINGLE.

NEXTPLEASE

100% correct

And I think we abuse weakness or perceived strength a lot in our society as regards men

A man who is always bossing those around him is a bully... A man who is always unable to assert himself or always going with the flow (whether he wants to or not) is a push over

Both are actually weak and have low self esteem exhibited in different ways

Greed and Selfishness are two sides of a coin

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Re: Need Your Advice On This by Maccoy1(m): 1:33pm On Dec 30, 2014
Evina:
Eeerr, please what is the story? Advice on what exactly?
the point listed above were the problems he shared with me.i was about recommending him 4 deliverance since i thought it as being weak, but i decided to get other people opinion and proffered advice on how to solve the issue

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