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I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 9:28pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
I am going through what is a classic midlife crisis with a bit of a twist. I’m in my early 40s and have a great wife and two great young kids, all of whom I love dearly. I’ve been with my wife for over 20 years. Everyone tells me how lucky I am to have the perfect marriage. But, of course, I don’t feel so lucky. Instead I feel burdened, trapped by the overwhelming obligations of family and of keeping up appearances. The way I’ve tried to deal with these feelings is by seeing prostitutes. About eight months ago, I met and paid for the woman of my dreams. She’s beautiful, a sexual dynamo, smart, funny and sweet. She’s not a typical prostitute; she’s more like the girl next door who wants to get paid for her great looks and abundant sexual talents. I soon went from being her client to being her friend and confidant. Her presence in my life does two things for me. First I get to feel those incredibly strong emotions that I haven’t felt in years about my wife (lust and longing), and more important, I feel so free during the few hours a month I get to see her. Not only do we explore sexual fantasies that would be completely out of bounds with my wife, but more important, I can completely relax around her and joke around and talk frankly, and not have to worry about things like who’s picking up whom from school. Of course, I know that this whole thing is incredibly stupid and immature, but I can’t figure out how to unring the bell and go back to a life without this woman. Do you think it will be possible to not see her and forget about the pleasure, love and passion that we had? I’ve tried for a few weeks at a time, but I’ve always felt the need to see her again — the urge for release, both literally and metaphorically, was too strong. I have a hard time imagining life without her, but at the same time, she could never be a part of my “real” life — I have too much invested in my marriage and family to break it up. So the question boils down to this: How do I give up sexual (and emotional) nirvana for the sake of my family? |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by Ab025(m): 9:45pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
its simple when u are ready to change, relax with ur wifey, play with her, feel free with her, confide with her, value her and explore proper sexuality with her...then u will be back on track for now, u are lost and not yet ready to be found 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Another stray sheep, head of household indeed . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by coogar: 10:58pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
danielmichael: sëxual compatibility issues..... why did you marry a woman that cannot make your sexual fantasies come true? |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by zeb04(f): 11:02pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Just let your wife know. she might be so scared of seperation and welcome you in (including the hoe) because she wants to save face or she throws your azz to the curb(which in these case makes you legally right to shag the hoe) . Either case you win. Reality check though.the hoe dosnt love you,all the smile is just for her money.she is being professional while you are just being a puzzy. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by baby124: 11:05pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Magazine story for the gods. Congrats. |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by edwife(f): 11:09pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Life isn't perfect and my friend , It isn't meant to be. Sometimes, it's the little burdens and the difficulties in life that makes it all worthwhile and meaningful.But then again, it's those very issues that can make life and romance miserable too. Did you try addressing these issues you seem to have with your wife?Do you even know if she is going through the same ordeal? Family is tough,being a man,husband and father demand work,dedication and love. Going to a prostitute is not a relaxation but rather a door to more trouble,you might be enjoying it now but you won't when you drive that poor woman who is also sacrificing just as you to her untimely death. Be a man and face your duties,stop looking for a cheap way out. |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by 5minsmadness: 11:09pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
byvan:For goodness sake! Can we for once not turn this into another gender war? Please? 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 11:11pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
baby124: U dey smoke ikpo na y!!! |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by baby124: 11:19pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
danielmichael:You de craze. You no sabi copy and paste simple story. Fraudulent impostor. Story teller. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by Evina(f): 11:20pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Op, you are in bondage. The kind that requires you to put Tasha Cobb's "break every chain" on repeat. |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
5minsmadness: This has nothing to do with gender..its about a man not making use of his God given brain. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 11:25pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
baby124: Olodo 1 |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by baby124: 11:26pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
danielmichael:Agbepo 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 11:29pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
baby124:Ishi come to town |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by baby124: 11:31pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
danielmichael:If I sing the olodo rabata song for you in oyo dialect, you will cry on this post. My friend go and suck your thumb in that corner----> |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 11:58pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
baby124:Hahah look@dis rombutious ratatatat who has no estri-metez for masculinity..Bleep ya sonorous rife!!!..idiot |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by EfemenaXY: 12:11am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Terrible copy and paste work. Lazy even. |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by baby124: 12:12am On Dec 30, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: danielmichael:Bwahahahahaha. E pain |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by danielmichael(m): 12:17am On Dec 30, 2014 |
baby124: Haaaaaaaa cnt decipher wad I'm saying...wad a metemetez |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by DukeNija(m): 12:19am On Dec 30, 2014 |
baby124: Are you the only person with a brain? We all saw its copy and paste but chose to ignore and face the issue on ground. Jeez! |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by bukatyne(f): 10:27am On Dec 30, 2014 |
DukeNija: What is the issue on ground? @OP: Let your wife go and live with the woman of your dreams Life is short you know |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by DukeNija(m): 10:31am On Dec 30, 2014 |
bukatyne: The issue on ground is that someone (a married man) is in love with a prostitute. |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by bukatyne(f): 10:34am On Dec 30, 2014 |
DukeNija: Well, I have given my advise *singing* love is all that matters |
Re: I'm Married With Kids And In Love With A Prostitute by amtheone(m): 11:06am On Dec 30, 2014 |
danielmichael: It is always good not to start what you cannot finish. But since you have started, you have to put in the exact energy and resources you put in the first to get the second woman. If you fail to do it, you wont get the desired result that you're looking for. You have a limited time to do this, because you have already sacrificed the future of your family in the altar of lust and selfishness. The seemingly sexual gratification and all the pheripherals that you seem to enjoy will soon become a burning element in your marrow. Note: One cannot and will never enjoy sex successfully outside his/her marriage 1 Like |
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