Am seriously worried with the sort of comments I've been reading on nairaland. In the mood of this festive season most nairalaners had the opportunity to spend quality time with their families. Hence, this development has also created avenues such that sisters and brothers had had to share same room or bed, or even bath together.

So topics like:

https://www.nairaland.com/2066405/sleep-brother-sister-same-room#29300505

https://www.nairaland.com/2066935/get-unclad-brother-sister-presence

Have been created.

I've personally gone through most the of comments and found some deceptive and unacceptable. The truth is that once you're involved in an act that is not accepted by the society you always look for ways to justify your actions.

A lot of things are happening out there that requires a lot of attention these days. Sisters and brothers engaging in illicit sex. It is becoming more common than gay practices. The worst is that this illicit act is protected by the family, using excuses such as love, care and protection among family members.

You hear strange stories every now and then from foreign media speaking out against incestuous relationships and sentencing offenders to jail. However, in my country, Nigeria nobody wants to hear about it because it is an abomination that shouldn't be allowed outside family ears.

It is true that most of us grew in poor homes such that we've to share room with our brothers/sisters. I remember visiting a friend whose parents and other four siblings share just one room until he was 20years old. They'd to divide the room with a blind and they all slept together. Myself, when I was growing, I'd to share a room with my elder sister for about two years. I can assure you that sometimes it wasn't pleasant at all. For instance, waking up in middle of night and finding her rolled so close to me. Its awkward. Or perhaps, she is fast asleep and her clothing are slightly or completely removed from her body and I've to cover her up. Or maybe, she has scattered her underwear on the bed and I want to use the bed and I've to pack them up. I feel really uncomfortable with these issues. My elder sister is more than tens years old than me, which makes me call her aunty. However, it was not still comfortable because I was almost a complete adult at that time. Though, I never have incest with her and the thought never crossed my mind. But today after like five years since I left her place. She admires and even at times tries to compare my qualities with her boyfriend's. Sometimes, I wondered why? Until I researched and discovered that those two years of sharing same bed, eating and doing almost everything together has created a bond between us such that she calls me when she needs comfort after a break-up, or sad event in her life.

She see me as her best friend and caring brother. However, to me is a bit awkward because I don't see reasons why she should run to me for emotional comfort. Don't get me wrong, I love and respect my sister a lot. Infact, she almost single-handily saw me through school. However, I felt and still feel she had my other sisters to run to and they'll comfort her. Hence, my point is emotions can evolve as long as sharing together is involved no matter the relationships in question here.

Kids sleeping brothers and sisters sleeping together is acceptable but after puberty it no longer acceptable. Maybe, a few sleepovers due to circumstances after puberty. I've gone into research and discovered many incestuous families hiding behind caring, loving and protecting. In some countries, it is an offense for relations of opposite sex to spend night together in a room talk more of sharing a bed.

The Reasons Behind The Topic:

[b]1. EMOTIONAL FEELINGS: [/b]Some nairalanders think that relations can't develop emotional feelings within themselves. Hence, I feel they're ignoring the reality of the issue here. Which makes wonder if most are not involved in the illicit act. Some brothers I've seen even go as far as blocking every little advances from other guys towards their sisters. They offer different reasons for their actions. Will you date and marry your sister? Some will even save their sisters name on the phone as: My Angel, My Only, My Love, My Heart etc. When you ask them why? They'll give you different versions of the story. They claim that any person who develops emotional feelings for their sister/brother is abnormal and sick. Let me ask you this questions: Why do most ladies go after men who bear qualities of their father or brothers. Especially if they've great qualities. It is also vice versa for the guys. Guys tends to go for women who possesses attributes similar to their mother or sisters. Or you've never admired or even envied your father/mother for marrying such a great woman/man as your mother/father. Or we've not heard of father impregnating daughter?

[b]2. THE TRUTH AND THE LIE: [/b]Some nairalanders' comments are very disturbing such that an average guy out there will start thinking they're abnormal for admiring their sisters attributes or qualities. It is a lie. Though, it's a pity that some guys go to the extent of acting it out. Which is an unacceptable norm in the society. Having said that, it is pertinent to point out that in every strong denial their is an element of truth. For some nairalanders who 'd ascertain that they sleep unclad, bath and even UnCloth their sisters. Some of the comments are truths hidden behind an unsuspecting statement while other are free minded statements. However, you can decide for self. I've randomly selected few of the comments unedited for your assessment. They are:

[b]Comment 1.
[/b]Hian, Abomination kwa.

I dey sleep Unclad sef with my sisters for same room. Sometimes, dey go tell me to go and shave .. with that their sharp mouth.

I dey help them unclip their bra, massage their shoulders and understand their monthly cycles.

It means nothing and doesn't move a vein.

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[b]Comment 2
[/b]you for real? Siblings? Same mama same papa shocked
As long as I'm at home, my only sister doesn't sleep anywhere but my room.

I dey read some shocking comments here o. Like some people can be tempted to "touch" their own flesh and blood? If my sis were as sexy as nicki minaj and I see her nakeed, it wudnt raise a vein for phuck's sake she's a sister cool

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[b]Comment 3.
What exactly are you preventing?

Your statement simply means you don't trust your own blood brother enough. Or has he made sexual advances at you?

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[b]Comment 4
[/b]Honestly!

I see nothing sharing a bed with my sister no matter how old I am. I mean is this supposed to be a question worth opening a thread for?

It only depicts the kind of things happening in some families in our society today sad

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[b]Comment 5
[/b]Hight of stewpidity ur broda for crying out loud
Wia dos prevention de prevention tin comes to ua mind eh
U guys though amazes me atimes I wonder weda dis re genuine humans
Last two years during ma IT at aba
I stayed with ma cousine with her gal friend and we stayed in der 1 room apartment for half a year ma own na go hospital for morning dn come back late we all slept on de same bed
Even presently dis xmas me n ma cousines n sibling whom I hv nt seen since chatted for so long I forgot to go to ma room n we pass de nite der
So u guys should reason like a beings for once

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Comment 6
Why not? I spent the night in his room last night,and yes on the same bed

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Comment 7
Op, stop saying things like this!

Your own brother??

Na wa o...

My sister, if I visit them, dem dey roll on top my body...na wa o!

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Comment 8
From birth till this moment my brother and I have slept in the same room, with few other siblings too, there's nothing wrong, we used to share the same bed sef.

Op why would your mum even say such?

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Comment 9
I cant do dat bcus prevention is better dan cure.

Response: You are sick
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Comment 10
Of course I can. Infact I enjoy sleeping with my lil bro in the same when my sis isn't around cus I hate to stay alone. There's nothing there. My lil bro is my BestFriend

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Comment 11
On the contrary, they are beauties, endowed and chicky. None of them remain sef. The last one was crowned queen in her school days and would have continued as a model if no be for one sharp guy way come kidnap am carry am run go abroad.

I remember my favourite music to them. ''Nwanne ona alu nu nwanne ya e ..

If brother dey marry sister ...chai

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Comment 12
shocked you don't mean it! U unclip their bra, massage them and calculate their cycles? Do u also change their pads and wash their panties as well, sleep unclad with them and they will help u do the shaving. Mehn don't play sinful saint here, tell me u can do all that without getting excited and I will tell u that u are either a gay or medically u are not a man. I na ako tell by moonlight!

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Comment 13
@op I don't blame your mum for saying dat, cos dis days a lot are happening in dis our society, dat was a motherly advice to u,it doesn't mean she don't trust u or ur brother's, she was just being protective of u all, I av seen brother's sleeping with sisters to the level of getting pregnant nd giving birth to the child, a friend of mine her elder brother raped her nd threatened her not to tell anyone tho she was in primary 4 then........when she has the courage to leak the secret that was the end of their parent marriage the husband was blaming the wife of not been observant nd so on...till today she hate her brother, so can she now get married now nd allow brother's nd sisters to share the same bed ...NO she won't, my self I don't av an elder brother even if I have one I can never share a rum with my bro , if u are a good brother no wrong feelings towards your sister's...........we thank God for your life .....it doesn't means all guys are like you , some brother's are dog and possess with evil spirit
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Comment 14
When all my siblings are home, we sleep on the same bed(most times) and yes I sleep unclad covering myself with a piece of wrapper, you need to see how the 4 of us squeeze in on one bed gisting and then fall asleep like that.

Only a very twisted, perveted bascard,would think of being intimate with a sibling, sick people full this world sha.

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Comment 15
Hian, Abomination kwa.

I dey sleep Unclad sef with my sisters for same room. Sometimes, dey go tell me to go and shave .. with that their sharp mouth.

I dey help them unclip their bra, massage their shoulders and understand their monthly cycles.

It means nothing and doesn't move a vein.

Response: I wanted to comment but when I saw yours I decided not to because you've said it all.. We've even had our bath together....
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EHYA


What a sad story

keep observing

Is that the reason you wrote all these stories for d gods

Sitting behind newkidoo...

Eyah

The tin just tire me

ijobaooorun:
Sitting behind newkidoo...

You wan copy my work
Why you sit behind me... Sit in front jhare.. Behind Is for satan..
Iwaju layere..

Will comment later

[size=20pt]I can't imagine even seeing my sister naked,God forbid,,any way Chinese do this a lot,am I mistaken?
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waiting patiently

Speechless

kristina1:
INTERESTING!!!
FOLLOWING.//

while waiting lets chat. how u doing friendship?

Nairaland has become hopelessly boring and meaningless to me. I wonder what was so addictive about it before and what changed. The lost-love has made my life more boring though.

kristina1:

Am doin great.....u?
You literally spent tday on nl

something like dat. gat lot of pple to do the work

hmmmmm..

op, u no get work, no normal guy/girl will get attracted to his/her sibling. cousin maybe yes, but sibling...that person has serious problem

jingh:
keep observing

Nairaland association of obsrvrs (NAO's) I hail thee

ireneony:
Eyah

Haba

wunmi590:


Haba

why you de laff

ireneony:
why you de laff

Jst feel lik exercising my mouth

After watching dis India vs Nigeria match dat ended 99-1 4 d 3rd time, I jst realised dat diaris God oo

Very well written and your thoughts properly articulated.

I agree with a number of things you have said but I do not think it inappropriate for siblings of the opposite sex to have each others back.

Family should always be the pillar on which individual members can fall back on in moments of crisis; this is one advantage of being raised in a closely knit family.

Your sister's desire for your counsel and comfort in such moments should be treasured as against you seeing it as awkward.

If she doesn't come to you, who else do you want her to go to? Friends? Or she should go through the pains all alone? I don't think that is right.

One major reason why the community experiences a dearth in morality is because the family unit is not as close as it should be and instead of kids learning from home, they pick all soughts from their friends and on social media.

The saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are" won't hold true if each family brace up to their responsibilities.

I understand your grievance and for the most part, I agree with you but this shouldn't be a basis for errecting imaginary walls between members of the same family, simply because they happen to be of different sexes.

generation of perverts

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naijaboiy:
i really don't understand this Op's point

Are you saying because many people agreed they can sleep with their sibling of the opposite sex in a room,,then they are practising inbreeding?

What evidence do you have to back this up?

You even had to copy their comments and paste here which to me is very wrong.

You need evidence to believe right? You want me to install hidden cameras in their rooms when they go to bed unclad with their sisters and message her body. Listen, brothers and sisters are supposed to be each others backbone and not playing with each others genitals.

From experience: Their is this overprotective brother who scrolls his sister's phone every micro second to find out her private life, who is dating or attempting to date her. He'll copy out the number and call guy to scold him for running with his sister 19plus old girl. These people are closing knitted but am observant person might sense the air of rebellion and dominance which characterizes the behaviours of those involved in incestuous relationships. Having said that, these people are best of friends, they prefer each others side when sleeping time comes. One evidence you should look for do they jealous their brother's/sister's girlfriend/boyfriend? If that is the case you don't need evidence.

You still want me to install hidden cameras? So you can see when they're pouncing abi?

As for the copied comments, I ensure not print anybody's name to the comments. I just wanted a proper look at them for assessment.

i dey observe ooooo