You see...

Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.

What's the use?

Many call themselves BIG BOYS according to their own standards but things have changed.

What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big Boy?


1. He doesn't show off before ladies.

Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like "junkies", No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that's why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and start playing compulsory Candy Crush and Temple Run Oz that you haven't played for a long time.
There is God ooo!


2. He doesn't "pursue" Ladies on the streets.

To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they're still disturbing the girl's life with "oh baby, wait na, I have something to tell you" lol...You wan preach the Word of God?
I'm not saying you can't stop a girl NICELY to share your affection.
Make sure you're just not pursuing her. Be mild in your "desperation"/ pursuit.


3. He doesn't do things to attract unnecessary attention.


I believe, only kid-boys do this. They shout and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open "CONTROVERSIAL" threads, so to speak, just to attract "CHEAP" attention. NO! That's not the way!
A big boy is himself but his best self.
He strives hard to be better.
In NL, for example, if you don't always make FP, find out the skills and don't try to think that being "Controversial" will get you FP. That's a MIRAGE!
(If you don't make FP, keep trying, don't give up, lol)


4. He has his own money

It may not be in millions yet but at least he has a stable influx of income. This ish led tallesty 1 to open a thread regarding why BROKE GUYS SHOULD NOT DATE!
I buy his reasons.
No Big boy lives on friends or others!
He may ask but he doesn't depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them airtime. #I Laff in Japanese #


5. He is Financially responsible for the upkeep of his girl.

If you're "privileged" to have a girl who loves you, buying her things will just be natural.
Small boys are the reasons we'll be seeing threads like "DO I GIVE MY GIRLFRIEND TRANSPORT FARE EACH TIME SHE COMES?"
You may bash me but I don't care! If she is not just a sexxx doll to you but a potential wife, transport fare isn't a topic!
hmmmm...


6. He doesn't ALWAYS involve in argument with his girl.

Your lady might wrong you and still expect an apology. Stupid right?
A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels stupid after that!
She'll find a way to apologize...

Some will be involving in e-war with girls on NL. If I find myself arguing with her, I quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After that, I noticed all of them saying same things like: " I'm more sorry, take a hug" etc.
Big Boys Apologize.
Small Boys Don't Apologize.


7. He tries hard to fulfil his promise.

If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you'll make it up to her and really do make it up.
It says a lot about your personality.


Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is.
It's not about "Low waist" and Having Seven Girlfriends oo...
It's about being responsible to One girl.
As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.

Don't be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee...No!

Aim higher.
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da showin off could b so annoyin

Hehehe. . Front page

Sure u r correct

very good points

Space booking in progress, No be say the post make brain sha but FP sure

Wow, so am i BiG Boy. #Eldee tinz

Seriously , I posses 80% of that, but I'm not a Big boy


It's either you're wrong

Or I'm a big boy

How about six packs? And having a suit? Being the best man for four of your friends

Samiceman:
Space booking in progress, No be say the post make brain sha but FP sure

see u the post make brain die. I no wan just comment because i no be guy so i decided to buy some plots of land

I do agree but not completely.

regarding that no.5, i dont give my hard earn cash to girls that are 100% reliant on their boyfriends for their financial upkeep

Like,if you're following me

I reserve my comment till i see d. Part 2... Qualities of a big girl

Thanks Op . . Those rich niqqas smoking weed drinking,clubbing and doing all those sh*ts are kids . . But i'm partially a big boy cos i posses all the qualities you listed except No.4 . . . . Well,girls will still prefer the qualities of the bad boyskids i listed above to that of big boys

tobillionaire:
I reserve my comment till i see d. Part 2... Qualities of a big girl

Spoke my mind...loz, oya ladies give us part 2!

Nice one op. Most ladies do love a humble somebody who does nt show off, and dnt even need the person to take care of dem financialy actualy, coz dey r nt peralised. Got 2 feet and 2 hands, dnt need no nigga to take care of me, bt if he insists, den y nt ;

op you try. weldone

Nice one op.....not some agberos and thugs we have on here!!! Its the way you carry yourself that shows how big you are,not behaving like a kid and living a fake lifestyle

I agree with your points except point number 5. A guy is not financially responsible for the upkeep of his gal.

He may decide to help out but its not his responsibility.

Awsome i must say

Big boys listens to good hip hop music ...Not Nigerian pangolo ...


NP:Jay Rock ft Kendrick Lamar-the hood gone love it

nyc1 op, one does nt nid to ve all d millions b4 he can b termed as a big boy. I lyk guys dat re reserved , dat dont show off or try to impress any1 which cums wit alot of maturity.

I am a big girl.

So on point.Have you read my lifestyle particulars before?You got me

Nice post @op but let me add quickly that big boys are not father xmas. I can say sorry even when I'm right just to avoid arguments and noise but I've never been an ATM and don't intend to be. Naija ladies should learn how to be supportive to men just like their counterparts in civilised countries

Ok

You've been in the game for a very long time to know all this! Team big boy hold your self

I prefer to be just an ordinary boy with self esteem