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I think ama Big Boy

#thatsme

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Ilovenigeria:
I am a big boy.

Seems someone forgot his profile's gender. Na so God go dey expose una

So,Mr. Smith

Wetin you come dey feel like now? Eh




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P.s;
Emusmith has been banned o. I think for 24hours,no know wetin him do sef

Emusmith and tosyne2much this thread is combined work.

IdiAmin1:
Seems someone forgot his profile's gender. Na so God go dey expose una

Sharap!!!!!!! I can be anything I want to be.

I'm a 5-star big boy then..

*****

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rawpadgin:
regarding that no.5, i dont give my hard earn cash to girls that are 100% relyant on their boyfriends for their financial upkeep

Words from a Stingy Guy

Big boys dont show off.....empty vessels makes the loudest noise.....

emusmith:


You see...

Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.

What's the use?

Many call themselves BIG BOYS according to their own standards but things have changed.

What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big Boy?


1. He doesn't show off before ladies.

Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like "junkies", No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that's why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and start playing compulsory Candy Crush and Temple Run Oz that you haven't played for a long time.
There is God ooo!


2. He doesn't "pursue" Ladies on the streets.

To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they're still disturbing the girl's life with "oh baby, wait na, I have something to tell you" lol...You wan preach the Word of God?
I'm not saying you can't stop a girl NICELY to share your affection.
Make sure you're just not pursuing her. Be mild in your "desperation"/ pursuit.


3. He doesn't do things to attract unnecessary attention.


I believe, only kid-boys do this. They shout and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open "CONTROVERSIAL" threads, so to speak, just to attract "CHEAP" attention. NO! That's not the way!
A big boy is himself but his best self.
He strives hard to be better.
In NL, for example, if you don't always make FP, find out the skills and don't try to think that being "Controversial" will get you FP. That's a MIRAGE!
(If you don't make FP, keep trying, don't give up, lol)


4. He has his own money

It may not be in millions yet but at least he has a stable influx of income. This ish led tallesty 1 to open a thread regarding why BROKE GUYS SHOULD NOT DATE!
I buy his reasons.
No Big boy lives on friends or others!
He may ask but he doesn't depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them airtime. #I Laff in Japanese #


5. He is Financially responsible for the upkeep of his girl.

If you're "privileged" to have a girl who loves you, buying her things will just be natural.
Small boys are the reasons we'll be seeing threads like "DO I GIVE MY GIRLFRIEND TRANSPORT FARE EACH TIME SHE COMES?"
You may bash me but I don't care! If she is not just a sexxx doll to you but a potential wife, transport fare isn't a topic!
hmmmm...


6. He doesn't ALWAYS involve in argument with his girl.

Your lady might wrong you and still expect an apology. Stupid right?
A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels stupid after that!
She'll find a way to apologize...

Some will be involving in e-war with girls on NL. If I find myself arguing with her, I quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After that, I noticed all of them saying same things like: " I'm more sorry, take a hug" etc.
Big Boys Apologize.
Small Boys Don't Apologize.


7. He tries hard to fulfil his promise.

If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you'll make it up to her and really do make it up.
It says a lot about your personality.


Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is.
It's not about "Low waist" and Having Seven Girlfriends oo...
It's about being responsible to One girl.
As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.

Don't be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee...No!

Aim higher.
Subscribe to TEAM BIG BOYS TODAY FOR FREE, LOL!

See the Secretary, Tosyne2much to put down your moniker!

Good Evening! lol

how did you cocome about these 'qualities'

herald9:


Big boys listens to good hip hop music ...Not Nigerian pangolo ...


NP:Jay Rock ft Kendrick Lamar-the hood gone love it

Herald
Olamide is always cool.
Big boy or no big boy!
Ayamlaykorn

wixh kind pvssy niggas dey nairaland? rubbish thread,


it could have been named how to please bitchhes, mtchewwww

Ilovenigeria:

Sharap!!!!!!! I can be anything I want to be.

No hard feelings madam. I think sharap is not in order dear.

Errr

nice writeup...complements

:oHe dosen't brag before his fellow guys, he bring himself down before other niggas

Hmnnn

kindnyce:
Big boys dont show off.....empty vessels makes the loudest noise.....

No....Action speaks louder

Hi ladies n gentle men, most times I respect the interlect of NL, that's what prompted me to become a member and be following the trend. But most times, I read some post that make me have a re think. The other day, someone was asking if he shd dump a 40k job. Lol, any young man that's doing a 40k job shdnt open his mouth and say that he's working plzz. To the trend of the day, leme tell u guys who a big boy is. A big boy is some one that millions run in his account, abig boy is a guy who lives in a flashy house, a big boy is a guy who drives a posh car,a big boy is some one who has responsibilities. Plssss, having jst a phone, lol, is it bb, iphone,ipad,tablet or what ever, I can't stl stp laughing. Laughing doesn't want to allow me to conclude what I am writing cos I'm stl laughing....

IdiAmin1:
No hard feelings madam. I think sharap is not in order dear.

Can you swerve?

striktlymi:
I agree with your points except point number 5. A guy is not financially responsible for the upkeep of his gal.

He may decide to help out but its not his responsibility.

You can say not in all areas... But in some... it is!!!

When you pay your gal's Hair Salon bills... You'll feel worthy when walking with her on that Hair!!!

Learn to take responsibilities. .. (Another feature of a BIG BOY, planning to be a Husband)

Remember; My Opinion!

Drkunle007:

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Musiwa alert .

Ok so this list is so on point... Goood observation.

jvera:
da showin off could b so annoyin

Come lemme show off on you

tosyne2much:
8. He humbles himself & does not make other people feel less of themselves

Some self acclaimed BIG BOYS can be so silly. Probably because they were privileged to get a degree from a reputable university, they keep raising shoulders making every other person look like they have a slim chance of making it in life. A BIG BOY understands the principles of life and he knows fully well that life sometimes favours the illiterates ever more than the educated 'cos he understands the dynamism of life, therefore he does not pride himself

9. His Finances does not becloud his right sense of reasoning

Some dudes stop holding conversation with their neighbours or friends the moment they climb onto the ladder of success. They find it difficult to mingle with other people because of ego boasting. A BIG BOY is well behaved and does not allow his success becloud his right sense of reasoning


10. He doesn't belittle other people's entity

A BIG BOY appreciates the good work of others rather than those who derive pleasure in bad-mouthing it. Some. Self acclaimed working class dudes are quick to condemned and rubbish my threads (e.g Pls get a job) yet this same people will copy my thread and paste it on their forum (plagiarism). A BIG BOY praises and encourages you even if you are not so doing well


10 He humbly corrects people's mistakes

A BIG BOY does not do I TOO KNOW Therefore, when a BIG BOY reads a post and finds grammatical blunders in it, he sieves the blunders and picks the sense out of it or humbly corrects the mistakes where correction needs to be made, rather than those who will outrightly mock you and make fun out of it

11. Be yourself @ anytime. Dont form cos u wat a girl's attention, be who u are nd dnt pretend abt sumtin u dnt no of wen even she ask u. Big Boys dnt need 2 lie 2 girls.

Ilovenigeria:
I am a big girl.

with small yansh..

ewizard1:


You can say not in all areas... But in some... it is!!!

When you pay your gal's Hair Salon bills... You'll feel worthy when walking with her on that Hair!!!

Learn to take responsibilities. .. (Another feature of a BIG BOY, planning to be a Husband)

Remember; My Opinion!

I still disagree!!!