I just cant believe what I am hearing
This is the moment where I wish I cld help everyone around me, unfortunately things dont worklike that

two of us became really close 2 years before I left Nigeria
when we were both obsessed with celebrities
always watching MTV, E channel etc
I remember going to her house every weekend


years back I heard her mother died
her mother complained of just neck pain and died 4 hours later in the hospital

the sad and complicated thing
is that her mother was a mistress
not really the official wife of her father
she was just a baby mama chopping from his wealth

her father is a big politician in Nigeria
when her mother died
her father dumped her in one of his baby mama's house

the step mother is so mean and wicked to her and her younger sister who is just like 10 years old

apparently the money, her father gives her is not enough
so now I hrd shes now sleeping with old men for money

I remember her mother really protected her from that side of life
she grew up like a princess
now shes now rotten

does she really have to sleep with men for money
cant she manage and graduate from university
get a good job

so she can get enough money

oh life

And the moral of this story is?

I dnt really understand this post.

Are you even asking us a question or telling us story?

Calm down onila.. U can talk to her to quit.

Chicken no D̶̲̅ε̲̣y give birth to turkey!
..he should seek GEJ for the transformation agenda!

She might not be doing it because she lacks, but because it's a Nigerian thing. Many Nigerian ladies are men depend even those that have a job still want collect from elderly men.

Help her now, it's your responsibility. Unfortunate situations don't get solved by nairalanding them. Help your cousin if you truly love her.

What's our business? She is not the first.
If u can't help her, just keep quiet and pray.

Why are u being judgemental? Cant u see the type of foundation she had as a child? Do u expect her father who is only interested in accumulating baby mamas to be a good example/mentor to her? Will the woman she's staying with have the heart to put her right? No good examples around. So? U can only be there for her by advising her from time to time.

Sophyrocks:
Why are u being judgemental? Cant u see the type of foundation she had as a child? Do u expect her father who is only interested in accumulating baby mamas to be a good example/mentor to her? Will the woman she's staying with have the heart to put her right? No good examples around. So? U can only be there for her by advising her from time to time.

How I am being judgmental

cant u see am worried

How this one take consign me?

When Nigerian ladies see men as source of income, instead of working and sweating and earn enough to see them through, they'd rather seek for the man/men that will solve their problems.

Onilachukwu,kindly stop telling nairalanders what goes on in your family. How can you call your cousin Ashawo on a public forum?

Chai!

onila:


I just cant believe what I am hearing
This is the moment where I wish I cld help everyone around me, unfortunately things dont worklike that

two of us became really close 2 years before I left Nigeria
when we were both obsessed with celebrities
always watching MTV, E channel etc
I remember going to her house every weekend


years back I heard her mother died
her mother complained of just neck pain and died 4 hours later in the hospital

the sad and complicated thing
is that her mother was a mistress
not really the official wife of her father
she was just a baby mama chopping from his wealth

her father is a big politician in Nigeria
when her mother died
her father dumped her in one of his baby mama's house

the step mother is so mean and wicked to her and her younger sister who is just like 10 years old

apparently the money, her father gives her is not enough
so now I hrd shes now sleeping with old men for money

I remember her mother really protected her from that side of life
she grew up like a princess
now shes now rotten

does she really have to sleep with men for money
cant she manage and graduate from university
get a good job

so she can get enough money

oh life

Can u please tex me her info, so I can look her up; should I ever find myself in Nigeria

berem:
Onilachukwu,kindly stop telling nairalanders what goes on in your family. How can you call your cousin Ashawo on a public forum?

Chai!

isnt she doing ashawo

JiggamanGh:


Can u please tex me her info, so I can look her up; should I ever find myself in Nigeria

she gats hustle if she can work the pole and she got great bod link her and i can intro her to one of my ppl that a owns a gent club @ least stripping is better than whoring and pays a lot ....am off oh happy new yr in advance everyone

this is one of the reason Jesus did not condemn the woman that was caught in the act of adultery. this things happen. it is just a passing phase of her life. you cannot say a word like stop doing this/ that when there was no provision on ground.

that is why many people run and hid abroad. where the government provides for any citizen who is not working with a tax payers money. ask any one in US, UK or Australia. they will tell you how tax are been imposed on workers just for the provision of non workers like your cousin, and other amenities. just support her morally if you are not financially buoyant. tell her it will be well.

Onila
wh@ did u and ur family done 4 her since her mum die since she was ur coursin. "her father dump her with his mistress"Did ur family ever lend a helping hand toward her upbringing since her mum die
plsss stop this ur judgemental nonsense
mayb if ur mum/aunt should lend a helping hand, she wil hav turn out a good girl as u claim to b
next time u want to judge, try wearing her shoes

let every man work out his own salvation with fear and trembling.

This girl is senseless...... I mean onila......

berem:
Onilachukwu,kindly stop telling nairalanders what goes on in your family. How can you call your cousin Ashawo on a public forum?

Chai!

thank u 4 talking sum sense into dat lad's head. Na everything wey dey happen 4 her family we must hear 4 nairaland. I pity u

Haywhymido:
thank u 4 talking sum sense into dat lad's head. Na everything wey dey happen 4 her family we must hear 4 nairaland. I pity u

who knows me here

abeg pm me her number, i want to make an inquiry..

@OP.
You left Nigeria to where?. To do what?.
Are you the only girl who love prostitution?. Your cousin you abandoned in Nigeria have to survive like you do.

you talk too much.

onila:
who knows me here

zip your loose tongue

Onila, happy new year! i hope you become less controversial

Dont judge your cousin, love her more lest i forget prostitution also exists in the corporate sector

mrrock:
@OP.
You left Nigeria to where?. To do what?.
Are you the only girl who love prostitution?. Your cousin you abandoned in Nigeria have to survive like you do.

*Faints*

Tantidora:
Onila
wh@ did u and ur family done 4 her since her mum die since she was ur coursin. "her father dump her with his mistress"Did ur family ever lend a helping hand toward her upbringing since her mum die
plsss stop this ur judgemental nonsense
mayb if ur mum/aunt should lend a helping hand, she wil hav turn out a good girl as u claim to b
next time u want to judge, try wearing her shoes

Gbam. But you can gbagaun though.

onila:


How I am being judgmental

cant u see am worried

if u r doing well in diaspora then send her some cash 2 start up something or finish her school

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