Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

Lolz..Lecturer
This expo u sharing,Daris god oo..
Happy New yr in advance,dear..

SuperMartins:
Lolz..Lecturer
This expo u sharing,Daris god oo..
Happy New yr in advance,dear..

tanx, i wish u d same.

Truth dey ur post tho

Nairaland president was here.

Very true @ OP

Its all in our hands, we can determine what we want from our relationship. How he treats you depends on you

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

....

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

No lies.. however girls/ladies are slaves to their emotions which the men control.

God bless op.

A guy wl treat you,just the way you present yourself,itz in our hand.

Just passing

seriously,the way we carry ourselves as ladies Matters a lot.

kristina1:
God bless op.

A guy wl treat you,just the way you present yourself,itz in our hand.

tanx dear nd God bless u too.

You're correct.
Some ladies like playing hard -to get whereas, they like/love the guy.
Some men endure all the twists/turns and indirect insults but some men don't.


This topic should serve as a reminder to ladies about their responsibilities

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

true

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

The best post for January 1st, I saw your comments on a thread, i was very impressed, keep it up.

There are lots of powers that a woman carries, only if she can use it positively with wisdom

The man can be called the head of the home, but A wise woman can be the one running things and taking decisions.
the man will just be responding, yea dear, that's a nice idea, you can go on with your plans … etc

Women carry a lot of influence but they don't know, some others don't know how to use it positively.

ideology:


The best post for January 1st, I saw your comments on a thread, i was very impressed, keep it up.

There are lots of powers that a woman carries, only if she can use it positively with wisdom

The man can be called the head of the home, but A wise woman can be the one running things and taking decisions. the man will just be responding, yea dear, that's a nice idea, you can go on with your plans … etc

Women carry a lot of influence but they don't know, some others don't know how to use it positively.

Tanx

You make sense

O k;

Op,

Seeing a young lady that reasons the way you do as suggested by the Op is encouraging.

A lady who carries herself well deserves sound worship from our kind.

Can u please give us practical example of situations, way ladies react n d. Way a man interpretes it

The fact is that the point you are stressing is correct. The question now is, how? How should they carry theirselves? Many girls I believe will even be more confused here, though will think and act like they really know how. Forming hard to get doesn't make him take you serious. In fact, decent and serious guys don't stand the stress, but playas do. [left]I think the op is emphasizing maturity and sense of purpose, rather than being a fake et al.

Harmonyemerald:
Can u please give us practical example of situations, way ladies react n d. Way a man interpretes it

Asses your self and do some correction, let me not be harsh on you. Op is trying to let you know that what happens in your relationship is as result of how you treat your guy. Stop forming hard to get after both of you have long became friends, be your self and treat your man with respect. .............. I shouldn't be writing much on this topic, after all you aren't a baby.

prettyjo:
seriously,the way we carry ourselves as ladies Matters a lot.

exactly..

Harmonyemerald:
Can u please give us practical example of situations, way ladies react n d. Way a man interpretes it

here is a pratical example, a good- looking Guy comes in, he's handsome, fit, no rings on his fingers and when he walks up 2 d treadmill nxt to where u're working out, d chemistry btw d two of u is electric. He smiles, u smile back and wen d two of u re finishing working out, he goes all out- comes up to u nd break d ice.
'' Looks like u had a gud work out" he might sa y, lookin u in ur eyes nd den lettin his gaze linger sumwhere around ur hips nd says"A woman takes gud care of herself .Nice"..
How u respond will enable him consider if u re a plaything or he should take u serious. Then u say something like " u knw a girl gotta luk hot" nd den u twirl around so he can get a better view, nd dat man is goin to make a mental calculation of hw fst he can get u into bed. A man will determine frm those few wrds nd tiny action dat u re a woman who can b easily had, bt if u respond to him by sayin sumtyn like " Tanks, my health is more important to me nd working out is a great way of keepin shape" nd he is goin to ve to dig a little deep to find out more abt u. Source frm Steven harvey " Act like a lady think like a man"

Chizzy20:
here is a pratical example, a good- looking Guy comes in, he's handsome, fit, no rings on his fingers and when he walks up 2 d treadmill nxt to where u're working out, d chemistry btw d two of u is electric. He smiles, u smile back and wen d two of u re finishing working out, he goes all out- comes up to u nd break d ice.
'' Looks like u had a gud work out" he might sa y, lookin u in ur eyes nd den lettin his gaze linger sumwhere around ur hips nd says"A woman takes gud care of herself .Nice"..
How u respond will enable him consider if u re a plaything or he should take u serious. Then u say something like " u knw a girl gotta luk hot" nd den u twirl around so he can get a better view, nd dat man is goin to make a mental calculation of hw fst he can get u into bed. A man will determine frm those few wrds nd tiny action dat u re a woman who can b easily had, bt if u respond to him by sayin sumtyn like " Tanks, my health is more important to me nd working out is a great way of keepin shape" nd he is goin to ve to dig a little deep to find out more abt u.

real nice

Chizzy20:
here is a pratical example, a good- looking Guy comes in, he's handsome, fit, no rings on his fingers and when he walks up 2 d treadmill nxt to where u're working out, d chemistry btw d two of u is electric. He smiles, u smile back and wen d two of u re finishing working out, he goes all out- comes up to u nd break d ice.
'' Looks like u had a gud work out" he might sa y, lookin u in ur eyes nd den lettin his gaze linger sumwhere around ur hips nd says"A woman takes gud care of herself .Nice"..
How u respond will enable him consider if u re a plaything or he should take u serious. Then u say something like " u knw a girl gotta luk hot" nd den u twirl around so he can get a better view, nd dat man is goin to make a mental calculation of hw fst he can get u into bed. A man will determine frm those few wrds nd tiny action dat u re a woman who can b easily had, bt if u respond to him by sayin sumtyn like " Tanks, my health is more important to me nd working out is a great way of keepin shape" nd he is goin to ve to dig a little deep to find out more abt u.

its not cool to use the excerpts from steve harvey's bestselling book "act like a lady,think like a man",yet failing to tell nairalanders the source!its a crime to pass off lines from an author's book as ur original ideas..take note @op!

Blackbeauty:
its not cool to use the excerpts from steve harvey's bestselling book "act like a lady,think like a man",yet failing to tell nairalanders the source!its a crime to pass off lines from an author's book as ur original ideas..take note @op!

lolzz tanx, i didnt claim it was mine.. Noted, would ve posted d source. Done dat already..We learn evriday.

Chizzy20:
lolzz tanx, i didnt claim it was mine.. Noted, would ve posted d source. Done dat already..We learn evriday.

you r welcome

Chizzy20:
Newsflash, its nt d guy who determines weda u re a plaything or he wants to b serious abt u nd get to knw u more, its u( ladies).
Wen a man approaches u, u re d one wit total control ova d situation- whether he can talk to u, buy u a drink, dance with u, get ur nos, take u home, see u again, all of dat. Men certainly want these things frm u, dats y dey talked to u in d 1st place. But its u who decides if u re goin to giv dem any of d things dey want, nd how exactly dey re goin to get dem.
Where u stand in men's eyes is dictated by ur control ova d situation. Every wrd u say, every move u make, every signal u give a man will help him determine whether he should try to play u, be straight with u or move on to d nxt woman.

Nice one Op

Chizzy20:
here is a pratical example, a good- looking Guy comes in, he's handsome, fit, no rings on his fingers and when he walks up 2 d treadmill nxt to where u're working out, d chemistry btw d two of u is electric. He smiles, u smile back and wen d two of u re finishing working out, he goes all out- comes up to u nd break d ice.
'' Looks like u had a gud work out" he might sa y, lookin u in ur eyes nd den lettin his gaze linger sumwhere around ur hips nd says"A woman takes gud care of herself .Nice"..
How u respond will enable him consider if u re a plaything or he should take u serious. Then u say something like " u knw a girl gotta luk hot" nd den u twirl around so he can get a better view, nd dat man is goin to make a mental calculation of hw fst he can get u into bed. A man will determine frm those few wrds nd tiny action dat u re a woman who can b easily had, bt if u respond to him by sayin sumtyn like " Tanks, my health is more important to me nd working out is a great way of keepin shape" nd he is goin to ve to dig a little deep to find out more abt u. Source frm Steven harvey " Act like a lady think like a man"

wow! I love your analysis