Well,i am much of an introvert'i feel shy a lot,i cant face the crowd.I dnt relate with people a lot.Some pple think i am proud,but it's not lyk dat.Hm,my boo has been telling me he wants me to meet his mum,but i do give him one flimsy excuse or the other,not because i dnt wanna c her,but because i dnt know what to say when we meet.

There is nothing there, just be urslf,

christybabe:
There is nothing there, just be urslf,

wil that help

First of all, Relax. They are humans just like you and they won't eat you.

Secondly you should be yourself. Your boyfriend's parents would be able to decipher if you are just trying to pretend to be who you are not. Be free with them the same way you would be free with your own parents but with a certain level of respect, discuss with her the same way you'll discuss with your mum.

Don't worry. She is going to like you

You guys shld advice me pls

Lilamartedi:
First of all, Relax. They are humans just like you and they won't eat you.

Secondly you should be yourself. Your boyfriend's parents would be able to decipher if you are just trying to pretend to be who you are not. Be free with them the same way you would be free with your own parents but with a certain level of respect, discuss with her the same way you'll discuss with your mum.

Don't worry. They are going to like you

will it work

MhizVee:
will it work

Yes dear. You can talk to her about anything. About Food, your school or work or even your boyfriend..
Just be yourself

Lilamartedi:
Yes dear. You can talk to her about anything. About Food, your school or work or even your boyfriend..
Just be yourself

ok tnx,i dont knw y i am shy

Africanapple
unibenstudent
tosyne2much
holatin
kachisbarbie
dechandel
i nid ur advice

tosyne2much:
The only pretence allowed in life is confidence. Just try to fake CONFIDENCE in the presence of your mother in law (it is a must)

Pls just try to be free. Don't allow fear or shyness give a false impression towards you. If you go there and display the introverted nature of yours, you would be tagged "PROUD"

Just try to relate with her (them) in a kind manner and aslo try force yourself to say something

ok tnx

MhizVee:
ok tnx,i dont knw y i am shy

it's perfectly normal to feel shy sometimes, don't just let it get the better of you

Lilamartedi:
it's perfectly normal to feel shy sometimes, don't just let it get the better of you

ok tnx

Hello Miss, talk about her son, tell her how u feel about him and also be good to the mother inlaw and also visit her frequently am sure she gonna like u, and the last always be your self!

Samwhizzy:
Hello Miss, talk about her son, tell her how u feel about him and also be good to the mother inlaw and also visit her frequently am sure she gonna like u, and the last always be your self!

ok tnx

Very very Welcome ma!

Wel,i think u should start practising with ur friends,so that u won't flop wen u eventually meet her..u really nid it or else,dy wil tag u,wat u dnt want.

Sooner or later you wil run out of excuses. She won't eat you alive. Just be open, respectful and cheerful. Get it over and done with alredy!

ivyy:
Sooner or later you wil run out of excuses. She won't eat you alive. Just be open, respectful and cheerful. Get it over and done with alredy!

tnx a lot

Dearie, just be yourself. Don't be who you are not. If you do and later revert to your real self, you may be called a pretender.

MhizVee:
Well,i am much of an introvert'i feel shy a lot,i cant face the crowd.I dnt relate with people a lot.Some pple think i am proud,but it's not lyk dat.Hm,my boo has been telling me he wants me to meet his mum,but i do give him one flimsy excuse or the other,not because i dnt wanna c her,but because i dnt know what to say when we meet.

You can't avoid her forever.

Use that opportunity to understand a bit more about your boyfriend's background, but at the sametime, be watchful and observant.

Goodluck.

EfemenaXY:


You can't avoid her forever.

Use that opportunity to understand a bit more about your boyfriend's background, but at the sametime, be watchful and observant.

Goodluck.

tnx

MhizVee:
Well,i am much of an introvert'i feel shy a lot,i cant face the crowd.I dnt relate with people a lot.Some pple think i am proud,but it's not lyk dat.Hm,my boo has been telling me he wants me to meet his mum,but i do give him one flimsy excuse or the other,not because i dnt wanna c her,but because i dnt know what to say when we meet.

These are exactly the qualities that mother in laws love!
All you need to add on this is respectful greeting. The way you greet her is already 90 % of the exam passed. This depends on the mans tribe. In most cases bending the knees and "Ma" or "Mummy" suffices.

Please do not tell her you love her son, like someone advised. It would make her see you as too "wise". Just make sure that you are very respectful to your finance when she is around because she does not care about the love but that her son is happy and has a good wife.

Try and help in the household. Before she gets up you should be awake and busy.

The less you talk the less mistake you make.

Good Luck and a blessed married life in future.