striktlymi:


Lol!

I truly appreciate the fact that people are different and with that difference comes different ways of relating with them but won't it be easier to come and just talk about what happened instead of wanting to be cuddled first before opening the 'cookie jar'?

it would... but a little need for 'cuddle First' is okk

just talk to her about it.

Tallesty1:
E no follow.

Here is what we need.

My love, I just collected my salary, do you need it?

It is January, have you paid your rent, I have about 100k in my account so lemme know when you are going to pay.

Y'knw, stuffs like that.

If I tell you say I dey hungry, wetin U go do?

I fit send you food through Bluetooth nau


You see am now, and at the end una go dey call Ladies gold diggers .

Elantracey:


Lol , not even from Pluto , the none of the seven planets can inbreed a super human like moi

How does she do that?

A man needs to be cared for not necessarily pampered. A woman needs to be cared for not necessarily pampered. However,pampering your partner maybe inevitable when they are sick or indisposed.

Truth b told


When that [size=28pt] love bug[/size] stings u real hard chances are u get to act like a child (nt necessarily childish) towards ur patner

striktlymi:


How does she do that?

By the spirit

quivah:

it would... but a little need for 'cuddle First' is okk

just talk to her about it.

I think I have a lot to learn practically. I think it has something to do with me growing up in the midst of guys.

Its often all man for himself and the survivour of the fittest.

First thing that comes to mind for me would be: okay, what's wrong?

The thought of cuddling may not come to me at that moment.

PrettyClare7:
A man needs to be cared for not necessarily pampered. A woman needs to be cared for not necessarily pampered. However,pampering your partner maybe inevitable when they are sick or indisposed.

I agree and can relate with that.

striktlymi:



I think I have a lot to learn practically. I think it has something to do with me growing up in the midst of guys.

Its often all man for himself and the survivour of the fittest.

First thing that comes to mind for me would be: okay, what's wrong?

The thought of cuddling may not come to me at that moment.

Guy u ar not romantic jor u can b caring and not romantic.so wat if she s sad abt somtin and isn't just talkin ?mayb she dosnt want to talk for som good reasons wats wrong wit givin her a hug or just touchin her hair to make her ease up.trust me she wll spill it out,its just a matter of understanding,aint there times u feel so down u can't justt talk? So ur babe shud just b like? Wetin dey worrry dis one ?and just let u be? Wats wrong in pampering somone biko? Dats not sayin d lady shud make d whole pampering tin annoyin to d guy.my baby pampers me and I do too.b romantic jor.affrican men sha

Mrsfaithhh:

Guy u ar not romantic jor u can b caring and not romantic.so wat if she s sad abt somtin and isn't just talkin ?mayb she dosnt want to talk for som good reasons wats wrong wit givin her a hug or just touchin her hair to make her ease up.trust me she wll spill it out,its just a matter of understanding,aint there times u feel so down u can't justt talk? So ur babe shud just b like? Wetin dey worrry dis one ?and just let u be? Wats wrong in pampering somone biko? Dats not sayin d lady shud make d whole pampering tin annoyin to d guy.my baby pampers me and I do too.b romantic jor.affrican men sha

Lol!

You have a point there.

Didn't take that into consideration.

I guess I was only focused on some annoying traits put up by some ladies that I was blind to the points you raised.

But really, does pampering a lady or guy define any aspect of romance?

striktlymi:


Lol!

You have a point there.

Didn't take that into consideration.

I guess I was only focused on some annoying traits put up by some ladies that I was blind to the points you raised.

But really, does pampering a lady or guy define any aspect of romance?

Yes

Mrsfaithhh:

Yes

Hmmmmm....


How?