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A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Ochofreeocho: 1:07pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
The Person Is Also Shy: Like you, the person you meet for the first time is also shy meeting that strange face you possess for the first time. Considering the fact that you both just met, only one thing can break that shyness, talk! Yes, talk, not any other talk but talk about what you both like. You know what you like, but how can you know what the person like? Ask! The bible says, ask and it shall be given unto you. Ask questions, and get it from there. One sure way to avoid shyness is to act funny, if the person's face is not friendly, cause some people has that kind face of ''Bance'' that Burkina Faso player, and the smile of a Juju priest, not encouraging. To break shyness in front of this people, ask questions in a funny way. Like I have learnt to do. You really want to break the shyness that very moment with the person? What you need to do is, ask the person about his/her likes. Not their dislikes o. If you ask them about their dislikes you will be making a regrettable mistake. Ask them about their likes, not just any likes o. The like must be about what you see them having or putting on. Okay, maybe the person is a girl and she's wearing brazilian hair, tell her you like her hair and ask what brand it is. She will say, brazilian hair. Jokingly ask, Where is it from? She'll laugh and say Brazil! Tell her you like it and it looks so good on her, girls like flattering so much, from there, praise her make up even when it looks like that of ''Jezebel'' she will be flattered. If she's the type that is free she'll go ahead to compliment you too saying, she likes your hair cut and will ask you where you got it from. Jokingly ask her does she want one? That you could help with a razor blade but she'll look like Baba Suwe after the barbing. She will laugh and the talk continues, from there you will noticed that the shyness has suddenly been broken as you both laugh at each others jokes. To say the truth girls love it when you act funny in front of them and it's a sure way to break shyness when with them and even with guys and adults. Don't tell me you are not funny that you can't be funny cause everyone can act funny. Presenting yourself as funny in front of people is just like acting a movie script. After this, you will see, the next time you both meet you two will be free with each other, that's why you have to be cheerful and playful when meeting someone for the first time especially girls, being cheerful and playful breaks shyness. So go out there, meet people with cheerfulness and playfulness and see shyness turns to your worst enemy not wanting to be with you in the midst of someone you meet for the first time anymore. www.njuwo.com/2015/01/a-reason-why-you-should-not-be-shy.html?m=1 1 Like |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Makana14(f): 1:27pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by wenson(m): 2:08pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
easier said Dan done |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Some dry girls won't just laugh! Ok, ok, ok. |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Ryabcool(m): 4:03pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Lol! I used to be soooo shy. Still a wee bit shy at first but, it soon flies out the window once I'm able to get the first laugh from the girl. I slowly become myself. *covers face shyly and runs out* |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Spiff20(m): 4:06pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Okay, but am introverted |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
[size=50pt]charity comment [/size] |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Sunichanci: 5:34pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Spiff20:I was once like you, you can change yourself if you are willing, determined and desperate to change. |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Sunichanci: 5:35pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
samflexxy:Congrats! Charity taught you how to comment, she taught me too! |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Sunichanci: 5:38pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
wenson:It all comes from the willingness to do it. One thing that help me to overcome was that i got to know what caused my shyness, fear, and i decided with boldness to overcome it. One things that brings shyness is thinking about what you think people are thinking which they are not cause every human being thinks differently and not the same thing. When you get to understand this shyness will be a thing of the past, thank you! |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Sunichanci: 5:40pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
I'm so much interested in this topic, op thanks for this, this is what i actually did to overcome shyness |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Just have enof money in your pocket n smile. That does d trick. |
Re: A Reason Why You Should Not Be Shy Meeting Someone For The First Time by dawealthiestman(m): 12:44am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ochofreeocho: Na only woman you sabi meet. 1 Like |
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