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4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Getting dumped can suck, but most guys are used to it. And though we tend jump right back into the dating pool, the pain can linger. That’s why it’s only right that when it’s our turn to sever ties, we do it thoughtfully, taking the high road whenever possible. Here are my five Guy’s tips for manning up for a break up….even if you’re a woman. 1. BREAK UP IN PERSON That means no disappearing or ending things by text or phone. Pick a public location, preferably outdoors with lots of people in motion. (Sitting face-to-face in a crowded restaurant can end up a little awkward. What’s left to talk about?) Pick someplace like a park, where you can sit side-by-side watching good-looking people run, walk, and bike past you. This will remind your soon-to-be-ex that the world keeps turning and is filled with potential new partners. 2. BE DIRECT WITHOUT PLACING BLAME You’ve given the relationship a chance and now you’re just not feeling it. That’s okay. Just take a deep breath and tell him or her how you feel—without blame, detailing every irritating habit (snorting while laughing notwithstanding). Bottomline: It’s not about either one of you. It’s about “us,” and “us” simply isn’t working anymore. 3. BE KIND No one likes being rejected, especially after baring body and soul. Opening up emotional windows leaves people understandably vulnerable. So be mindful and choose words that avoid piling on additional hurt, even if it might help in the long run to hear the truth. And when it’s over, that’s it. No mind games. Move on. Period. 4. DON’T CAVE No matter how upset the break-up-ee gets, keep in mind that ultimately, no one wants a partner who isn’t totally into him or her. And if he is as cool as you think he was for dating you, he’ll move on quickly. That’s a good thing for both of you. [url]COOLVAL22.COM[/url] 3 Likes |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Tapout(m): 11:38am On Jan 04, 2015 |
lilmaxfidel: long talk.......just tell her your bankrupt 3 Likes |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by ireneony(f): 11:41am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Make I book space |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by MuguliciousMUGU: 11:41am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Why must you tell her that you love her when your motive is to break up with her? Thats a wicked thing to do, guys need to make the ladies happy and not making them sad by breaking their heart? The next topic suppose to be "5 ways to make a lady happy" , let the ladies smile everyday. |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by vizkiz: 11:41am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Tapout: lol...but some chicks will still be like "don't worry baby,things will turn around" ![]() Just tell her "bae i'v gat Aids" ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 11:44am On Jan 04, 2015 |
ireneony:a space here costs 500,000 .. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 11:45am On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by MuguliciousMUGU: 11:46am On Jan 04, 2015 |
ireneony:have you paid your booking allowance, as the current minister of women affairs, i will charge you to court for avoiding to pay your booking tax, before you book a land you must inform the necessary authorities and my oga at the top, jona.. Tank U. |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by vizkiz: 11:52am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 11:55am On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:but what if they suggest going to the hospital for confirmation ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Kenzico(m): 11:56am On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:Hmmm some strong minded babes might sense wia u ar gettin to and might insist u shuld hav a blood test and if u dnt hav money she will provide it 4u. |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Fabdedon(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Tell her you have given your life to christ ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by vizkiz: 12:03pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
lilmaxfidel: Kenzico: babe: swirry please let's go for treatment you need it...or let's go for blood test in another hospital maybe they made a mistake tHere Me: hell no! Its my life, my body, my Aids!!! ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:that would give her grounds for suspicion |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Kenzico(m): 12:07pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:Haaa bobo! Dats where u killed it |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by vizkiz: 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Kenzico: lilmaxfidel: babe: why are you acting out?are you sure this shii you are telling me is real or you are looking for a way to break up with me ![]() Me: no, i am just tired...i just hope you haven't been affected with it cuz i love you too much to let you have HIV now... Babe: don't worry swirry, i will be fine Me: don't you get the message! I am not happy now, infact i slept with your bestie and i am scared maybe she migt have gotten the virus too ![]() Babe: what!!!! (Slaps my face) That's it, its over!!! You can go and die with your HIV ![]() Me: #in my mind (Yes!!! ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:in merlin ahbi? ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
ireneony:lol make I follow you book sef...btw congrats on your award..its well deserved ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by ireneony(f): 12:20pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ghostlady:thanks ....dear ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by vizkiz: 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Kenzico(m): 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:Dis investigation no be small tin o! Dats where she goes and asks her bestie! U neva see diehard n stronheaded babes o! |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Kenzico:Lwkm |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Trippledots(m): 12:43pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
vizkiz: 6 weeks later. you start feeling feverish, weak, tired. you suspect malaria....you go to the hospital for checkup. 2 days later. you come for the result.....lab attendant tells you ypur result is with the doctor. you go and meet the doctor and he refers you to the counselling unit of the hospital....you enta the counsellors office and everywhere has aids posters and adveerts. left wall is 'dont stigmatise those living with the virus'....right side is...'i live positively, you can also'....on her table is an envelope with your name written boldy on it....haaaa! your life don change be dat. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
ireneony:make I book space with you |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by ggrin(f): 12:48pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
kristina1:sweet ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
lilmaxfidel:Which level na?? He no fit do anytyn jhor^ Besides,we ain't datin |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
kristina1:perfect example of peter denying jesus ![]() |
Re: 4 Ways To Break Up With A Lady by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
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