Picks mic... Thank you.

I've come to understand that ladies are special, as such should be treated with honour and dignity.
They can never be as strong and fast as we are so we have to overlook their shortcomings and focus more on their strength- Their Emotion.

How do i help a lady bring out the best in her and not by cause her to mourn, feel pain or regret ever knowing me? This is my pursuit.


In this thread, I highlighted Seven Unfair Situations Guys Get Ladies Into...



1. You get her to trust you and later cheat on her with her bestie.
You then call yourself, RoboCop or a Bad guy. She may still forgive you because her nature allows it but know this: One day, she can fall your hand or in some cases kill...


2. You tell your friends about your escapade with her just because she left you to get married to one who was ready. Do you know what? Everyone has a past and that is her past...you're holding on to. Get a life and move forward, bro!

3. She discards all her other suitors because of your promise of marriage only for you to call it off. Chai, you're wicked and if she speak words, e fit affect you!

4. You knew she was an "introvert" before you toasted her. Now you have her as your girl friend, you have the effrontery to be complaining here on Nairaland that " My girl friend is too quiet"- When you saw her was she talking?


5. Both of you agreed "No Sexx", three months after, because you spent a little on her na, You are changing to " Just One time, Please". Na wa for you o... Are you a learner?


6. You saw she had a big nose and bulgy eyes. You told her you loved her like that and the nose and the eyes were sexy. Now you're asking her, Aren't they too big? If you ask her, who she go go ask?


7. You tease her till she fell in love with you. You know she loves but you make her look like a fool around you. You won't even stylishly insinuate "Red light" to her to keep her at arms length but you keep flashing "Green Light". Guy, what do you want from her? You wan destroy her life ni? You send her texts only a guy could send to his girl, yet you say we are just friends. I laff!
She sees you every evening with other smaller girls not her age and you even greet her...You call yourself a Player? Time nor dey only pass girls, e dey pass guys too.


Guys, let's turn a leaf this year. Women are highly emotional and we should not take them for a ride. Let's honour and respect the ones we call our Love.

Drops mic..

ftc..... drags d mic from d op.

u r a gentleman emusmith... the question here is, is she "lady" enough?

1. How many unknown uncles, brothers and "just friends" does she hang out with informally. if the ring aint on the finger, my brother, she is still the trying out her options.. same way u r with her friend

2. The funny scenario here is, though she doesn't tell her female friends about her escapades with u.. she tells a friendzoned brother, and she does it before ever dumping ur sorry arse. which is worse?

3. sometimes u can't help some situations. what if things didn't fall through as expected, jobs, plans?.. u really loved her thats why u let her go.

4. Every man loves a reserved but smart lady.. when all her replies are, hmmm, lol, k, fine, tnx.. while dating.. bros its frustrating. u r always at level 1 everytime.. may u never meet such IJN. amen

5. IF she was a V.. u might stand down.. but when u hear stories of her past life. how one brother constantly hung her leg over her heads.. tell me.. u no go wan login? even if na once? are u a learner?

6. No make me vex o . 100 percent of the time, she is the one asking the questions, do u think my nose is big? do u think i am getting fatter... as a Christian.. should i lie?. i am just giving her my honest opinion jooor

7. Maybe.. today u feel u have something within ur grasp.. level 1 today, level 2 tomorrow then when u see next week.. u r back at level 0. u know she loves u quite alright. but she still gives u attitude. too much shakara. emotionally u get drained. what do u do?.. u flex ur muscle a little with other girls (not because u love them as much) but rather , u do it to know if u still got ur lines.. it is necessary to keep urself sane, and preserve ur ego as a Man..


_{. sorry my hommies.. i booked a space, slept off.}

Hmmm tru

I smell fp

Only if they wl listen.
Nice one op

Situations like this is a two edged sword both sex are guilty of it

D guy wey go do all dis tins, him no get work

true

MeAnwhiLe

That number 5 no work jare

ronald4lif:
That number 5 no work jare

But you agreed?

There are also cases of unfair treatment by girls to guys.
Imagine a guy not bouyant enough financially dating a girl for like two years, then the girl comes to tell the guy that the pressure is too much from her parents as she is the first child of her family that she has found another man to marry her now because he is rich.

@op, you must re-pick that Mic oh.


A lady accepted my friend's marriage proposal, they did traditional marriage; only for her to tell him she gave her heart to another man. When my guy tried to contest it, she quickly swallow the other guy's baby. Girls like this make guys wicked.


On a serious note, I don't like playing with ladies' emotion because I am an emotional being too but ladies, should please, consider us too.

Happy thanksgiving!!!

Japhet04:

Brother, how you doing? Have you read through?

Lol...gemmie the mic please..


@ Ploy and Princecalm, you guys should calm down..

I wrote a thread today titled:

Ten Dynamics Of Thread Creation


One Point was Specialization and Generalization:
I'm specifying from this ANGLE, I'm not neglecting the other ANGLE... I can write 15 points under that but FOR NOW, I am Specializing, not Generalizing.

That's why we usually have Counter Threads...but I would not stop other NLers from answering your questions though...

emusmith:


Brother, how you doing? Have you read through?

yeah, I have, how was service?

seriously.. this calls for some change measures. guys! guys! change! change ni! it is a new year! Hian!

Never play with nobody's heart. If you don't love her don't tell her otherwise.

any guy that tries no.1 with me its as good as dead.

#modified#
wooow,front page.we are getting there

lrguru:
Never play with nobody's heart. If you don't love her don't tell her otherwise.

True!

prettyjo:
any guy that tries no.1 with me its as good as dead.

Lol, my own pretty jo....

emusmith:


Lol, my own pretty jo....

lolzzzz...but am dead serious

prettyjo:
lolzzzz...but am dead serious

Lolzzzzz...No worry...you na gentle girl na..Dem miss road wey go come find you? You're covered!

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Lolzzzzz...No worry...you na gentle girl na..Dem miss road wey go come find you? You're covered!

op u n ur threads
nyc post tho

cutieberie1:
op u n ur threads
nyc post tho

What exactly? Raspberry ohhh Cutieberry....

emusmith:


What exactly? Raspberry ohhh Cutieberry....

what does raspberry hv to do wit this thread.....z it a crime to comment ...leaves thread ..op its ur thread.

cutieberie1:


what does raspberry hv to do wit this thread.....z it a crime to comment ...leaves thread ..op its ur thread.

Unnecessary display!

in as much as I acknowledge this points as facts which really calls for a change...I also think it should be reciprocated.

We r all humans and not Jesus Christ and therefore @ certain times xhibit those traits of humans...but in as much as we 'll try to emulate these good qualities and try our best to change by the special grace of God...I also urge the ladies to be reasonable in their deeds.

Most @ tyms..it is the altitude of these ladies that brings about most of this reactions from men...but I pray that God 'll help us all this new year IJN... Amen..

stanconnect:
in as much as I acknowledge this points as facts which really calls for a change...I also think it should be reciprocated.

We r all humans and not Jesus Christ and therefore @ certain times xhibit those traits of humans...but in as much as we 'll try to emulate these good qualities and try our best to change by the special grace of God...I also urge the ladies to be reasonable in their deeds.

Most @ tyms..it is the altitude of these ladies that brings about most of this reactions from men...but I pray that God 'll help us all this new year IJN... Amen..

I perfectly understand your point. It's not like it's easy... He will help us...

emusmith:


But you agreed?

Of course I will agree initially na, a girl saying no sex is like saying no heart breaks, and doesn't mean sh*t. When show wan happen one doesn't announce it, you grab it by surprise when performing spiritual healing and before you know it you both are covered with anointing spirit.




You don't announce sex, you go for it.

emusmith:


I perfectly understand your point. It's not like it's easy... He will help us...

Amen.