My Mum disowned me and angry with me because i took back my wife after divorce.
My siblings are inflaming the matter that she should not agree.
I sent her message asking for her forgiveness no reply. When I called she doesnt pick, when I sent her gifts she rejects.
She even said she will continue praying against me until she dies except I sent my wife away. And that I should not attend her funeral when she dies.

What do I do?

May the blessing of the lord be with you...


Wetin make una divorce before?

What made you guys seperate in the first place?

Mama may have her reason sha. Until I know what your wife did, I cant pray for you o.
Make I nor go pray finish ya wife come do worse again. So, let us know what the battle is about.

Eleyi gidi gan o... I think you should settle both ladies... By doing away with your wife right now, go back to be the boy u use to be, and get her to spit out what grudges she have against ur wife... Only then, u can come back. And only then u will have peace

Why are you afraid?

what could you wife do to make your mum that angry.
you really have to keep going to beg her o even if she said she doesn't wanna see you. beg elders in your family to help you beg her

What exactly is the problem btw ur wife and mother?

It is well with you.

what did ur wife do?.this wit hapns when u do not keep ur marital issurs to urslf.i tooooooooo respect my hubby fr dis.d youngr did it b regrretrd.evn if u want to divorce jst find a surface story.u told ur pple from genesis to revekatiob about ur wife web u pple had issus.ma bro in law had similar cos he could not shut his mouth wen he was having issues.momsi disown m.i dnt kno y pple divorce.u knew wat u were entering.keep beggin her wit memories of growing up.it might tk a year but she will forgive u

I can't pray for u sir. because am with your mum.......

idu1:
I can't pray for u sir. because am with your mum.......

my major concern is that I feel we are being injust to my wife. Initially they ordered me to divorce her on ground that she doesnt cook for me and that she possed me with sihr that I only look after my wife's and her family needs, and that is not so because I take even good care of my siblings than my wife. My mum recommended her to me to marry her in the first place after rejecting so many of my proposals.

I can't pray for you before the swear backfire or bounce back at me . The issue is WHAT DID YOUR WIFE DO THAT WARRANTED SUCH level of ANGER AND HATRED FOR YOUR ACTIONS. Anyway if you know what you did is right put your mind at rest

A CURSE WITHOUT A CURSE IS CURSELESS however if you know what she did is that bad you have to wait for your mom to calm down and go and beg her and as for your wife. Hiaaannn she must really be walking on egg shells because someone who caused enmity between mother and son must always be of good character and I am sure when she offends you again you will remind her of the severed relationship she caused.



Wait abi did she beat your mom?
Stole her jewellery or money
slapped her
insulted her?

What did she do gan ?

makzeze:
my major concern is that I feel we are being injust to my wife. Initially they ordered me to divorce her on ground that she doesnt cook for me and that she possed me with sihr that I only look after my wife's and her family needs, and that is not so because I take even good care of my siblings than my wife. My mum recommended her to me to marry her in the first place after rejecting so many of my proposals.

abi you be omo mummy as in your mom has been thinking for you and making decisions for you and the day you decided to break free from my momy this and that gbege start? Because it's only omo mummy aka mummy's boy that their mother will do everything for them sotey them go even help them toast and marry woman. Do you fall into that category of my mummy said men (child)

Lord have mercy.

Curses now fly out of NL ontop people's head?

Mr OP, continue begging mama till you're blue on the face and If she doesn't heed. Give her space, hopefully she'll come around.

No going back, she's lived her life, live yours. I pray for you, wisdom and peace of mind.

makzeze:
my major concern is that I feel we are being injust to my wife. Initially they ordered me to divorce her on ground that she doesnt cook for me and that she possed me with sihr that I only look after my wife's and her family needs, and that is not so because I take even good care of my siblings than my wife. My mum recommended her to me to marry her in the first place after rejecting so many of my proposals.

OP, the way I see it, your mum wields too much control over you.

- She rejected a lot of your choices and chose for you.
- Then " ordered" you to divorce your wife and over something so trivial. And you sef agreed.

You need to grow a spine and stop being such a mama's boy! As far as I'm concerned, you shouldn't even be married sef. How did she even know your wife doesn't cook for you? I'm sure you told her.

My advice to you is to just let your mum be. Please stop begging her cos she's going to use that to keep manipulating you. Continue showing her respect, by all means. But please, put your foot down and let her know you have taken a decision and that's final. Learn to keep and resolve your marital issues between you and your wife.

makzeze:
my major concern is that I feel we are being injust to my wife. Initially they ordered me to divorce her on ground that she doesnt cook for me and that she possed me with sihr that I only look after my wife's and her family needs, and that is not so because I take even good care of my siblings than my wife. My mum recommended her to me to marry her in the first place after rejecting so many of my proposals.

This is exactly why I changed my mind on the issue of marrying who your parents recommend, when they now dislike/hate the person they order you to disengage. Who wants parents to still be controlling their home after marriage?

In my opinion your mum is dancing to her own music so she should suck it up. Keep trying to reason with her but if I were you I won't worry about all that don't attend my funeral talk, when she's dead will she know she and who did or didn't attend?

Kai una too dey forget for nairaland
This guy has had mummy / wife issues for ages, he is always here and in the Islam section asking for advice on the same issue.

1. Mummy married the wife for him
2. Mummy fell out with wife because she said wife was respecting her own mother more
3. Mummy orders he divorced his wife and he did
4. Uncles came and begged he wanted to get his wife back mummy said over her dead body because her " enemies " namely his wife and her mother will laugh at her
5. Guy gets wife back mummy disowns him

The one I pity in all this is the wife and kids caught in the middle of the drama, indecision and tantrums
I expect him to drive wife away again soon and come back and ask for more advice.

aisha2:
Kai una too dey forget for nairaland
This guy has had mummy / wife issues for ages, he is always here and in the Islam section asking for advice on the same issue.

1. Mummy married the wife for him
2. Mummy fell out with wife because she said wife was respecting her own mother more
3. Mummy orders he divorced his wife and he did
4. Uncles came and begged he wanted to get his wife back mummy said over her dead body because her " enemies " namely his wife and her mother will laugh at her
5. Guy gets wife back mummy disowns him

The one I pity in all this is the wife and kids caught in the middle of the drama, indecision and tantrums
I expect him to drive wife away again soon and come back and ask for more advice.

Whats ur advice?

makzeze:
Whats ur advice?

None, you shouldn't be married. You can't even head yourself talkless of heading a home

makzeze:
Whats ur advice?

You are really in bondage, let your mum be for a while and stop begging, heaven will not fall. Read D.H Lawrence 's Sons and lovers and find out how the boys broke free from their controlling mother. What God has join together, let no man put asunder . Your mum has already made herself an enemy of God, why are you scared? She won't know who attended her burial or not, so grow a pair please.

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aisha2:
Kai una too dey forget for nairaland
This guy has had mummy / wife issues for ages, he is always here and in the Islam section asking for advice on the same issue.

1. Mummy married the wife for him
2. Mummy fell out with wife because she said wife was respecting her own mother more
3. Mummy orders he divorced his wife and he did
4. Uncles came and begged he wanted to get his wife back mummy said over her dead body because her " enemies " namely his wife and her mother will laugh at her
5. Guy gets wife back mummy disowns him

The one I pity in all this is the wife and kids caught in the middle of the drama, indecision and tantrums
I expect him to drive wife away again soon and come back and ask for more advice.

hahahahaga.na real mommy boyyt n now he is tryin to cut out.ma bro leave yr mom.she has lived her life btr face u
iyawo

Rosarie:
hahahahaga.na real mommy boyyt n now he is tryin to cut out.ma bro leave yr mom.she has lived her life btr face u
iyawo

I once used an equivalent of 2 full scap sheet to advise this man on his family wahala only for him to go ahead and divorce the wife on mummy's say so. The wife from his previous stories hasn't done anything to actually offend him or mama, she is just a pawn in mama's power play

aisha2:


I once used an equivalent of 2 full scap sheet to advise this man on his family wahala only for him to go ahead and divorce the wife on mummy's say so. The wife from his previous stories hasn't done anything to actually offend him or mama, she is just a pawn in mama's power play

Sheesh! 2 fullscap?! LoL the guy is a real mama's boy.

divorce your wife and marry your mum na.

Hazardd:
divorce your wife and marry your mum na.

no joke please

LordReed:

Sheesh! 2 fullscap?! LoL the guy is a real mama's boy.

Less than two months ago this same man with mummy / wife issues was looking for another woman to bring into this mess. Anybody wey dey advice am get power

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I Need A Muslim Lady For Serious Relationship by makzeze: 6:36am On Nov 09, 2014
hello all, i am a civil servant working in Abuja searching for a lady for a serious relationship.
With d following:
1. Muslim
2. From the north
3. Age: 18 to 30

please send your contact to: write2mmb@hotmail.co.uk

pls inform me here as soon as you send.

aisha2:


Less than two months ago this same man with mummy / wife issues was looking for another woman to bring into this mess. Anybody wey dey advice am get power

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I Need A Muslim Lady For Serious Relationship by makzeze: 6:36am On Nov 09, 2014
hello all, i am a civil servant working in Abuja searching for a lady for a serious relationship.
With d following:
1. Muslim
2. From the north
3. Age: 18 to 30

please send your contact to: write2mmb@hotmail.co.uk

pls inform me here as soon as you send.

Wonderful.

aisha2:


I once used an equivalent of 2 full scap sheet to advise this man on his family wahala only for him to go ahead and divorce the wife on mummy's say so. The wife from his previous stories hasn't done anything to actually offend him or mama, she is just a pawn in mama's power play

lmao!

Lol @sambarry, so u sabi fear like this @op, has your father also disowned you

bennyrazz:
Lol @sambarry, so u sabi fear like this @op, has your father also disowned you

why I no go fear? Make I carry another pesin swear for my head. Emi ke?

tobangbo kan ma fi bra gba mi lori.won ni tilekun mo mi lai lai.na that kain prayer song be for the op

Nawa o.na im I leave my bokoto to ne typing. Smh

aisha2:


Less than two months ago this same man with mummy / wife issues was looking for another woman to bring into this mess. Anybody wey dey advice am get power

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I Need A Muslim Lady For Serious Relationship by makzeze: 6:36am On Nov 09, 2014
hello all, i am a civil servant working in Abuja searching for a lady for a serious relationship.
With d following:
1. Muslim
2. From the north
3. Age: 18 to 30

please send your contact to: write2mmb@hotmail.co.uk

pls inform me here as soon as you send.