Ishilove:

Delish, you sef... You and sukkkot fit. You both have a love for graphic language.

Ha ha. Make una leave me alone ooooooooo!

Ilekokonit:


In most 21st Century marriages, love dies a gradual death the minute the kids start coming possibly because the familiarity actually starts breeding contempt or tiredness from the amount of work involved in raising a young family or because you grow apart due to lack of open communucation or boredom and resignation or fear of living with someone you are no longer on fire for and over time the love just depreciates due to bad treatment of one party by the other and the person who should normally be your best friend now becomes comparable to your worst enemy. Or how do you explain the epidemic proportions of divorce in 21st century marriages.

It is now no longer till death do us part and no one mates for life anymore at least not on the long run and it will get worse with the freedom the internet age brings to promiscuity and instant gratification at the blink of an eye couple with the sheer greed amongst todays humans. Animals (e.g pigeons and some other birds) on the other hand are now better than humans at mating for life.

The evidence of marriage becoming more obsolete by the day and going towards extinction is clear for all to see.

Marriage, fools rush in where angels fear to thread. No wonder the Bible says to abstain from marriage if you can hold your self.

i hear you. i think humans need their personal space to be able to sort their head out. if everyone had their own lil space in a marriage i can guarantee you that the love will increase and divorce will reduce. like i said initially, it is abnormal for two grown adult human beings to share the same bed and room 352 days in a year. its not natural. i dont know who introduced that concept.

Ishilove:

Lol. Werey.

FP tinz

delishpot:


Ha ha. Make una leave me alone ooooooooo!

Why do I have this very strong feeling that you're a tomboy?

delishpot:


Ok o. Like I said, with good planning it may work but if you dont plan well, it may not work. I did not say more than that o. you still need more than 2 seperate rooms to make a marriage work. Das all.
I know couples who practiced this type of arrangement, their marriage is just hanging there. It did not improve their relationship at all. It takes a lot for a woman to have a happy sex life. It is doable but it requires more effort to keep the union glowing

of course you need more than two separate rooms to make a marriage work. but two separate rooms is a starting point.

sukkot:
of course you need more than two separate rooms to make a marriage work. but two separate rooms is a starting point.

Ha ha.

Rilwayne001:

oga patapata

Sister ke? Unless if dos things i like re no more

Booking some space







i dey come, make i go toilet abeg...*ouch*

delishpot:
Nope. Wife is wife, sister is sister. Besides, what kind of marriage is that when husband and wife start seeing themselves as brother and sister? That marriage must be borring mana! No dirty talks? no flashing? No ass spanking? No nada? Shuo, I guess that marriage was never romantic from the start. So lets not blame time here.
On the other hand, the man may be looking for excuse to start cheating.

yea u r ryt

TDstarr:
true

my nigga. finally a more mature and experienced person. not that idealistic juvenile named kilokeys

Ishilove:

Why do I have this very strong feeling that you're a tomboy?

Ha ha. Strong ba? As long as that strong feeling doesnt get weak, all is fine.
Ahhh, Ishi, I did not notice it was you mana! Shon ma, how goes the good?
Wishing you and your people the best of 2015. Wetin you cook for christmas? Wey my share?

kilokeys:


dude.. u r sick..
chai. i just had rice turkey and coke o.. why u wan spoil my belle na..

ur mind is messed up guy

Dude must you tell us what you ate.....I've lost my appetite *pissed*

Stvpid op, I'm sorry I didn't read the story. But the headline sounds stvpid

sukkot:
Does it ever get to a point of familiarity and companionship in a wedding ( after a long period ) where you are now like best friends and ' family members ', and then trying to summon up a s-e-xual desire is akin to someone trying to sleep with their brother or sister, especially if you now have children.

Apparently Elvis Presley could never ever bring himself to sleep with his wife Priscilla again after she had his baby. and they never had sex after that.

OP from a sick mind. I hope you have not slept with ur sister and u trying to justify it?

Ishilove:

Delish, you sef... You and sukkkot fit. You both have a love for graphic language.

i appreciate you sweerie. thanks

delishpot:
Nope. Wife is wife, sister is sister.
Besides, what kind of marriage is that when husband and wife start
seeing themselves as brother and sister? That marriage must be borring
mana! No dirty talks? no flashing? No ass spanking? No nada? Shuo, I
guess that marriage was never romantic from the start. So lets not blame
time here.
On the other hand, the man may be looking for excuse to start
cheating.

u badt gan.

@sukkot

good points. separate bathrooms and adjoining rooms must be part of the package

No negotiation!

So what's your next move? Not to get married i guess. Followed by a continuous life of immorality ☹?
what of the majority who are always into themselves in love and s3k? Blessed married couples enjoying intimacy?

op abeg park well jor!!

Hmmmmmmmm

delishpot:
Nope. Wife is wife, sister is sister. Besides, what kind of marriage is that when husband and wife start seeing themselves as brother and sister? That marriage must be borring mana! No dirty talks? no flashing? No ass spanking? No nada? Shuo, I guess that marriage was never romantic from the start. So lets not blame time here.
On the other hand, the man may be looking for excuse to start cheating.

there will come a time when all those things won't interest u anymore and u will seek for greener pastures elsewhere

sukkot:
lmao. hey, this is why me personally, i think in a marriage there should be separate rooms for the husband and wife. so she can have her privacy. and then when you guys are feeling romantic you visit each others rooms. i think this is what will make marriages last. you dont want to become too over familiar to where the attraction diminishes. she has her own toilet and bathroom in her room and i have mine in my room. so this way there is mystery conserved in the relationship. you dont want to totally demystify the relationship by sharing the same room 352 days in a year

It's your opinion and you are giving this advice based on the kind of person you are and what will work for you.
People are different, marriages are different.
You and your spouse have to talk about these things and come up with a solution.

Personally, I get your point and i like the idea cos I love my space and no matter how much close, I like to withdraw to privacy for a while or I will just feel shocked up and irritated by the over-familiarity.

For those saying you are sick, I jus dey shake my head.- the spirit of "bandwagonism" will never allow them to reason & make independent decisions.

Dude never ever let your marriage get to that !!

sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.

Try tasting her shyytz next time. You may just have a 2015 eureka moment. #i ain't falling for this shaitza.

kendrick9:
there will come a time when all those things won't interest u anymore and u will seek for greener pastures elsewhere

Go ask men with plenty wives who dont share a room with his women, they still waka waka. Even single men still seek greener pastures without living with a woman.

No fruit like a ripe, sweet orange.

I disagree wit dat

How will u have thought of something like this....What a stupid opinion...

uhmmmmmmmmm, OP its two different world biko. See there are some intimacy you shared with you spouse that you will never be able to share with your sister. Yes its good to see your wive as your sister so that You can caution yourself not to hurt her, buh mehn its never the same. Presley that you sighted has a tendecy to become a gay and wait a minute, didnt he eventually kill her?, You see, if he were to be sincere of seeing his wive as his famiky and therefore stopped having sex with her when she had her baby, why kill her then? This is a twist, yea I knw

My wife has become me myself and I dont see her as family, I see her as myself + my friend!

OP you've watched too much of foreign movies!