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Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 11:44am On Jan 05, 2015 |
There are times we need to ask ourselves questions and answer them truthfully. What I’m talking about today is the reason some ladies will leave everyone they know in a state and go to the city to stay without a job or handwork. Personaly I don’t see why anyone will love to leave his or her beloved family to spend time in another part of the country without a genuine reason. Their(ladies) reasons most times are, They want money, spouse, They need to be free from parents and everyone they know, a job etc but they don't know that in so doing they have pierced themselves through with many sorrows. Thats why you see them Being used in the relationships, Guys see them as spare parts element and not wife materials, the very unfortunate ones are being killed for ritual purposes. It breaks my heart to see the pitiable life they live here. You see them cooking and washing for guys. Some are even married without their parent's knowledge. On sundays they would be praying for a guy to ask them to cook for him so that at least their would be something to eat. Crazy things like that. There are those that have moved into the permanent site(Prostitution). There is one around here, the only time she sleep at home is when she is seeing her period. No job, oh sorry, she is got a job. Her job is her relationship, she is got more than five guys that are dating her. And there some (gosh) that date sugar-mummies(lesbian sugar-mummies). Typing the stuffs they do here just to survive will definitely give me keypadtriosis. I know that some of them do succeed and make money but every other thing seems to be against them. My questions are: 1: Why leave your village when you know that you don't have anything serious to do in the city? 2: Is the money worth what they pass through? 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 11:48am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Waiting to read comments,cos I v notin to contribute Mk I bring traffic.. Iya enusmith,karchisbarbie Come n cracking your brain n answer question 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by KanwuliaJara: 11:49am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Village ashawo or city ashawo ussssssssssh wan beta pass? Ashawo for village tombo joint and ashawo for TRANSCORP na the same? 53 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 11:55am On Jan 05, 2015 |
OP,d money is worth it... Money makes d world go round Even d bible says "owo ni keke ihinrere" 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by mployer(m): 11:59am On Jan 05, 2015 |
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs' 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MizMyColi(f): 12:01pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
I'm here to read comments 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:08pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Which one be village ashawo? 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by KanwuliaJara: 12:16pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by elantraceey(f): 12:21pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Why are you asking us? do we look like one of them ? 11 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:25pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
juianne95:Tell me more............? |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:25pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
How do they survive? mployer: 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:27pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:28pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
I wouldn't have asked you if you were like one of them elantraceey: 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Brightology2(m): 12:30pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Na man head dem dey land put 1 Like |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:30pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:..u dnt know their story,dnt judge a book by its cover 9 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by ulaa(f): 12:39pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge. 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:46pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
juianne95: No be bible talk dat 1 ooo, na we christians dey talk am. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
juianne95:How do you define judgement? 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
MissSlimbody:lol...ehen..u sha understand me |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:49pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:jumping to conclusion,u can't jx mk assumptions out of ur own observation 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:50pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
ulaa:I am not judging them and bad family is not a good reason for prostitution. You said most? Owk, how about the rest? |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:51pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Maybe her own bible dey different MissSlimbody: 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by mployer(m): 12:51pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Some live with relatives some squat with friends some have money sent to them from parents and siblings some have money sent to them by boy-friends somewhere some live on NYSC savings some have handworks like bead and cake-making some do home lessons ...the list is numerous bro 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:53pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:54pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
juianne95:Read the post again, what I have up there is what I observed and the reason some of them gave when I asked them. How can you say I am judging them? Haba! You sef 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1:...u don provoke ...wot got ur boxers all tied up dis mornibg...anyway I still dey vex for u |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1: They are some quotes people jst assume are in d bible e.g Heaven help those that help themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Hazardd(m): 12:57pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
question for the gods 1 Like |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:58pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
mployer:They are not the ones I am talking about. mployer:How do they feed? mployer:what are they doing in the city? mployer:elder brother to prostitution mployer:Job seekers are diff mployer:The post says "without job or handwork" mployer:there is no list sir. 20 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
MissSlimbody:hahahahahaha... Majority of Christians that use the quote have never bothered to check it up in the bible............ 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Tallesty1: O boy dis got me laffing |
Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
juianne95:I no provoke oo. Apologies not accepted? |
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