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It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 10:35am On Jan 06, 2015 |
with the new year around. lots of churches seem to be holding fasting programme. raging from 7 days to as much as 100 days fasting. a question that was put to me by a newly wedded woman is this: "What scriptures teach that fasting and/or refraining from sex during a fast, and/or denying oneself lovemaking to your spouse? I am a newlywed and my husband told me that when a person fasts he/she cannot have sexual relationships. You must deny your flesh of all pleasures. Is it true? What scriptures back this up?" thus my question to the house it is proper to have sex during fasting period? or what level of intimacy is ok? or how should one behave is is total abstannace eg for those doing 100 days? note this is very seroius. so your contribution is vital thanks 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by elantraceey(f): 10:39am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Hmmmmm , this one pass me. There's no scripture backing that up sha but i kind of agree with her husband. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 10:41am On Jan 06, 2015 |
When you fast,you are setting yourself apart and putting your body to subjection.Sexual intercourse is not allowed during that time because it is one of the denials of the body you do. As a newly wed,you don't have to partake in a general fast.I learn't the RCCG have started a 40day fast and the instruction from Pastor Adeboye is that newly-weds and the elderly(over 70yrs) are exempt. 75 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 10:42am On Jan 06, 2015 |
elantraceey: OK if you dont have a scritural backing just tell us what you feel about it 2 Shares
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Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Orunto: 10:47am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Christian Fasting, No! Muslim Fasting, it is like Suicide bombing. You want to die? Go ahead!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Skanas(m): 10:48am On Jan 06, 2015 |
If sex btw married couples is no sin, I see no reason y they should'nt have sex during fasting....make una stop to de over stress tins joOoor...minyl, Wea e de for bible 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 10:48am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Fasting or no fasting, when i reach house i dont tell my girl oya bend down make i put one mouth commot. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 10:52am On Jan 06, 2015 |
thorpido: for a seriouse cuople that want God to also bless them should they not fast because of the sex or sex and forgo fasting going by your exception clause? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 10:52am On Jan 06, 2015 |
No it is not proper.. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Ploy(m): 10:53am On Jan 06, 2015 |
For the married, it's good. For the singles, it's not good na. The married can even break fast with kpekus. It's a way of appreciating God for ya unity. You should, however, do it in the night. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 10:55am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Ploy: this is really seriouse cos if its singles even when not fating its a sin then come to talk of fasting period 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 06, 2015 |
It's very wrong When you fast,you are denying yourself pleasures,so as to be very closer to God it's not right to have sex during fasting. 10 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by thorpido(m): 11:09am On Jan 06, 2015 |
robosky02:People misunderstand the essence of fasting.They think it is an exercise that makes God bless them. Fasting is to subject your flesh so that your spirit gains dominion over the flesh and increases your capacity to fellowship with God and hear from Him(raises your spiritual antenna). When a couple is newly-wed,they are on honeymoon.They don't need a fast.God knows they are to enjoy now.They can always set themselves apart later to fast. God will bless them. 58 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 11:24am On Jan 06, 2015 |
kristina1: am just wondering for a fast thats as loong as 100 days? ok if sex is good for couples what then will be spoiling it when it the same couples having it. cos for two or three days fast its ok but 100 days and they sleep on the same bed you mean the urge will not come or if they do it along the line is it bad 2 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by rittyben(f): 12:02pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
For married people, there is nothing wrong with it. Except u have and agreement or understanding with ur spouse. But if u don't, well u have to give it to him or her if they want it. The bible says that. kristina1: 5 Likes |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 12:04pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
kristina1:It's not even right to have sex at all. -_- 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 12:09pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
JoeCutie: hmmmmmmm na wao 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Lol....exactly |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 12:12pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
3.The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satano will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:3–5 how does this apply 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 12:15pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
robosky02:Qui est? 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 12:16pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
kristina1:Exactly? See who's talking... 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
robosky02: ok. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
JoeCutie:I dnt want to blow my trumpet jhor. |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 12:31pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
kristina1:And you wouldn't want me to open your yansh, you wouldn't, would you? 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Open am na 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by JoeCutie(m): 12:36pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
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Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
JoeCutie:CSL See rubbishing But y u dey do chioma lyk dis na?? I dey vex o 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by bukatyne(f): 1:26pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
robosky02: This clearly answers the question especially the bolded: If the wifey doesnot agree with hubby, then it is a sin for hubby to deny wifey of her martial right 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by dacoolvik: 2:03pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I have always had this same question on my mind. E.g The fasting for RCCG is for 40 days. Does it mean they will stay apart for 40days? Or can they come together after breaking the fast each day? |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 2:14pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
dacoolvik: good question if its for few days one understand so aya talk your own oh |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by robosky02(m): 2:37pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
faithfulwife(f), am waiting for your opinion 1 Like |
Re: It Is Proper To Have Sex During Fasting Period? by faithfulwife(f): 4:22pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I personally don't think there is anything wrong in having sex while fasting. Sex is a sin if done outside marriage but is holy if done in marriage. I can only say d frequency of sex during fasting should be limited but not totally stopped. 17 Likes |
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