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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:51pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
fuoski: Thanx boss. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:52pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
cozy7: |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:52pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
cozy7:lol |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:27pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Bandeco: Thanx for your kind words and for supporting this thread.
So you guys were actually doing fine before. That's good to know. You have a good lead. She already has memories of U. Good to know u aint just normal friends, cos u av kissed, smooched..etc. She is a bit invested with her body. So definitely,u r not in the dreaded FriendzonE..
She does complain u don't call...seems like a test to me. She is having trust issues with u. Dts what I think is d problem. A girl wana know she is secured with u. She wana know u r gona be there, dats y I keep emphasizing on dis future projection thingy. It instills trust in a girl. From d way she is acting now..I sense its trust issues. If not..den smthing else my just be taking her time, I don't wana say itz anoda guy tho. U still have a big chance @ getting her back. Don't send her messages again..for a while. 1week +....dden resume again on d messages. Don't ask her y..she aint picking, calling u, blah blah...just be normal..act d same way u av been acting before wen things were Ok. Don't start pleading/begging..or trying to convince her. Act normal..send sth like dis " "Hey hi...<Insert her name here>...ows ur day starting out..?. I miss ur smile and dat look in ur eyes wen we kiss. Just I know I care..and I cherish U..ave a swell day" Let dat be a morning message. U can follow dat up with a call...in d afternoon..or evening. Am sure she will pick. U just need to instill trust. Women are unpredictable. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Thanks so much OP,your doing a great job,please am a guy just turned 20 last month,am d good looking guy,got such compliment some of my friends both male and female,but I have this problem talking to a girl I like,I get scared/shy walking to a girl I like,and it's not been really helpful,any help Sir |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 9:44pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Bandeco: Kissing her without hitting her coochie is your greatest undoing, and don't text/contact girls like your life depends on it, these two thing are attraction killers. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by mrsuperswag(m): 10:25am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Hey teddy...been a while. I need clues on how to go about kissing a girl...neva had a kiss b4 n I don't want to mess up. She's my girlfriend already though. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 6:06pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: The problem is not about the pics she saw...the problem is about how u scale Ur way through her net... Just tell her :- A friend of urs borrowed Ur memory card to copy a file on his laptop and u haven't even check it since he gave u back the previous day.. If the unclad pics are still on Ur phone.. u might even show her again and whispers in her ear that :- "hey, don't tell me the pics didn't turn u on" ..BOOM ..and she'll start qualifying herself by denying it.. Then wait for 10secs silence..NO TALKING..twist it back to her court and say :- "Let's find out".. then u'll start by kissing her... GAME!! u don't need stress but the way u are confident to stand on Ur point in a playful and challenging manner #peace xxxtedyxxx I see you man! nice job here |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 6:10pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
upros: Ur question is answered.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by hemjaylee(m): 8:35pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Djboosting:WOW Weyrey re o*nt insultin* Bro I hail U re just 2 much |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by hemjaylee(m): 8:44pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Nyz 1 |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@op en fellow nairalanders. my problem seem a little different than others.l might not be the cuttest guy around but,i have no problem having a conversation en maintaining one with females (thank God for literature and belonging to the debating class back in secondary school)and also I don't lack in confidence-i have played as a wing man for my buddies in getting babes. my problem is that I rapidly loss interest in girls that even the thought of just beding them for fun (hit and run) doesn't appeal to me. I find myself comparing them to my crush in jss3 even after 7 years. am getting frustrated because after spending 2 weeks of my holiday successfully coding a girl I meet on campus, I find that am no longer interested in her.I can't even bring myself to reply to her what app messages.please I need your advice |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mrluv(m): 1:53pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
eduj: |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
hello Teddy, I must commend you greatly for this work you're doing. My problem is quite different though, I'm 23yrs old and there's this girl(21yrs) I've been dating for over 4 years now. Though we've not had sex all this while because she's a virgin and I kinda agreed not to disturb her with sex issues until she's ready for it. She truly loves me and I love her as well, but recently I've kind of noticed some changes in her behavior towards me. She hardly call me this days and if she eventually does, we don't talk more than 3mins maximum on phone. Even on whatsapp, when she's online she hardly send me messages unless I be the first to initiate the convo and I seem to be the one doing most of the talking. Whenever we're chatting, I feel as if I'm forcing her to talk with me which is very different from the way we used to chat when we newly met. I have this feeling that I'm losing her already, whenever I ask her what the problem is as to why she's acting strange to me she always tell me nothing is the problem. It's really driving me crazy, please what do I do to get her back as I cannot afford to lose her because we've dated for too long to leave each other this way. Please what do I do because I truly love her and want to make things work out for us. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Impulse80(m): 5:09pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Darejo:Sorry Bro but shit has happened. Someone has deflowered her. Don't ask how i know... It happened to me, same story as yours and the greatest betrayal i have witnessed.next she will try pulling away from you and if you persist she will start being aggressive. All this because she knows you'll eventually find out if you two continue dating. Sorry bro women are not to be trusted. BTW there's a slight chance i am wrong. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Impulse80: Thanks bro for the feedback, I just hope this is not what has happened. But what if what you are saying is actually right, then what next What am I supposed to do in such a scenario? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Impulse80(m): 5:36pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Darejo:It depends on you now. Assuming the worst has happened would you still want to date her? In my own case i later got the chick and did all sorts of bad things to her. One day she even told me that she knew I was punishing her for all she did to me which I coolly denied. So make up your mind, do you still want her back, also what do you want her for? Serious dating, revenge? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Impulse80(m): 5:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
eduj: You need to step up your game don't just collect her number and chat! You need to get physical, also forget about your crush cos she's the past. Try to meet face to face with the chick. That way you both can be sexually attracted. Go out on dates (not necessarily involving money), take a stroll with her and get close. The smell of her pheromones will definitely keep you attracted. Likewise her. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Impulse80(m): 5:57pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
mrsuperswag:Since you are both dating no biggie, just make sure both of you are comfortable with each other. Remember for her to get comfortable requires touch, touch her every time you talk to her. And in the right places too, don't touch her breast and yansh o! No be me send you o. Nape of her neck, waist, tickle her etc. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 10:03pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Darejo: (I hope it is not a distant relationship.. so listen) Do u know where u lost the track? the 4yrs thingy. u have become boring to her, and another guy have been 'hitting' that soft fleshy as$ of hers and she observed and felt what she hasn't felt with you. Then don't make the second mistake again of trying to find her to Ur track to date her again.. change Ur mindset from the 'dating' .. change it to 'a girl that proposed to you' .. done that? okay Then I want you to observe a time u were very confident to do anything.. keep the memory in Ur brain, then give her a call and say:- after the short greetings "Hello babyboo, I want to go out with the love of my life (she'll think u talking about her), do you mind joining us to make it table for three"? ....BOOM.. If she said yes, tell her to dress up.. and don't call her back. Lol.. if she say no, laugh very hard on the phone and tell her..see yah later ..BOOM BOOM! msg delivered since u change it for her, her 'default' settings for u will change.. Now U're UNPREDICTABLE once again. Now the attraction for u will start flowing again. Now it's Ur time to play 'hard-to-get' .. during this period, start talking to other girls... NO DATING!! asin for now..remove that from Ur mind. Call her ONCE in a week for 1mins.. Talk to more girls and have fun. Change Ur chat DP to more beautiful girls who can be new friends of urs. if she ask who she is, say 'a girlfriend'.. no explanation she'll start coming for you... Don't forget U're not trying to get her back, but U're trying to show her u refused to be WAITING. So show her Ur confident side which should be UNPREDICTABLE... then friendzone her.. no frequent call & chats. Then ONE DAY...find a way to see her and get an unexpected fun from her .. Say NO to MONOPOLY 3 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Mczigx(m): 6:27am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Herez mine........i kinda askd diz gal out nd she said no dat she cnt date her bestfriend,my questn is hw cn i mve out of d friendzone so as 2 make her mine. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 06, 2015 |
This thread has been really helpful....good work guys. Here's my issue. I and two of my friends went to a friend's b'day party.we were seated at a table when 3girl joined us. My friends started a convo with the girls while I was too shy to followup but still I did contribute on some issues. My guys collected two of the girls numbers respectively. The third girl didn't give anybody her number because nobody asked,actually they were hoping I would but I didn't. The next day I escorted my friends to see their new girls and funny enough the girl were all roommates.they started talking to their various girls while I and d 3rd were just pressing phone. I managed to start a convo which she responded positively. Later we exchange numbers. We started talking on phone(I do most of d calling 90:10..she sometimes flash). One night around 7:30pm i was about going home from night class,when i called her n asked if she has eaten. She said someone stole her milk n she would like to drink tea,i said ok no p. I bought peak milk(refill) n bread took it to her lodge which was close to mine and she was surprised happy. When she fell sick i went to visit her,then she was broke and couldn't buy drugs.i bought drugs and food she ate that night(almost 1500). Skul went on break for Xmas but we have been chatting on whatsapp. I normally tease her about her beauty and voice and she sometimes calls me 'sweetie'. One day while I was teasing her,I told her that I really do like her more than she can imagine. And replied; WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?...i said to her,till we see face2face. Now skul has resumed and I will see her in few days time yet I don't even know what to do about the situation. Plz I need advise asap. NOTE: sometimes she's d person that starts the convo on whatsapp and she never misses my call. And when she does,she will flash or send call me sms. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 10:18pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
*** 5 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 10:39pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Djboosting:After reading your response, I concluded you must be a liar. I mean how could you be DJboosting when VjayKilling should be your handle You need to switch career dude, seriously. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 11:10pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
hemjaylee: I understood u were over excited... thanks for the flatter.. Lol |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 11:12pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
tr3y: My handle is not a 'lie' jhoor Ooooohh... I think I should be on a lowkey for now... hehehe.. I don't kill Vjay.. I just do my thang ni la.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by MIMU(m): 11:28pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Hi Teddy thr is 1 girl I luv her so much, whneva I see her my hrt beat fast,i wnt 2 strt r/ship wit her, I can approach oda gurls bt whn it com 2 her I die whn I gather cnfidence 2 go n tlk 2 her is lyk a magic I cant,i feel lyk she will reject me we r in diffrent faculty but I knw whre she eat wit her frends ,i knw her area I hve her nomba bt she is nt d 1 dat gave me,we nva tlk pls hw can I strt teddy I luv her so much online or one on one pls |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kennyman20(m): 11:38pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
MIMU: here's the scope.. U can start online first.. Check if she's on whatsapp.. If she's on whatsapp.. Send a message forming as if u're trying to get in touch with a frnd. Something like this.. Hey bayo, thank God u're on whatsapp. Met yemi at the park today, so got ur no frm him. Even tried the no, but its unreachable. No be so life be bayo oo.. U just forget me. How's life in babcock naaaw? U no even dey reply person message on facebook. I hope its not that studies in babcock is taking much of ur time and depriving u frm catching fun. Mheeenn, see the chick wey dey ur dp wey u dey control.. I bow oo.. How u dey anyway? Send something like that, it'll just be inform of wrong contact. When she respond, u take it up frm there. All d best. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kennyman20(m): 11:39pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Djboosting: i bow ooo.. Respect! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by chidexxy007(m): 12:23am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Djboosting:bro i sight u o.... abeg o, me nd u get talk cos go like make u hlp me out 4 some ish..... u fit use my signature add me on whicheva social ntwrk or should it b here? which eva rocks ur boat thx in advance |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 6:50am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Djboosting: Lowkey? you be music note? Anyway you try sha! more cream to your digidongdong |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by MIMU(m): 9:42am On Jan 07, 2015 |
Tnx Boss I salute, I doff my hat |
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