4, 5 & 6 can be there and it will still be a godly relationship.

AgapeCharis:
4, 5 & 6 can be there and it will still be a godly relationship.

It will...I added this in the disclaimer and conclusion...

emusmith:


It will...I added this in the disclaimer and conclusion...

Yea....nice post tho

Nice thread. God is our strength

Hollyb:
Nice thread. God is our strength

Amen sweet

6. Both of you only meet in the church. If in an eatery, a third party will be present

That one no follow. They are in a public place,no need for third party. It sounds "Talibanistic."

emusmith:


You look like...

someone I know...

who sings... jus thinking...

Sings ke

mimiejacobz:


Sings ke

Don't you sing?

englishmart:
yawns

What were you saying?

both guys and girls can't hold on till marriage b4 sex.

Spot on OP....ur writeup is really terrific!

Nickymezor:
Spot on OP....ur writeup is really terrific!

Thanks Darling... Were you banned?

emusmith:


Thanks Darling... Were you banned?

Ur welcm.. Nope, felt like changing my Moniker

emusmith:


Thanks Darling... Were you banned?

Ur welcm.. Nope, felt like changing my Moniker

emusmith:

Amen sweet

It is not godly to refer to a sister with the word "sweet"

duality:
It's not an easy road.....

The battle of sex have almost been lost.

I believe in purity, but sometimes I ask myself Why all these. to what end...even those who I felt were with me are all having sex now.

1. The fact that others are doing it doesn't mean you should do it. Myself have decided not to, and i wouldn't till marriage.

2. I learn about a study that said many youths do think some of their peers are already doing it, but those peers aren't actually doing it.

See, i can say it anywhere, anytime. I haven't be doing it, and i will never do it till marriage. God has being blessing me a lot for choosing to walk with Him. Am a young youth, a teenager, but God is helping me do great things which many older than me can't do. I have my own business. I'm an author. Just yesterday, i opened my mail and saw a mail from someone who have read one of my books on premarital sex, which i think he bought from amazon. Talking about how God used the book to make him learn new things about the subject.

Bottom Line: God has being blessing me for choosing to walk with Him and obey Him. Deciding to live a chaste life for God; deciding to be a virgin till marriage, has being making me excel and blessed. Thank you.

Sweetmarriage:


1. The fact that others are doing it doesn't mean you should do it. Myself have decided not to, and i wouldn't till marriage.

2. I learn about a study that said many youths do think some of their peers are already doing it, but those peers aren't actually doing it.

See, i can say it anywhere, anytime. I haven't be doing it, and i will never do it till marriage. God has being blessing me a lot for choosing to walk with Him. Am a young youth, a teenager, but God is helping me do great things which many older than me can't do. I have my own business. I'm an author. Just yesterday, i opened my mail and saw a mail from someone who have read one of my books on premarital sex, which i think he bought from amazon. Talking about how God used the book to make him learn new things about the subject.

Bottom Line: God has being blessing me for choosing to walk with Him and obey Him. Deciding to live a chaste life for God; deciding to be a virgin till marriage, has being making me excel and blessed. Thank you.

Your words are encouraging! Thank you!

I really need to know what it takes to publish books in Amazon. Please reply. Thanks!

emusmith:


Don't you sing?

in my house

mimiejacobz:


in my house

I'm a bit on course...

I agree with yo points except 5 and 6 o.

I no agree with number 6 lai lai.
The relationship would be kinda ''too serious'' na.

Even hugging? Haba! Lol
Have you ever hugged a lady before? Yes or no
#points gun at him

Ezibless:
I agree with yo points except 5 and 6 o.

I no agree with number 6 lai lai.
The relationship would be kinda ''too serious'' na.

Even hugging? Haba! Lol
Have you ever hugged a lady before? Yes or no
#points gun at him

I know how to catch you...# on gun point#

Nice on @Op

Godly relationship is the best but d candidates are rare..
Thank God for mine, 5 months on and still counting.

A question 4 op specially for d ladies... Since there is no primarital sex, how would u ascertain d potency of his organ

joshrare:
Nice on @Op

Godly relationship is the best but d candidates are rare..
Thank God for mine, 5 months on and still counting.

A question 4 op specially for d ladies... Since there is no primarital sex, how would u ascertain d potency of his organ

That's the trick...you leave it to God. Does He disappoint?

Permit me to disagree wit 5 and 6, there is absolutely nothing wrong wit hugging @ all, pls don't b sentimental it's all ur mindset and again I don't need a third party to accompany me to a date wit my bf for heaven sake where is my privacy to discuss?? Beside is church d meeting point for lovers to meet?? U re meant to worship God there not do a side affair, I don't need accompanies to meet my bf on our date @ all open restaurants or relaxation center, well d rest re on ground, wish to hav a man who has all dis vision too, maybe wen I see one I cn get into a relationship, but my dear for now all men want is sex and dere re a lot of pretenders everywhere, we cnt even knw d ones dat is real

zaragal:
Permit me to disagree wit 5 and 6, there is absolutely nothing wrong wit hugging @ all, pls don't b sentimental it's all ur mindset and again I don't need a third party to accompany me to a date wit my bf for heaven sake where is my privacy to discuss?? Beside is church d meeting point for lovers to meet?? U re meant to worship God there not do a side affair, I don't need accompanies to meet my bf on our date @ all open restaurants or relaxation center, well d rest re on ground, wish to hav a man who has all dis vision too, maybe wen I see one I cn get into a relationship, but my dear for now all men want is sex and dere re a lot of pretenders everywhere, we cnt even knw d ones dat is real

Your points are very true. I support them. Not all men love sex before marriage oo....don't conclude..lol

zaragal:
Permit me to disagree wit 5 and 6, there is absolutely nothing wrong wit hugging @ all, pls don't b sentimental it's all ur mindset and again I don't need a third party to accompany me to a date wit my bf for heaven sake where is my privacy to discuss?? Beside is church d meeting point for lovers to meet?? U re meant to worship God there not do a side affair, I don't need accompanies to meet my bf on our date @ all open restaurants or relaxation center, well d rest re on ground, wish to hav a man who has all dis vision too, maybe wen I see one I cn get into a relationship, but my dear for now all men want is sex and dere re a lot of pretenders everywhere, we cnt even knw d ones dat is real

. Babe! You re right. There re lots øƒ pretenders out there. But, i strongly believe one thing; "Lions can never move with Dogs or Mate with them, its impossible". So, present yourself the way you want to be seen. Come clean, and you will attract someone clean too. There are lots øƒ guys that re clean out there. Trust me, i know what am saying. Jes keep urself and you will attract the right person...#with prayer though#

Shawl001:
. Babe! You re right. There re lots øƒ pretenders out there. But, i strongly believe one thing; "Lions can never move with Dogs or Mate with them, its impossible". So, present yourself the way you want to be seen. Come clean, and you will attract someone clean too. There are lots øƒ guys that re clean out there. Trust me, i know what am saying. Jes keep urself and you will attract the right person...#with prayer though#

Beautiful points, Shawl...God bless you real good....

emusmith:
DISCLAIMER: In this write-up are coded reasons why you should consider a godly relationship AND that still leaves you with a CHOICE...


A Godly relationship is that kind of relationship that puts God as TOP Priority.

It considers firsthand what God has already said about Sex, Dating, Courting and Marriage in the Bible.

Not many folks find it friendly because of it Dos and Donts.

Standing in the middle as the Op, I want to explore Seven Things To Be Expected In A Godly Relationship less you be disappointed...

Some guys get it all wrong when approaching a lady... They fail to read the BACKGROUND of the lady instead they only just SEE the lady and delude themselves of the lie that they can ALWAYS drag her out, brainwash her etc, until they meet their waterloo.
(No doubt, Sometimes, it happens, that's why my topic made use of REAL...Don't misunderstand me)
They easily get her to say YES but hardly get her to Bed. Why? She had a goal to maintain chastity.
Don't force her unless you're digging your own grave.(Mamas prayers is keeping her even if sometimes she slips)
Even some who have opened up, have decided to go celibate till marriage. Don't force them for sexx.

THEY WANT A REAL GODLY RELATIONSHIP and SEVEN things expected of it are:


1. Praying together

A couple-to-be that prays together stays together. If he doesn't want to pray with you, then he wants to sleep with you. When he is saying, bae, let's do it now, tell him, let's pray first!
Try it and Thank me later, lol!


2. No sex. No testing.

So many reasons exist why guys and girls wants to have sex before marriage but honestly, not one of them holds water! You want to see if he can do it well? What if you marry him and he starts cheating- doing it with another prettier, sexier babe- A cheat remains a cheat ooo. Statistics has it that spouse who do it before marriage HARDLY trust each other. Why? If you did with me then, you could as well do it with any other girl.
THE AVERAGE COUPLE HAVE SEX AT LEAST 2 HOURS PER WEEK. IF YOU MARRY FOR SEX, WHAT WILL YOU GUYS BE DOING FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIVES? If Nothing, then FRUSTRATION and eventually DIVORCE etc. Marry for love not sex...if you really love me, will you want to ruin my life/ career with unprepared pregnancy?


3. Reading the Word together and sharing ideas and truths together.

This strengthens her love for him just as teaching a girl MATHEMATICS etc, does, it makes her admire and love you more. When both of them are looking at the Word and not at themselves, the Word (Agape Love) draws them closer to each other.



4. No passing the night or even day in his house.

We all know how the desire to cuddle and be cuddled by the opposite sex multiplies with age- except old age. Sleeping in his house is pretentious and funny. Because he is not a "FIRE WOOD" lol... You're tempting yourselves, lol!



5. Neither side hugging Nor full hugging is allowed

No form of hugging is allowed because she has bosoms which has activating power to activate thoughts to wanting more than just a hug but to actually hold it... I remember the first day I hugged... ahahah...


6. Both of you only meet in the church. If in an eatery, a third party will be present.

These are one of the measures taken to curb the excesses of sex before marriage. Trust me, it's not delicious but the guy and lady that actually wants to have a good testimony will do all they can to bring it to fruition. How do you feel when you later heard that she was two months pregnant before her wedding? That's why.


7. The lady Isn't Allowed To Over Demand From The Guy. In some places, it's not even allowed.

However, if he chooses to do it out his own will, No problem. This is a plus on the side of the guy. Because, to some our ladies, getting a guy is like winning a contract, Loool!



PS: This thread is basically for SOME who wants a REAL GODLY RELATIONSHIP. However, it's NOT APPLICABLE to everyone...even as BELIEFS differ.


Good evening

guy i love this post God bless u... the only ish is dat i dnt know if these still applies in our time

toby2:

guy i love this post God bless u... the only ish is dat i dnt know if these still applies in our time

Thanks Toby. They still apply although some can be curbed...

emusmith:


Thanks Toby. They still apply although some can be curbed...

Heard of Toby Mac? A gospel artist whose songs has been a blessing.

emusmith:


Beautiful points, Shawl...God bless you real good....

. Amen bro. Thanks!

Shawl001:
. Amen bro. Thanks!

You're welcome, Sir.

I love this