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Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 11:38am On Sep 27, 2014 |
Some years back, my uncle told me a story concerning one of his friends, who was fund of mocking him for not getting married despite his age. (37) So one day, he called my uncle on phone to tell him of his impending wedding ceremony, and therefore pleaded that my uncle lends him some money. I don't know what happened thereafter. But I kept thinking about this! "why borrow money for weddings? To me, it doesn't seem upright. What do you think? |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by ogoplus: 11:50am On Sep 27, 2014 |
It depends o! |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by egopersonified(f): 11:53am On Sep 27, 2014 |
A man who borrows for a wedding ceremony would soon start borrowing to feed his family. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by lomaxx: 11:55am On Sep 27, 2014 |
Why would you borrow money to do wedding? Is it an investment? It's the height of financial foolishness. Nigerians should stop this attitude of trying to impress people with what they don't have. Ater the wedding nkor? What would you use to feed your wife and children? Besides any woman that cannot understand that there's more to life than an extravagant wedding should find place and chill. No be by force abeg 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Not wise at all. Plan the wedding with the little You have. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by esof1(f): 12:07pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Na mad people dey borrow money for wedding 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by perry2020(f): 12:21pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Don't buy the idea. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by eleojo23: 12:24pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
The reason some people borrow money is to have a grand or lavish wedding maybe because someone they know had that type of wedding. My advice: If they think that having a 'mega' wedding will guarantee a blissful marital life and keep the marriage strong till death do them part, then let them go ahead and borrow for the occasion. But if they know that this is just a ceremony and that the real deal begins after the ceremony, then let them use whatever resources they have. A grand wedding is not a passport to a great marital life. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by TeamSimple(m): 1:24pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
This kind of weddimg you attend and see the groom smile in an uncomfortable manner,coz his calculating withing him how to repay the debt. Expecially when he sees the wrong faces on attendance. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 1:28pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
ogoplus: It depends o!depends on what pls.? |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 1:29pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
egopersonified: A man who borrows for a wedding ceremony would soon start borrowing to feed his family.I tire o. Or maybe he might recover the money he borrowed, from the wedding ceremony Lol. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 1:32pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
lomaxx: Why would you borrow money to do wedding? Is it an investment? It's the height of financial foolishness. Nigerians should stop this attitude of trying to impress people with what they don't have. Ater the wedding nkor? What would you use to feed your wife and children? Besides any woman that cannot understand that there's more to life than an extravagant wedding should find place and chill. No be by force abegvery succinctly said. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 1:36pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
3cycle: Not wise at all.exactly my thought |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by littlemistress: 1:54pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
What about those who obtain loans from banks to fund their wedding?? They fail to remember that there's life after wedding., wedding is for a day or two., marriage is for a life-time. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
littlemistress: What about those who obtain loans from banks to fund their wedding?? They fail to remember that there's life after wedding., wedding is for a day or two., marriage is for a life-time.brain |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by OprMgt: 3:12pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
I just sent u PM, pls reply. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 3:41pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
OprMgt: I just sent u PM, pls reply.I haven't seen it. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
egopersonified: A man who borrows for a wedding ceremony would soon start borrowing to feed his family.My thoughts.God forbid o.Before the guy will turn to serial onigbese. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
littlemistress: What about those who obtain loans from banks to fund their wedding?? They fail to remember that there's life after wedding., wedding is for a day or two., marriage is for a life-time.Yea.When I was getting married,my sisters had high expectations.Buy this ,buy that,do this,do that.Well,just ignored them.Cut your coat according to your size.Why borrow for a day's event when you have lorry loads of responsibilities ahead. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 5:04pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Augustbreak: Yea.When I was getting married,my sisters had high expectations.Buy this ,buy that,do this,do that.Well,just ignored them.Cut your coat according to your size.Why borrow for a day's event when you have lorry loads of responsibilities ahead.at least you spend and remain some for August break. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by aniobimartin: 4:57pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Sane people don't borrow for anything |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Godmystrength: 5:09pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
NO NO NO |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 5:35pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Godmystrength: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Fxwarrior: 7:28pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
egopersonified: This is the most sensible post by a woman I have ever read in recent times. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Ezibless: 8:33pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Any man who borrows to wed,is building a bad foundation for his family. If you don't have enough to fund the white wedding,just go for pastor's blessings and prayers,i.e after traditional wedding. Nobody would crucify you o. If pple wan chop rice,make dem come your naming ceremony. At least,no wedding cake,gown,reception hall e.t.c 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 9:12pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Ezibless:aha! Special adviser on marriage affairs. nice one there 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Ezibless: 9:15pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
englishmart: |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Pavore9: 9:39pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
lt is foolishness at its peak! |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 4:18pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Pavore9:lol. Your opinion though |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Pavore9: 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
englishmart:ls a bad foundation upon which d marriage is built on. lt makes no sense that after people have forgotten the rice they ate at ur wedding,u are still struggling to repay. |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by englishmart(m): 5:21pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Pavore9:lol. So you are still an active member of this forum, I thought it would take you ages to reply. Just saying |
Re: Is It Okay To Borrow Money For Your Wedding Ceremony? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
He should plan a small wedding with his money, How will he pay back his dept after the wedding? U know the finances increase afterwards |
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