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To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 9:54am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Pls friends, wat is the extend u av ever gone wit silent treatment in ur past or present r/ship? For me, d last silent treatment i tired wit him, was up to a month, and when we finally settled, i vowed never to try dat in my life anymore. because everything was as if i was starting a fresh journey over again. It wasn't funny at all. Pls come and lets share ur view on dis. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by pasqal09: 9:58am On Jan 08, 2015 |
I see silent treatment as a very immature way of handling issues. If he/she offends you, just tell it to his face and get it over with. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by MizMyColi(f): 10:00am On Jan 08, 2015 |
It doesn't matter how old you are If you ever consciously employ silent treatment in your relationship - - - Face it! You're showcasing immaturity. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Tallesty1(m): 10:02am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Lols..... It is deadly walahi. I don't give silent treatment because it hurts both you and the person. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:04am On Jan 08, 2015 |
pasqal09:Abi o |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:05am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Yea, its truly hurts my dear |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by pasqal09: 10:05am On Jan 08, 2015 |
izaray:Yeah, it'll just worsen everything |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:10am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Mizmycoli and pasqal09.. Immature ke ? What if i do that for fun after telling the person the ish to her face and she still dey beef me.? ![]() |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:10am On Jan 08, 2015 |
MizMyColi:You are right my dear |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:10am On Jan 08, 2015 |
*reading* |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by fattybombom: 10:12am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Believe it or not, this is d best treatment one can give a girl since u will be called a "beast" if u lay ur hands on her. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:14am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Cwaya:But guy, how do u always feel, whenever she is beefing u, worried i guess? |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:16am On Jan 08, 2015 |
fattybombom:Hmmm...na waoooo, but its alway painful u kno |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 08, 2015 |
I opened a thread on this issue sometime. People can't have same opinion on it. https://www.nairaland.com/2007309/opinion-poll-silent-treatment-maturity I wouldn't wanna tag it immaturity, but it's just not necessary and helpful to the relationship. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:19am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:I believe u my dear, my experience wasn't funny o, he keeps apologizing, but i form till later on, i come d pray make God push him come again, hahahaha so funny |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by onstelly(f): 10:22am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Is always better to talk things over and know where one went wrong, silent treatment can never solve the problem instead it will worsen the whole issue trust me |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:23am On Jan 08, 2015 |
izaray: Yeah, i get worrried. And do you know why i get worried; -why will she still beef me even after apologising Even when i'm wrong or when she is wrong. I dont like quarrels so i tend to sort tinz out almost immediately. But after my apologise, she still brings up the issue and gives me headache, i would keep calm and silent. I would make fun from the whole movie and in no time we'll be good . ![]() |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:24am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Cwaya:Hahahaha..bros i like ur style jare |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:28am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: But K-Lady, Not every lady reason like you y'know. Some get plenty wahala. Even after trying to sort things out, they go like make the quarrell tey small ![]() Sometyms, they need that kinda treatment. But I dont overdo it. I even see it as home comedy ![]() ![]() |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Cwaya: lols. I am an extrovert....we don't over flog issues. We say our mind and get over it. Some ladies overdo things though...I guess some of us are just psyched like that. Lmao @home comedy. I hope she sees it as same. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by RoyalPearl(f): 10:34am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Silent treatment is really childish and for the immature/kids. There are so many better ways to resolve issues/conflict then silent treatment. If you are unhappy about something voice it and if still things don't change then maybe the r/ship was just not meant to be. Why would two grown ups 'compete' on who can ignore the other the longest (silent treatment) when you can just talk it out. If you want space then let your partner know you want space 1 Like |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:42am On Jan 08, 2015 |
izaray: Hehe.. No fun in quarells y'know. I cant withstand it especially if i dey same house with the babi. I use to have one chick like that; she no dey gree ![]() If i try walking out on her so i will stop hearing the stories she is telling. *Lie Lie* she go lock door ![]() I will just lay on the bed, smile and instead of replying her, i go just dey divert the whole ish. Quarells are boring !! You just gotta be happy. No dull moment ![]() |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by marieolae(f): 10:42am On Jan 08, 2015 |
It depends Being in a relationship with a very argumentative person, silence is the best answer for them. Its not about being immature, there are different ways to handle different people. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:50am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: You see, not all is like you. As for the home comedy, sometimes i dey collect beating because of the way i will be laughing . ![]() ![]() Girls wahala yakpa ![]() |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Nobody: 10:50am On Jan 08, 2015 |
fattybombom:Silent treatment is a good tool to adopt in place of violence utterances. Is a body gestures that strengers can not understand that is going on btw 2 of you. The silent time will enable the other person to reflect & correct her/himself. When someone does bellow my expectation repeatedly, then, i adopt silent treatment. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:51am On Jan 08, 2015 |
marieolae:Tnks alot 1 Like |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by izaray(f): 10:54am On Jan 08, 2015 |
Cwaya:She must be a nagging type then, i pray she fines sum1 like you, dat will always tolerate & avoid her, just d way u wer doing, as her future hubby |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Cwaya(m): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2015 |
izaray: Amen !! *aah, aswear my head dey swell up now, see hype ![]() Anyway, She is beginning to see the need of all those stuffs i was doing then. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by maajin007(m): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2015 |
fattybombom:wa GBA yi joooooor.bravo!don't mind d ladies;silent hit dem more than beating is just DAT dey can't admit d fact.U kip repeat same tin to a lady and she kip repeating it wat kind of goat like attitude be DAT one |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Nobody: 11:02am On Jan 08, 2015 |
RoyalPearl:What in a situation when talking it out leading to violent behavious, actions, words...? After you have adopted all these means, if the situation persists, it is good to use ST. Or else, it may result to phisical violence. |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by pasqal09: 11:06am On Jan 08, 2015 |
mynairatime:You're talking of a different thing all together |
Re: To Those That Believed On Silent Treatment In R/ship, Its Very Dangerious by Kennywills7(m): 11:15am On Jan 08, 2015 |
For me i think silent treatment can b apply in certain sitiations but must not go on for days When u keep complaining abt one tin to an individual yet no changes it gets boring & d silent treatment is a better way of sending d message across without hitting anyone. When argue sometimes it turns out violently so using dis method for some hours is d best way to avoid dat Hitting of women is a no go area Its not nice at all 1 Like |
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