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Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Tarteenah: 1:43pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
WazzzzzZZZzzappp Nairalanders!!!!! Ok! Pls this the matter on ground! So lemme ask nairalanders! Can u marry someone that has a child already? 1) you love him so much 2) He is from the Igbo tribe 3) The child here is actually a boy ( Twins, oh yes! boys!) Ok my friend is actually confused! The babies are just 1month old...now here is the full story; She and the guy hv bin dating for 3years, then later broke up or should I say, had issues and was away for like a year, only to meet again n started dating again, now his ex gf just showed up with the story of having his kids! He dated that girl for like 7years! He broke up with her because she cheated on him with his cousin! Now when him and my friend came back together,he told her of how he had a one night stand with the ex, coz he was drunk when he met her again in platinum club, then took her home. It all happened that night! Now he proposed on his birthday in Dec, weeks after this girl came with the babies n told him it's hz kids! Can u all imagine? Paternity test came out positive on Monday! Now can she go ahead and marry him? His ex gf is also crazy about him, now she claims to have an upper hand because she is the mother of his two kids( all boys)! What's your advice! As for me, I'm confused!! Ordinarily, I would have said MOVE ON, because of drama, but I know how dis guy loves my friend! Like I know! Oh dear! 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by greatdeal1408: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Redoil: 2:04pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Advice ur mumu friend to do a second partanity test may be mumu gurl went to influence the result secretly. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by raziboi(m): 2:11pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
is left for De guy..ooo...cus De babies are still small.... buh if am De guy...new gal all De way... once a cheat always a cheat |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Tarteenah: 2:19pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Redoil: Thanks for dropping your comment, but u can also do that without insulting! Btw it's "paternity" uwc ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Tarteenah: 2:22pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
raziboi: Thank you, but the issue is not about who the guy shd go for, the guy is still willing to get married to my friend, the issue is if she shd go ahead, u know the plenty stories of "igbos and how they value male child" ish #no offence no apology, that's the issue now...if she shd go ahead and marry him |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Melahou(m): 2:27pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
if its worth it the fight then she should go ahead and marry... but the road is not going to be a smooth one considering the circumstances surrounding the kids |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by desharon(f): 2:40pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
For as long as those kids exist and their mother remaining single, d guy will for one reason or the other visit the ex who is also the mother of the twins, and U know what that means.. some more ''night stands'' my advice to Ur friend is to give up on that marriage else expect battles of ownership even while they are married. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by GoodFaith: 2:49pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
desharon: Sorry Not all men are willing to sleep with their ex |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Tarteenah oh mehn.... Dis one strong ooo... Even if she decides to marry him, d drama won't just end dr... I think its left for d guy to mk up his mind nd decide wisely..... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by raziboi(m): 2:51pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Tarteenah: Swt hrt am an Igbo....dat male child sumthng..is an individual mentality..... a married wife is De first wife in Dis case.....ur frnd can even mother De babies...she shud reason with De guy..only thankz |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by GoodFaith: 2:53pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: Lot of men that have kids and remarry are not having drama in their life |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by IrinaDeverenko(f): 3:00pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
As for my humble opinion op,i will really ask your friend to backout from dat arrangements. As dey oda has claimed to ave upper hand,das is quiet true and she can do nothing about dat,cos if she push through wit dat plan sorry will be her name becos dey oda one will fight with her last blood just to push her out of dat house or beta still eventually kill her if care is not taken so pls tell her to back out ,cos God will still provide her wit a single and still searching guy.tell her to take herself out from untimely death tank you. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by desharon(f): 3:52pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
GoodFaith: But he once did.. dnt try to paint the truth. except he refused his responsibilities as d father of those kids. if they remain wit d mother, he tends to visit n as such there would be exchange of phone calls even if it is once in a while. if he decides to take d kids, which d mother may not accept.. she will visit once in a while thereby making that house uncomfortable for the wife. this marriage would work if only d intending couple lives far n in different state with d mother to d kids. in such way.. she can ve her man to herself ONLY. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by pinkhill(f): 3:55pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
yes i can |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by apparentlylaw(m): 3:58pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Simple tin ...let d guy marry d baby mama and ya Fwend ...solves everytin like Shikinna ...2 wives not dat bad tho |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by GoodFaith: 5:52pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
desharon:The dude might not want to deal with his ex You live in the same state and you don't have to have sex with your ex There are other women out there you can have sex with Not all men want to sleep with their ex ppl will F other women before their ex Your ex might be evil, manipulative, secretive, lair that the only reason you deal with her is because of the kids if there are kids |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Sunkyphil(m): 6:42pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
unless ur friend wants to venture into polygamy which the aftermath is not always good when the children comes off age |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child Already (children)? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
if we love each other & ders happines with him..i will |
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