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Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by gleaf: 1:59pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
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Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by elantraceey(f): 2:11pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
If you really love her and you feel you can't stay because of the feelings you have for then let her go but if you know it won't bother you and you can get into a relationship without your feelings for her affecting it then there's no harm in still being her friend. |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by Melahou(m): 2:14pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
you are better off being just friends... forget dating her.. 1 Like |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by gleaf: 2:23pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
[b][/b] elantraceey: Thanks a lot dear! The problem I have now is that for like 2yrs now I have not been attracted to any oda girl, cos of her! I love her and she knows ...... Am always hurt when ever I see them! |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by elantraceey(f): 2:28pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
gleaf: Then you need to let her go , she just might never date you. |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by TS2(m): 2:34pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Mehn. I feel your pain. But free her like a bad habit. Keep your distance. Then and only then she might realise how attached and so in love she had become to you but because you were always so available and handy she couldnt see it. |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:15pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
gleaf: 4 years?! To be blunt, you are being a MUMU. What do you suppose she does with those guys when she visits them? She sucks their c0cks - with lots of enthusiasm. Maybe she even swallows. I have no doubt she sometimes takes it in the a$$. You know some of those nights you were pining and fantasizing? She was moaning for some bad guy to fvck her silly. I want you to remember these things whenever you slide into thinking about her. And use this as leverage to go out and meet sweet, lovely, wonderful girls who will like you to bits. If you have other lovely girls who want to fvck you, right now, do you think you will remember her? Give your brain options and it will delete her file. |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by officialEGO(f): 3:24pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
gleaf: Number one, you be mumu; no vex abeg! In the sense that, I'm a lady and I'd say that obviously, this girl is aware you have feelings for her and she's enjoying making you miserable. Truthfully, she might not be emotionally attracted to you but she told you not to loose hope on her like 'if you don't give up, you might end up winning' guy, I'm sure you are giving that phrase a thought! You mistaking; your best friend is having fun with ur feelings. My advise, I'd be blunt. Get over your feelings for her, remain bestfriends, no weak moments! Ladies, we are f**king good at manipulating. If you go weak within a chance you get, dts d zone you'd forever be operating till you wonder wt you guys are! If you can't get over your feelings for her, take a break; be blunt about why with her. Stop seeing her like dt, you can still be friends, but maybe not best friends at the end of the day. Chill, your girl is almost near! |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by gleaf: 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
[b][/b] TS2: Thanks man! I will try it and hope it turns out to be so! Tho its gona be hard to try |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by gleaf: 3:37pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
[b][/b] officialEGO: Thanks all the same! To be fair to her she has told me severally to get a girlfriend and I have tried but the feeling won't be there and I end up hurting the girl! I will try and keep a distance anyway |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by SeverusSnape(m): 3:47pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
officialEGO:Hope the OP has seen this your post, because it's the best solution, Nice one girl. End of discussion! 1 Like |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by officialEGO(f): 4:06pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: SeverusSnape! Twale o! Thanks jare. 1 Like |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by officialEGO(f): 4:09pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
gleaf: Hmmmm alright o! The babe don infest your heart; dis one pass cancer o! Na you get lots of work to do then. Keep a distance then maybe with time, you'd let go! #LoveNaBastard! |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by gleaf: 4:18pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
[b][/b][quote author=officialEGO post=29608794] Hmmmm alright o! The babe don infest your heart; dis one pass cancer o! Na you get lots of work to do then. Keep a distance then maybe with time, you'd let go! #LoveNaBastard![/qu No be small bastard ooo! Heavy one... Lesson learnt anyway, can never love like dat again! Thanks |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by officialEGO(f): 4:22pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
gleaf: Awwwww! You didn't love! You had a crush and you went through an unrequited love; 'one-sided', 'unreturned'. Don't let a lady suffer for ur crush that was never returned. You definitely gonna love again and it's gonna be fabulous that the girl won't only return your love, you'd love without holding anything back. Don't be like that, just get over her and work on yourself! |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:u mean o! lwkm |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by pinkhill(f): 4:24pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
keep washing the car while another dude drives it dont you have a love life of your own |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by Jamie1(m): 4:50pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
na wa o... Same thing I'm going through here... Difference is that she isn't dating anyone,yet she turned me down... I even tried causing a quarrel so we can part ways but she won't let go... I stopped calling but she won't stop calling... I don't just know what's her problem... She is making life difficult for me now |
Re: Please Urgent And Matured Advise Needed by MrTeymee(m): 6:01pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
All you need to do is simple. 1. Delete her number 2. Infact delete all her contacts 3. Stay away from her 4. Get drunk 5. Toast some chicks under d influence 6. Call dem d next day ...........And ure as good as new mr gleaf ![]() |
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