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o by chenor(f): 1:33pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
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Re: o by Tallesty1(m): 1:37pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
How old are you guys? 3 Likes |
Re: o by chenor(f): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I am in my early twenties and he is in his late twenties |
Re: o by joe17: 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Tallesty1:I cn guess from her write-up and mentality buh let her say. |
Re: o by ggrin(f): 1:42pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Tallesty1 Q tho ![]() 1 Like |
Re: o by pasqal09: 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
You don't love him and just want him as a friend which obviously, he isn't cool with. So why are you bothered with the way he's acting then? 1 Like |
Re: o by SeverusSnape(m): 1:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
There are two sides to a story, I wish I could hear his own version; then and only then will I pass my verdict. Case adjourned till Valentine's day. Next!!!... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: o by chenor(f): 1:47pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17:. What mentality. Okay imagine if you both are friends and he refused to talk to you and after sending a text to know if you did something wrong and he doesn't reply and then acts as if he doesn't know you at all. What will you do. Put yourself in my shoes |
Re: o by chenor(f): 1:50pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
pasqal09:. Y shouldn't he be cool with it, he has been cool with it all this while if he doesn't want to be friends anymore, can't he just send a text that he doesn't want to be friends with me again |
Re: o by AfricanApple(f): 1:55pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
perhaps you thought guys can make better best friends than the female folks, now you see 'he thinks you are in love with him' hian, you better fashi that dude one side and stop bothering your life or have you no serious thing to do? |
Re: o by OwoLee(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Then u need not complain, since he his not...nothing is wrong with guyz, I guess love is really confusing u... ![]() ![]() ![]() Girls forming hard to get, only God knows ur heart... ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: o by InZA: 2:03pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
"Aggressive Agitations of a brother-zoned niggar" ![]() 1 Like |
Re: o by Mutuwa(m): 2:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor: Madam..you see while some guys are wise,some are otherwise.Am not backing this your male friend bcoz am also male,but since (according) to you he thinks ur in love with him and mayb that is where u draw ur conclusion that he had displayed some immaturity when u met after he didnt reply ur calls.I had expected you to at least give him a benefit of doubt after ur missed call incidence.U should have be been bold to just listen to his flimsy reasons why he didn't call bk or at least snd a text intimating u abt his reasons.depending on how his reasons wer best adduce u may walk away or enter into an enigmatic mode to sweep him off his feets.mk him feel stupid thats all am trying to put together here. |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:11pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
InZA:. Not brother zoned. Since when we met, he has dated a couple of ladies so he being brother zoned, shouldn't even come up, besides he is presently dating one. |
Re: o by joe17: 2:12pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor:No dear, I don't put on ladies shoes ![]() BTW, dat shoe of urs is too small ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:13pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Mutuwa:that is what I intend to do. Make him feel so stupid. I guess that is what we call the male pride |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17:. Really but please imagine ur close buddy doing this to you |
Re: o by joe17: 2:17pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor:sister, his gf has asked her to stay away frm u or she wil call of d r/ship. Its possible |
Re: o by MissSlimbody(f): 2:18pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
joe17:. Okay but can't he just tell me. I will understand but not by acting that way |
Re: o by passionate88: 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
What is this?. |
Re: o by Mutuwa(m): 2:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor: Every sex got pride.attaching it to gender does not make it very proclaimed.He knows he didn't do well by not returning your calls.But try applying wisdom into making him feel absurd for his misdeeds.But like I reiterate listen 1st to his excuse,u may find some part of it something u can overlook or feel pity for him.dnt prejudice Ohk?since ur just "good friends". |
Re: o by joe17: 2:25pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: o by InZA: 2:34pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor: You see we guys are quite a funny folk... The fact that he has dated a couple of ladies and still dating one doesn't necessarily mean he wouldn't have/or doesn't want to date you. Like I said in my initial post... He's just being agitated and one of such things that causes a guy to be agitated and act in the way you've described he's acting is when "feelings" are involved. I may be wrong though. |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:34pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Mutuwa:. So what you are trying to say is that I should call him and ask what the problem is |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
InZA:. Come to think of it, I have caught him reading my messages, chats, checking my call history and anytime I talk about an encounter with a guy, he gets uncomfortable sometimes, always asking me how many guys hit on me in a day |
Re: o by Mutuwa(m): 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor: The time for that i guess has elapsed.Wait for his call,except if your anxious to call coz maybe u missed him or actually in love with him (which u'v debunked in your opening post). He may call if he cares..if he does,make sure u ask him for reasons why he did what he did. ![]() |
Re: o by MissSlimbody(f): 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: o by Tattooboy: 2:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
yet another thread on 'friend zoning'. |
Re: o by freezyprinzy(m): 2:47pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
OwoLee:I wonder o u no lyk person and u send am message he no reply no b 2 4get am.....my sister u in love jor 1 Like |
Re: o by chenor(f): 2:53pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Mutuwa:. Okay thanks |
Re: o by InZA: 3:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
chenor: So there you have it. |
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