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My Love Story by Lobienyi(f): 7:51am On Jan 11, 2015
I've been dating this guy for 4years now since school days and since all this time I cheated on him twice, threatened to break up wit him so many times whenever I got hurt. I didn't really know how to manage my anger nd hurt but even in all that he forgave me then and begged and even apologised in most cases then. Recently we've been having a lot of issues and it became serious now that I think I'm loosing him and now I've began to realise how much I love him and how much he means to me and I don't want to loose him, I have managed to tell him all tis yesterday when we spent a long time discussing and I begged him to give me another chance but he said I've lost my chance with him, and then after much deep conversation he said ok let's see how it goes but he's not promising me anytin like marriage that he's no longer thinking of getting married 2 me and I know he loves me but he's fed up and I just realised I can't live without and I'm afraid its too latem what do I do to get him back pls I need sincere advice so I can knw if I should go ahead cos I even told him yesterday that I don't mind if he wants to date other girls so long as he doesn't leave me but I know I can't tk it as I am very jealous and I love him wt all ma heart. What do I do or is this a lost course?
Re: My Love Story by SirAweezy(m): 7:56am On Jan 11, 2015
Joker! Channel your energy on something productive in life.. You've lost him.. Don't let anyone deceive you to fight and get your love back! Bow out! **honest advice**
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:14am On Jan 11, 2015
Drop your pant love wink
Re: My Love Story by Nobody: 8:17am On Jan 11, 2015
Iceberylin lol stp being nutty.
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:18am On Jan 11, 2015
Cutehector4u:
Iceberylin lol stp being nutty.
Its a good idea joor..

Where v u been
Re: My Love Story by apparentlylaw(m): 8:19am On Jan 11, 2015
D guy z fed up sha ...after all d begging ..wen u dey do ur shakara u no knw ...buh since u ve realized ya mixtake I pray GOD preserves ur relationship
Re: My Love Story by Nobody: 8:21am On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:

Its a good idea joor..

Where v u been
had to run away a lil.. Dey said I was bein too frequent on nairaland...nd I wanted dem to miss me
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:26am On Jan 11, 2015
Cutehector4u:
had to run away a lil.. Dey said I was bein too frequent on nairaland...nd I wanted dem to miss me
Hope you accomplished your dream grin
Re: My Love Story by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:

Hope you accomplished your dream grin
lol yh... How many accountss do u hv sef?
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:32am On Jan 11, 2015
Cutehector4u:
lol yh... How many accountss do u hv sef?
Just this one...
Y asking undecided
Re: My Love Story by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:

Just this one...
Y asking undecided
been seein so many versions of ur moniker lately
Re: My Love Story by MizMyColi(f): 8:47am On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Drop your pant love wink

Stop being an embarrassment to your online self.

Give yourself some brain.

Seeing as you're one of the top 5 posters in this section, it doesn't hurt to be a reppin' ambassador so to speak.

Know when to crack silly jokes and when to get serious.

If you have nothing tangible to say in serious issues, the back button always suffices.

I'm not ordering you sir, please understand. But do your best to give this section credibility and rep via your comments.

Tenks smiley

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Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:49am On Jan 11, 2015
Cutehector4u:
been seein so many versions of ur moniker lately
Niggaz wana be me...mehnn am so fly cool
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 8:54am On Jan 11, 2015
MizMyColi:


Stop being an embarrassment to your online self.

Give yourself some brain.

Seeing as you're one of the top 5 posters in this section, it doesn't hurt to be a reppin' ambassador so to speak.

Know when to crack silly jokes and when to get serious.

If you have nothing tangible to say in serious issues, the back button always suffices.

I'm not ordering you sir, please understand. But do your best to give this section credibility and rep via your comments.

Tenks smiley

Dont take this too serious, we just here to have Fun wink
Re: My Love Story by Melahou(m): 8:59am On Jan 11, 2015
Let him go...
You caused it all
Re: My Love Story by MizMyColi(f): 9:02am On Jan 11, 2015
Lobienyi:
I've been dating this guy for 4years now since school days and since all this time I cheated on him twice, threatened to break up wit him so many times whenever I got hurt. I didn't really know how to manage my anger nd hurt but even in all that he forgave me then and begged and even apologised in most cases then. Recently we've been having a lot of issues and it became serious now that I think I'm loosing him and now I've began to realise how much I love him and how much he means to me and I don't want to loose him, I have managed to tell him all tis yesterday when we spent a long time discussing and I begged him to give me another chance but he said I've lost my chance with him, and then after much deep conversation he said ok let's see how it goes but he's not promising me anytin like marriage that he's no longer thinking of getting married 2 me and I know he loves me but he's fed up and I just realised I can't live without and I'm afraid its too latem what do I do to get him back pls I need sincere advice so I can knw if I should go ahead cos I even told him yesterday that I don't mind if he wants to date other girls so long as he doesn't leave me but I know I can't tk it as I am very jealous and I love him wt all ma heart. What do I do or is this a lost causse?

Owh yes dear smiley
At the moment, it is and your heart bears witness to that.

I wouldn't rule out the possibility of you two getting back together, but I'd rather you do not hinge your hopes on that.

One good thing you can do for yourself and credibility is take a walk from the relationship.

You cheated on him twice, really?!

If you continue on this path, you'll never be celebrated. You'll just be tolerated.

Take some time off. Have an introspective look at yourself. It's prolly in your nature to be domineering and quarrelsome......don't give up on self. Keep working at becoming a better person........steer clear off relationships for the next 4 months or so at least.

Use that time to make declarations and take certain actions that'll make your next attempt at loving worth it.


You may have failed yourself and your man, but please don't stay down. Arise! Live again. Your hope is still alive. Just purpose in your heart to be a better person, first for yourself and for those connected to you.

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Re: My Love Story by MizMyColi(f): 9:05am On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:

Dont take this too serious, we just here to have Fun wink

There's a right time for everything under the sun.
Re: My Love Story by Oluwatosean(m): 9:16am On Jan 11, 2015
The guy has given u a second chance. Just prove to him that u r a worthy partner
Re: My Love Story by iceberylin(m): 9:23am On Jan 11, 2015
MizMyColi:


There's a right time for everything under the sun.


Have heard wink
Re: My Love Story by sneak3(m): 12:01pm On Jan 11, 2015
MizMyColi:


Owh yes dear smiley
At the moment, it is and your heart bears witness to that.

I wouldn't rule out the possibility of you two getting back together, but I'd rather you do not hinge your hopes on that.

One good thing you can do for yourself and credibility is take a walk from the relationship.

You cheated on him twice, really?!

If you continue on this path, you'll never be celebrated. You'll just be tolerated.

Take some time off. Have an introspective look at yourself. It's prolly in your nature to be domineering and quarrelsome......don't give up on self. Keep working at becoming a better person........steer clear off relationships for the next 4 months or so at least.

Use that time to make declarations and take certain actions that'll make your next attempt at loving worth it.


You may have failed yourself and your man, but please don't stay down. Arise! Live again. Your hope is still alive. Just purpose in your heart to be a better person, first for yourself and for those connected to you.


Good advice u seeked, adequate and accurate answer she has given..

nice 1. Mature advice dear

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Re: My Love Story by MizMyColi(f): 12:59pm On Jan 11, 2015
sneak3:



Good advice u seeked, adequate and accurate answer she has given..

nice 1. Mature advice dear

Thank You.
Re: My Love Story by ihedinobi2: 3:24pm On Jan 11, 2015
You'll do it again. Let him go. Love tells the lover to endure a lot for the beloved but seriously, it does not endure till infinity. If this guy had decided to protect his pride he would have left you ages ago. And he definitely wouldn't be giving you any more chances. He's still willing to fight it out with you. And I think that's unhealthy for him because you will get bored again and start acting out like you always did.

If you want a different outcome, you had better get your head into the game and be serious. Love is not constant drama. It's two people choosing to do life together.

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