In here seated with a cup of tea, sipping and writing, hoping each gulp would wash away a little pain. Who says love is a bed of roses. It could be a blessing and sometimes instead of bliss it becomes a curse. Such is my predicament at the moment as my hands struggles to pen my feelings. I write to the Love of my life, the curse of the moment and hopefully the Angel of tomorrow.

Dear Girl,
Don’t be surprised that I called you “girl” on a good day I would address you as my Queen. You are truly a Queen but today is a sad day. No apologies. My view of the situation and my feelings shall not becloud my judgment. I therefore wish to let you know you have been great. You have affected my life in uncountable positive ways. You have been a pillar. Like a Mom, Sister and Wife, you have truly been wonderful. Your little show of love, your caring attitude and your dispositions that reveals without doubt your heavenly bestowed industry. Yes you are Industrious! The old fashioned Wife and widely sought wife material.

The road has been rough. You have put up with a lot of my ills and dirt. You have been a bit adventurous and sacrificial. For that I owe God and you a lot of thanks. Hence, my gentle attitude and simple demeanors towards you through the journey. I am here recounting where it got all wrong. Like a beautiful house built on a faulty foundation. Visible is the cracks and audible is the shaking. All is not well with us.

Just like yesterday, I remember the dawn of the journey. The very beginning when my eyes beheld a young thick lady with the radiance of the sun. How you came into my life like a visiting merchant on a journey. How I later seem to be the visitor that is supposed to stay and leave. It is 2015 now. Despite the beauty and elegance of our relationship amid hardships, endurance and commitment sprinkled with few glorious moments, I am here considering a breakup. Even as we plan marriage in a few months, I cannot but consider the grey areas long ignored. It has become thorn in the flesh.

My future might have been a doubt to you early on as you considered my predicaments and weighed my possibilities of living a fulfilled life. However, you shared your heart with me. Compassionately you fell in love with the greatest mind. You were lucky.

It is my belief that our faulty foundation was when you told me you were a virgin. Like a sailor finding a new and inhabited island, with joy unspeakable, I named you mine. Not that I find non virgins unattractive or less but I saw someone special. So began our journey of abstinence until it dawned on me the dangers posed to a 5 year relationship without sex. I reserve my facts.

I tried my best above all, to shield you from the wiles and vile of men. Through your university years, no one could use and dump you as the norm with ladies. I taught you a lot on sexuality while I respected your sanctity. For months we shared the same bed and lived like couples and I maintained my sanity. The wind of life and time took its cause, and the toll brought us distance. As expected the story changed.

You had your taste of men and experience. I went down the pecking order and sometime you termed me not good enough for you. You came back once and promised to stay forever. You reneged in search of greener pastures. You came back again to my waiting arms. We want to get married now but won’t do away with your Exs.

My plea has met deaf ears, with the history behind you and that guy…….. I cannot afford it. You cannot love another and marry me. You cannot keep up contact with exchange of romantic messages and expect me to proceed with wedding plans.

I am not sorry to tell you that I am walking away this time. You cannot say it’s because I have eaten the forbidden fruit. You know what to do if truly you love me. You should know as well by now that I cannot be deceived anymore.

Farewell.

Before i send this can someone advice me on what to do?

Wen pple walk away from u...let dem walk...it dosent mean dat dey're bad people...it jst means dat dia part in ur story is ova

iceberylin

dechandel:
Op. Am single and searching

Iceberylin come o

I think u should send it right away. @op don't beat urself over a babe dat failed to realize that u truely love her am sure dere another girl out dere waitin for u to just tak a glance @ her.

Look around u @op, babes too plenty to beat urself over a girl, even if she fine like genny or she sabi Bleep lik a IndecentStar.

The fact that she said u are not good enough for her hit me. It is clare she is in love with someone else. Dude, try to summarize the message and send it. No need for too much explanation. Her deeds are self explanatory. Meanwhile, I'll suggest you join us at THE GENTLEMEN'S CLUB.

Love hurts

Nigga click SEND


But this is so touching

ggrin:
iceberylin

Yes love

No fear,its not for u

ggrin:

Iceberylin come o

dechandel:
Op.ggrin is single and searching

Hehe...y'all need Jesus

dechandel:
Aww
Iceberylin.. You are cherished by me

Thats so sweet

iceberylin:

Thats so sweet

dechandel:

Even though it's a tough decision, count your losses and move on, for every woman that doesn't want to be with you, there are ten who will start a war to win your heart.

dechandel:
Send the letter
And paste her reply

seconded

dechandel:
Aww
Iceberylin.. You are cherished
I love you dearly

awwww so sweet

iceberylin:

Hehe...y'all need Jesus

and you need wah

ggrin:
and you need wah

You

ggrin:

The letter

Keeping up the memories will only make it hard for you to let go.

Be a man
Take a deep breathe and exhale
Click send
Wipe your tears
And move on..

The best you can do is setting the bird free

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That z how we roll

the above posters sud stop derailin d thread n contribute...ehya sowi @ op neva date sm1 dat still hv feelings 4 their ex..is ur gf on nl dat u are writin letter here snd ha d msg direct

ggrin:

So

This is the most touchin letter i have eva read in my whole life.
@ some point every word just day break my heart to pieces. Chai! Good boys don suffer oh.
Sorry men but the ladies prefer wild guys like me way go knack them akpako & not av any future plan for them watsoeva..
Dude its been over a long time before now. U were keepin her, anoda sharp guy helped u open up the slot. She kept on sharin the pumo to other Ex's & even told u. u are not good enough.
Abeg wat more do u want? Just go find a girl that will apreciate u & treat u beta cuz u deserve beta than this girl u wanna kill urself over.
Sorry man but we live in a world where bad things happen to good people.
Send her this letter, make sure u say everytin that is in ur heart. No hold back @ all. It is d process of self healing.
U may not believe it now but i want u to remember this words "U will find somebody better, somebody that will make u thank God that it didnt work out wit this skank u are killin urself over"
Keep us updated on her reply and dont let her manipulate u cuz u are emotional.