LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

....ur advice is terrible bt funny. Lol

Bible warns: "Walk in the spirit, so you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh"

Mmy brother it is not easy o cos I was in the same situation as you, a month ago but today I am married now (last year december).

It was God all the way cos sometimes the urge comes from both sides, most times from me and few times from her..from my experience, I'll say your resolution not to defile yourselves and constantly praying about it - for each other, is the way out! It worked for me though.

I also think if you really love a lady you intend to marry, then try to repect her body. Think of them ladies as an egg, when once broken cannot be put together.

Unless, you are not destined to marry that lady o, if not why rush to eat a bowl of meal that will always be there when you are hungry?

So you see my brother, the sexual urge of before marriage is nothing compared to what I will be getting tonight, infact somebody go hear am today- the reward of patience!


Good Luck, Bro

9jatatafo:

Bro believe what you believe, I don't believe that horse shit. Is there any portion of the Bible that says spirits get married to human? Give me the chapter(s) and verse (s)

were u the one I quoted b4? Because my post was in response to the contradiction in the guy's posts. In one post you believed in the existence of spirits only to turn around and say you don't believe in spiritual wife/husband. To me that's a contradiction because anyone who believes in the existence of spirits in the 1st place and the possibility of such spirits possessing humans should as well believe that such spirits can also have a human wife/husband. I don't believe in spirits though.

Dude.... Here's my 2 cents.....
.. Self service go damage your sexual competencies
..Read about sex,(avoid xx videos) so as to be aware of the act.
..Hope you ain't shy of the opposite sex, cus they too experience it
..Be an extrovert... Soon enough you'll find a girl who's gonna make you smile
..Discuss topics on sexual urges with your friends(male and female), it'll keep the urges @ bay
..Talk to peeps who are in their early 30's they will give you good and bad advices... Filter it and take the best
..Wen the urge is tough.. Get urself busy( for me when ill tots are in my head, I listen to classic rap) since you're still schooling, you can think of future career or your GP.
..No mata how hard you fight.. Whatever will be will be...... You just gotta apply self discipline and trust God.
..This steps will prevent you from becoming a pervert.. Take heed

KONJI NA BASTARD AND NO RESPECTER OF ANYONE

duni04:

Nobody's being dogmatic here. I'm only saying it might be possible to abstain till marriage. I personally doubt it but for the sake of young people like the OP, that's exactly the kind of message we should be sending them, not telling them its OK to bang as many people as they can cos God made sex for that purpose. If some have been able to abstain till marriage, the OP probably can. That's the message.

I don't remember saying it's ok to bang as many people indiscriminately as possible, all I'm saying is, sex is healthy and shouldn't be a sin when done responsibly by 2 consenting adults.

9jatatafo:

Bro believe what you believe, I don't believe that horse shit. Is there any portion of the Bible that says spirits get married to human? Give me the chapter(s) and verse (s)

Genesis 6:1-2 Living Bible (TLB)
Now a population explosion
took place upon the earth. It was at
this time that beings from the spirit
world looked upon the beautiful
earth women and took any they desired
to be their wives.

[quote
author=mcsnup post=29698619] brother, i can't help but say i love you
and my God bless you with wisdom and the strength to stand firm.
@Thugnificen take it from me, i no a man in his mid-30s and he has never
had sex. What you feed your mind is what it processes, and please don't
think that sperm would store in your system till it begins to pose
health problem to you. God has designed your system to let out every
waste, you sweat, urinate, shit and even wet dream...no make anybody
fool you [/quote]

amen...and you too.
he need our prayers pls.

macjireh:



Genesis 6:1-2 Living Bible (TLB)
Now a population explosion
took place upon the earth. It was at
this time that beings from the spirit
world looked upon the beautiful
earth women and took any they desired
to be their wives.

Those spirit being were lusting over beautiful women and they took human form and married women and bore children who became giants. What you are missing is that spirits marry human, those spirits in the Bible book you just quoted change to human form and were physical and visible. One can touch them. So this portion does not clarify your teachings that human gets married to spirits and cuase wet dreams.

11 steps to christian dating

Step 1:

Define the purpose of the relationship. A long distance relationship is a lot of work, and it is easy to make assumptions without face to face time. Both halves of the relationship must agree on the purpose of the relationship. A relationship that starts out with a lot of honesty has a much better chance of surviving, thriving, and creating many opportunities for romance.

Step 2:

Decide on limits. This means physical relationship limits are set in place to honor and respect each other. Emotional attachment and involvement will grow with the relationship. At the beginning, it's good to have a few guidelines in place like, "We will not talk for more than 5 hours straight." That may sound extreme, but when the only communication is over a long distance, it is easy to become immersed in it because there is no face-to-face time. Guidelines help keep the relationship in perspective.


Step 3:

Get a couple of friends or family members to enforce accountability. Share with them the limits that are set in place and agree on a way to be held accountable.


Step 4:

Set up some different means of communication like email, phone, IM, webcam, Skype, messenger pigeon. Don't let all this communication interfere with work or other family obligations. It's easy to be consumed with a relationship whether it is long distance or not.


Step 5:

Send each other good old fashioned letters, surprises or treats. Get your best friends to help out on special days, maybe delivering a surprise package, balloons or fresh flowers. Don't forget to thank your friends and be ready to return the favor for them.


Step 6:

Cultivate common interests and activities even over the distance. Use digital cameras, a webcam, blogs, and other media to share projects and include each other, friends and family members. Build a website together, or make videos of a typical day for each other. Take a class online together, or send each other snapshots of places and people around you.


Step 7:

Get answers to the important questions. Make sure that, during all those phone calls and instant message chats, Important stuff is discussed. Make a list or choose a subject and talk it out.



Step 8:

Have an official date once a week or more. This may be an extended phone conversation, video (webcam) call, or go to the same movie and then call each other afterward and talk about it.


Step 9:

Take turns visiting each other. It's costly to travel, so take turns. He comes to see her for one weekend. A few weeks later she comes to see him. Set up a place to stay for each other, preferably with friends or family members so no hotel expenses are involved. Spend the time together and not on things you can do while apart. Don't waste your together time on a movie. Balance those weekend with some time spent in private one-on-one conversation and some time spent with friends and family. It's important to see each other interact around other people.


Step 10:

Don't waste each other's time. This principle is true in every relationship, but especially so in long distance relationships. They are a lot more work and cost. So be kind to each other. If it's not working, don't drag things out painfully. If it is working, be honest and open with each other about where the relationship is going and the kind of time frame you're working with. Long distance relationships require more planning, so it is important to know how to plan.


Step 11:

Finally, enjoy the thrill and romance of the long distance relationship. It's painful and annoying sometimes, but it's also romantic. Savor the time together. There's a reason they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I swear you Nigerians are extremists... When and where did God call you to a sitting to tell you all these... Sex urge is natural... If it weren't for you to check your potency (not sex related), then its useless... Damn.. Even the missionaries that brought this religions aren't taking it p as you africans are..

sonOfLucifer:
Become a Satanist. Indulge in self. Experience freedom.

Please God, kill all Satanist.

Amen.

my friend please try and read books on sex and relationships. sexual purity is still possible till u find the love of ur life. pls get this books sexual purity, hi can we be friends, what the rabbit did not know. All by tekena ikoko. follow us on facebook, www.facebook.com/singlebutnotstupid. God bless u

Dez80:


hahahahahahaahaha, u got me laughing real hard here

LucemFerre:
Buy 1 carton of dudu-osun for prevention against germs and bags of pure water don't use well water prevention against tape worm, download better mojo... Bros and Service yourself all you want... Fasting and prayers no dey cure konji... If not the next time you sneeze na sperm go comot some time later if you dey cry, your tears go thick (water+sperm)... Next you go just start to dey smell yam water from no where (catarrh + sperm).

Help yourself o... If God no want make you do soapy him for no allow konji torment you.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!

Rapture4real:
God is not wicked .if he knows we can't handle it, he won't say we shouldn't go there. Pray against it.accept that it is wrong and mean it.avoid sex triggers.go for deliverance if needed.read the bible and attend fellowships.keep company with godly friends.share your concerns with godly friends who will help pray with you.the evil of sexual immorality is more than the enjoyment.I'm married.I can tell you there is no big deal in sex.it is overrated by the perverts to lure people into it.keep your mind pure.you will overcome

So sex isn't fun as we see and hear about it on TV?

But konji na bastard ooooooooob

U better go marry stop deceiving urself!

Wait until you meet the man who never gets an errection or is infertile.

Find a girlfriend and enjoy yourself. Use condom. Life is short.

Some ppl say wanking is a sin, pls can some body tell me the deference with waking up from sleep and noticed that your pant is full of pap akamu?

You can never cheat nature, if you don't want to have a girl friend then don't get the urge, if you must have sexual urge then you must certify it else you will embarrass your self wich is more shameful.

You can not stop nature, you must offload by puting the rod where is made for or self-service your self period, this one has noting to do with church, that's why some times you see some rev fathers commuting pedophilia.

Try get a girl friend and build the relationship towards marriage while is going on she will be solving your canal problems whiles you are supporting her too until you both are ready to pronounce it marriage, hope I'm making a huge sense here.

orble:








Please God, kill all Satanist.

Amen.

I think it would be better to pray for all Satanists....rather than to pray for their deaths.

critique101:


Dont mention God's name in such stupiid comments. you have insulted GOd. THink before you talk/write

shattap

critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps

good one. Run away from any appearance of such. Avoid discussion/chat that wud grow the urge in you, take your mind off it. Any act of sin is first conceived in the mind. Be addicted to FASTING and Pray always to mortify the flesh as well. Good luck! The LORD is your strength

irokop:
Some ppl say wanking is a sin, pls can some body tell me the deference with waking up from sleep and noticed that your pant is full of pap akamu?

You can never cheat nature, if you don't want to have a girl friend then don't get the urge, if you must have sexual urge then you must certify it else you will embarrass your self wich is more shameful.

You can not stop nature, you must offload by puting the rod where is made for or self-service your self period, this one has noting to do with church, that's why some times you see some rev fathers commuting pedophilia.

Try get a girl friend and build the relationship towards marriage while is going on she will be solving your canal problems whiles you are supporting her too until you both are ready to pronounce it marriage, hope I'm making a huge sense here.

u make sense no mind all dis hypocrites...sumtin wey a whole adam (1st hand tear rubber man made by god) no fit resist hw much more ordinary you dat was conceivd thru sin
nigerians wit dia extreme beliefs
no b only prayin & fastin u go go mountain so dat d nxt tym u see a female speci ur odeshi go repel am...lol

kalufelix:
u make sense no mind all dis hypocrites...sumtin wey a whole adam (1st hand tear rubber man made by god) no fit resist hw much more ordinary you dat was conceivd thru sin
nigerians wit dia extreme beliefs
no b only prayin & fastin u go go mountain so dat d nxt tym u see a female speci ur odeshi go repel am...lol

Somebody I know very well as a born again Christian whom I believe that he has know girl friend or has ever had sex who is in his late 20s went and engage his brothers wife in sex which of cause cost a big uproar with his brother although his act was unsuccessful cos his brother wife obliged, is this life? You can not chit nature.

The solution is simple, vote Buhari come febuhari.

Thugnificent:
Are you a virgin?

What manner of question is this?

The topic said "how can one handle sexual urge..." How is that only a virgin's problem?

Thugnificent:
Thanks everyone for the responses so far. I thank God for his mercies upon my life, I just graduated from the Uni and by November I will be going for service. The problem now is I can't wait anylonger. Some people are advicing me to get married forgetting the fact that I need a stable source of income first. My hormones are raging everyday, so is it a sin to self service once in a while till i get ready for marriage? I'm sure God will understand my predicament.

You do not sound like someone that one to let Go. And if you are not willing or ready to let go, there's nothing anybody can do for you bros.

bingbagbo:


MY BROTHER, JUST ONE THING WILL END THIS:

Colossians 3:2

Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things


And how can you do this? FAST AND PRAY

Pray dail



y and communicate with the father....ask for the strengthening of the HOLY GHOST

Are you born again?

Right answer brother, its human nature to have such feelings, but they can be overided by our spiritual nature. The stronger ur inner man, the more powerful it can dominate over the flesh. How can ur inner man be strenghtened? Set ur mind on things above. Have a solid and concrete and undeceiving longing for things which are above the world. This act lifts up ur spirit. When ur spirit is always lifted up, dere wudnt be time for the flesh to arise

MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..

duni04:

Aren't you committing fornication with your girlfriend?

Come again pls.

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