Before I begin, please e-warriors, this is my personal opinion through close observations, experiences from close friends and relatives and a little bit of personal experience

Often times, young men make the mistake, thinking that they would meet their better half in the under listed places. Remember, two worst things than can happen to a man are: (1) not having money to take care of your family (2) marrying a bad and wayward woman!

Let's go!!!

1. The Church: it will surprise you to know why the church happened to be my first point of call. Reason: the church is often but erroneously seen as a haven for good wives. False!!! Most of the young girls you see in churches are still the same peeps most of us see when we go to clubs on Sunday evening! An average Nigerian girl goes to church on Sunday morning, comes back by 12pm, eat, pings a little, answers some phone calls, then zooms off into thin air. The next time you see her would be the following day There are exception to these type of young women; yea, those ones who are from a decent and God-fearing family and who have decided to tow the family line are exceptions. You should see what most these girls that call themselves church girls do after service. Am not saying that you can't get a good wife in church, all am saying is that don't go to church with the purpose of getting a wife. I know some men are desperately searching for wives; they are ready to go anywhere, even to a babalawo's house; though, the females are mostly guilty of this, searching for rich husbands If you are a young man that wants a wife and attends a church, make sure you know her personally (attitude-wise) and not because she attends church too. If you go f-up, my guy, you might come here asking me 'How do I turn a hoe into a good wife?'

2. The Bar/Beer Parlor: We are Nigerians and we live in Nigeria. We all know bars/beer parlors are commonly visited in the night or late evening. I know some men can be so foolish! You meet a girl at the bar at night, two or three weeks later, you are taking her to see family members! As what? As a wife? You must be joking! Since bars/beer parlors are normally patronized at night, what would a decent lady be doing at that place by that time? If she came with a guy, bro it means you would be trying to take someone else's girl. That's not good, bro. Na naija we dey. Nor be yankee wey a young woman fit stroll enter any bar or club on her own to catch fun.

3. Clubs: Some men dey crase o! You see girl for club, carry am, come juba am...the thing come sweet you...you come say you wan marry am. Abi? After getting married to her, just make a signpost and hang it at your gate which would read: 'BROTHEL HERE - CHECK IN FOR HOT intimacy' because that's what she would turn your house into. The fact is that people don't easily change from their bad habit as it is easy to learn a bad habit. I know most would say 'Responsible men don't go to club to look for wives' but the truth is: 'Even responsible men go to clubs sometimes, and they may be misled by yansh, brea.sts and the likes.

If you are looking for a wife, don't be desperate. Calm down...meet the nice ladies out there who you see are hard working; they could be in one profession or the other (not the ones whose professions are anonymous). Chat simply on anything you feel would interest her, go on steady with her...as time goes on, you would know the real type of person she is - her dreams, vision and attitude to life!

4. Body Parts : Looking for a wife in body parts? I laff well well because dis one still join the wrong places o! True, some young men look for wives in body parts! If you are carried away by how big the yansh is, how luscious the boo.bs are, or how straight the legs are, without considering attitude, character and family background (as regards God-fearing, peace and stability in the family), I am sorry Old Nick is your friend

Just from the baddest Warffi boy!!!

Feel free to add your own experiences and observations.

Peace!!! Two fingers up!!!

as i see the church own...afraid catch me!!

Quite true

church is the worst, after clubbing during weekends, some girls will form holy holy on Sunday

True talk

patrickdarlins:
as i see the church own...afraid catch me!!

So, you dey find wife for church?

I object!

You can find her/him anywhere and what is "body parts"?

Don't agree with you op

You can find a wife any were even In an ashawooo house

Real women are getting scarce everyday. One needs to start early to build friendships with nice ladies when they are still young, and not wake up in your thirties and start looking for a wife. You will most likely meet those who have been bleeped countless times, who have been in and out of dozens of relationships and are now willing to play the fool to deceive you into marrying them. They now need a man for keeps after they have had enough fun in their best years. Men start early. The younger the lady, the better. And most of all, be prayerful in your search for a wife. You need divine direction.

UchihaMadara:
I object!

You can find her/him anywhere and what is "body parts"?

Body parts are shaki, liver, floater, abodi and roundabout

Rapmoney:


So, you dey find wife for church?

were i won take go find again??

club??bar??abi na market place...oya tell me...lols

mentorandfriend:
Real women are getting scarce everyday. One needs to start early to build friendships with nice ladies when they are still young, and not wake up in your thirties and start looking for a wife. You will most likely meet those who have been bleeped countless times, who have been in and out of dozens of relationships and are now willing to play the fool to deceive you into marrying them. They now need a man for keeps after they have had enough fun in their best years. Men start early. The younger the lady, the better. And most of all, be prayerful in your search for a wife. You need divine direction.

The ones you mentioned are the first in church on Sunday morning! Truly, God should be involved. Chineke, zokwa anyi o!

Hmmmmm....following

Rapmoney:


Body parts are shaki, liver, floater, abodi and roundabout

Lol! Shaki? Roundabout?

Guy, be serious.

brito:
Hmmmmm....following

Madam, I think say u dor sleep

UchihaMadara:


Lol! Shaki? Roundabout?

Guy, be serious.

Why won't I be serious, bro?

samflexxy:
Don't agree with you op

You can find a wife any were even In an ashawooo house

Na u go still waka come NL with another user name with 'Please Help: My Wife Has Slept With All My Friends!!!'

Rapmoney:


Why won't I be serious, bro?

...but I have never seen big butts were they are selling shaki

Maybe I go to the wrong market.

UchihaMadara:


...but I have never seen big butts were they are selling shaki

Maybe I go to the wrong market.

Sure, big butts do sell shaki, abi na shoki?

Rapmoney:


Madam, I think say u dor sleep

I just woke up, nice one

brito:





I just woke up, nice one

Thanks

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wlc

Baddestguyp:
church is the worst, after clubbing during weekends, some girls will form holy holy on Sunday

That's why it topped the list.

Baddestguyp:
church is the worst, after clubbing during weekends, some girls will form holy holy on Sunday

98% of the girls you meet in club on Sunday night attended church with a big Bible in the morning of that same day.

i hate threads that dont proffer solutions

op. where should we look for wife o.
Marine world, ur village or the Evil forest?

mentorandfriend:
Real women are getting scarce everyday. One needs to start early to build friendships with nice ladies when they are still young, and not wake up in your thirties and start looking for a wife. You will most likely meet those who have been bleeped countless times, who have been in and out of dozens of relationships and are now willing to play the fool to deceive you into marrying them. They now need a man for keeps after they have had enough fun in their best years. Men start early. The younger the lady, the better. And most of all, be prayerful in your search for a wife. You need divine direction.

men are very selfish,thief and greedy.after we have bleeped countless ladies,we don't want to our future wife to have been bleep countless time

This life is very easy,as u bleeping someone future wife,someone is also out there bleeing ur future wife.deal with that

So where is the right place to look for a wife?

Ipledge:
men are very selfish,thief and greedy.after we have bleeped countless ladies,we don't want to our future wife to have been bleep countless time

This life is very easy,as u bleeping someone future wife,someone is also out there bleeing ur future wife.deal with that

You sound like a die hard, unintelligent bleeper. Young and innocent girls should be wary of you.

mentorandfriend:
You sound like a die hard, unintelligent bleeper. Young and innocent girls should be wary of you.

am very much intelligent,I won't go into harsh words with u.am telling you how things work.those girls that we guys bleep,is it not someone that will marry them...good wife is not about number of time she had bleep,might not even have d best character,but someone that matches u

So tell us.....where are the right places to look for a wife?

mayapop:
So where is the right place to look for a wife?

Worthwhile places. Places where decent women are found (church is an exception). Not clubs and bars. A professional seminar, name it.