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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by findingtruth: 5:01am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Hello all sorry for delay in my posting as i have been busy searching my heart and trying to get my mind right. My husband is aware i have posted these pics. I have no reason to do anything in secret behind him. At this point i have chosen not to divorce him nor deport him. 1 if i deport him he ends up there with her or simply gets a visa to europe. 2 divorcing him only gives him the ability to remarry here and still stay but with another woman. So niether divorcing him or deporting will he suffer or pay but he can simply go on with his own plot or plans no matter what they are. Divorcing and or deporting him will only delay his plans for no more then a year. Additionally there is no gain for my child. There is nothing my son will benefit from divorcing or deporting him. So it may be playing with fire hoping not to get burnt but well i don't think i could be any more burnt then i already am. So i am going to get him to sign a post nuptial agreement entitling me to 50% of his pay if we divorce and leaving me 100% ownership to property and assests if we divorce. Yes i am going to let him work building the same life we set out to build and i am going to ensure that 100% of his income is spent bettering my life and taking care of our son. And i know paralyzing someone financially is the best way to stop all their plans moves or goals. Now i am not concerned with the girl knowing she can't lay with him nor recieve any support from him. Additionally he will not return to Nigeria to visit nor live as the life we share here will be too comfortable. A man that commits adultery destroys himself. But basically i have no problem playing his own game back to him.... Letting him work while someone else will reap the benefits in the end. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by findingtruth: 5:06am On Jan 12, 2015 |
mutter: 3 Likes
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Mynd44: 5:11am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Dang!!! Hell has no fury...... 3 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by texanomaly(f): 5:17am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Mynd44: Smh...I just hope he doesn't kill her to get out of this cage she's put him in. Please be careful op. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Mynd44: 5:21am On Jan 12, 2015 |
texanomaly:Now you are being scary. OP, please make security part of all these. When people are only about money, Obatala knows they have no limit |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by iwriterng(m): 5:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Comment removed. OP made her decision. |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by findingtruth: 5:28am On Jan 12, 2015 |
I don't plan to enslave him. I plan to live the same life we set out to build from the beginning but i am going to do it with reassurance that he has nothing to gain if he intends ill. This is really nothing more then divorce court would give me. In the usa i can get 50% of a mans pay for support of his child. I am just ensuring that what we build is secured for my son and myself. I am entitled to half in divorce court i just want to ensure that the other half is my sons and won't be shared with another woman nor will he enjoy it so i am only asking him to waive his half. I only want to make sure whatever is built is built for my son and his life is never bothered changed or torn apart. And yes i am going to secure my own future. I don't plan to treat him bad hold him hostage or any of that. I only intend to have assurance if he has ill will i lose nothing and can share the life i work to build with another man. 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by texanomaly(f): 5:40am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Smh...I wonder if you are even listening to yourself op. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by ifyalways(f): 6:25am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Lmao! Just what I expected. Reason I gloss over such stories. While y'all are here screaming foul the babe was getting sweet kpekus and/or jazzed up from the man. Nothing will change until the man is done with her. She can't help it. BTW, @ OP,what "future/assests/investment" would the man build with you in US? Someone that you confess to have been supporting over the years? Lol. At the point I agree with Mutter, you knew he had a woman but thought you could buy him. Please, don't bore us with your stories. 11 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Ewuro4: 6:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
texanomaly:No, she's in Lala land.. OP,I knew you aren't as dumb as most people portrayed you here.. in fact you knew what you got yourself into initially like mutter originally envisaged. Even a common Somalian will ask any Nigerian man of his papers before agreeing to date him. Yes that's how smart you lot are.. Do whatever you like and spare us all the trailer. Anyways .. Prenuptial agreement off a Naija man.. Hmmm good luck. 4 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by sassygal(f): 6:32am On Jan 12, 2015 |
The jazz is working already. Please come back and tell us more story in 3years time. I pity you. 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 6:40am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Findingtruth, well done! Some people will get angry because they think someone might do the same to their own husbands abroad based husbands or their brothers. If I were you, I would make him suffer more. 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Ewuro4: 6:50am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Carefree.. hmmm some people eh? Make who suffer, Like he's a fool eh? These women and Lala land *where's my wine jare* |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by mutter(f): 6:53am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Findingthetruth. Thank you for telling us the truth. All supports my theory that you wanted to buy a man. Your own personal Nig-- But it did not work out for you - your Nigg grew wings. You do have enough Africanamericans there but they are already free and you can have no hold over them. Yes Master/Mistress this Nig-- is going to work for you for the rest of his life like a house slave without any pay. Will never return home to his loved ones. Please let us know when you need another stallion in your barn, I am sure we have enough applicants here. Anyway the only one I pity in all this is that lovely, pretty, black, proud and beautiful bride in the wedding pictures. BTW how old is the picture you posted 10 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Teespice(f): 6:54am On Jan 12, 2015 |
IDEApro: you supported him by saying that it is what most African men do since a time will come when he wants to relocate to Nigeria and due to certain factors she might not want to come with him. stop justifying evil abeg. call a spade a spade. even tour fellow males are for once being realistic. or are you naturally the kind that eats his cake and still wants it. 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 6:56am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 6:59am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Nonso23: She is not even seeking revenge. And no, I am not happy when men suffer, I am happy when criminals do. And I am not bitter, I love myself and my life too much to allow ANYONE to try and destroy me / it. And it's not her who should be held responsible for a child about to be born into such an union in the first place but the wicked (or should I say desperate?) husband. Have a good start into the new week. 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:14am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:18am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Nonso23: So you agree that criminals need to be punished? Good. I think so too. Which is the lesser of the two evils. A child raised in a loveless and emotionally tumultous sham marriage or a child raised by a balanced single mother I would rather raise my kid alone than with this kind of a father. This kind of person will not come around my child. What example can he set for my child? And I wouldn't spend my life worrying when he will kidnap my child and take it to Nigeria without my consent. Who knows what else this person is capable of? I wouldn't sacrifice my child's well being, on the contrary. 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:25am On Jan 12, 2015 |
You married a fraudster. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by hungryboy(m): 7:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
findingtruth:are u suffering from stockholm syndrome or what?, divorce this guy or get him deported now, or one day he will lie to u that he is travelling to nigeria to visit his sick mother and will never come back, dude is a graduate, and can always find a well paying job here in Nigeria to support himself and his nigerian wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 12, 2015 |
ifyalways:hehehe she will have her assurance when she is 6ft under and the African wife moves into her house when the OP is done with her mortgage payment 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:38am On Jan 12, 2015 |
I pray that is not his first child
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Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Onegai(f): 7:39am On Jan 12, 2015 |
OP, make sure you speak to a lawyer and draw up that prenup. Also consult your state laws about divorce, child settlement and alimony. This man came with a plan, so he may be thinking ahead and have planned to transfer his assets to a friend of his (instead of him earning $45,000 annually, he chooses to be "employed" by a friend and have his earnings be $14,500 annually, whilst the friend sends his actual earnings home to Nigeria). However, IMHO you are better off without him. I'd call Immigration and have him "rejoin" his "African wife". He's not going to be a positive influence on your child. A father is NOT the person who biologically donates to create a child, a father is one who cares for and loves a child and is there emotionally for that child. Think about that. And for those telling her to let go, it's not about revenge it's justice. Idiots like this guy make it hard for legitimate couples (ask people trying to join their spouses how tough it is) and at the same time, every person I know with a dual citizenship to a preferred country tend to be wary to date the average Nigerian. They would rather marry up (to someone who has nothing to gain) and then you will start calling them "snobbish" for not giving you a romantic chance. Can you blame them? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:42am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Lmao, she wants to scam a Nigerian man. Goodluck nadam 2 Likes |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by corisande: 7:44am On Jan 12, 2015 |
This jazz strong gan! Na original o |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by corisande: 7:46am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Mondisweets: see the resemblance? 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:47am On Jan 12, 2015 |
corisande:That child looks like him ooo 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by corisande: 7:50am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Mondisweets: Na you talk am oooo I wish the op goodluck jonathan in whatever decision she decides to take 1 Like |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Mondisweets: Don't throw up. She knows that all well. Ha. I think she wants him more than ever now. Mondisweets: And what if it's his first child? Is that suppose to change something. |
Re: Did My Husband Marry Another Woman? by Nobody: 7:52am On Jan 12, 2015 |
corisande:I hope their house has at least 4 bedrooms to accommodate both children when he eventually sends for the second wife and child |
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