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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
TV01: So my dear you choose to be straight ? Where you born straight? Did you wake up in the morning without a choice in your sexuality that you choose to like girls So its a behaviour to see a girl you are attracted to and like her body? ... Right?
Men have mouths and asses that are a perfect fit for another mans johnny I mean is wide enough to fit y not try... Men are made for men. Also women and made for women. since they have a full set of fingers to help them in their journey
Child sexuality is concerned with the biological, psychological and social influences upon the sexual development of children, and the range of sensational, emotional and consequent sexual activities that may occur before or during puberty, but before full sexual maturity is established.
So God makes errors when women give birth to cripples or blind babies.... Decent advice has been offered. Funny no one addressed the almost incontinent sexual behaviour that characterises gay relationships as noted in baby124' post. TV[/quote] |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
bennyrazz:Our culture never said there was no gay. If you study deeper about Nigerian gay, you will find that they have actually been practising it since time immemorial. Only your religion abhors gay, and i don't buy your stùpid religion filled with hates. 2 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
bennyrazz:Even the bible said the same thing about adultery but Jesus said "he who has no sin should cast the first stone" when Mary Magadalene was caught. Are you pure? |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 9:37pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Scaredsilent:I was born functionally intact and the sexual maturation process happened as it was supposed to. Hence I am a man attracted to women. I was designed to like girls, no malfunction. That's how men are fashioned, and vice-versa for women Scaredsilent:It's a behaviour to choose to lie with her - nature doesn't determine that Scaredsilent:Let me not encourage you in your confusion by dignifying this perverseness with a response Scaredsilent:Are you awarding yourself smileys for wittiness or intelligence - I personally detect neither. Others may sha, look to them. Scaredsilent:And impairment/malfunction may occur anywhere before sexual maturity. Your point? Scaredsilent:No God does not make errors - unlike some I don't worship a god who makes mistakes ! The effects of the fall are physically manifest and some are multiplied and re-enforced by sinful human behaviour TV |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by dinachi(m): 9:45pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
My friend the homosexual lifestyle is wrong, sinful and totally unnatural! Stop looking for sympathy here. God doesn't make people homosexual. It is a choice misguided people make for themselves. Forget apostate western propaganda seeking to make homosexuality look normal. The truth is that it will NEVER be a normal thing..if it is,muscles that attracts you in a man seek for muscular women. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 10:02pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Scaredsilent:Sex is first and foremost about procreation. It's enjoyable & desirous in order to to encourage us to activeley pursue and get on with it. And as for the marriage you mentioned, it's primary purpose is as a vehicle for having and raising children Scaredsilent:Because some people are criminals, ergo homosexuality is a good thing/should be acceptable?. Homosexuals, always discuss things from a sexcentric point of view. Justify it first and then argue backwards. Scaredsilent:Haha...that old chestnut. The above merely notes a number of other sins not previously noted. Their main one was SODOMY. Noted in several places and clear from the narrative. Scaredsilent:I have not questioned the authenticit of homosexual love, or the methods they use to please each other. Neither have I called for them or their acts to be criminalised; my point? Homosexuality is biblically a sin and two people of the same sex cannot marry. Scaredsilent:I wonder what the public would consider good if "heterosexuality" i.e. normality were considered bad? How does one respond to such a straw man? As for living my life sexless - I was prepared to do so in lieu of finding a woman I considered worthy to be my wife, and did - pretty painlessly I might add - before I located her. Thank God Scaredsilent:As above Scaredsilent:Adults are rarely fully formed before 24 years of age so raging hormones - especially in an age where their are so many influences and so much pressure, is probably not the best guide. Scaredsilent:No, they should accept him, but not how he chooses to express his sexuality - and I fully understand and am sympathetic that it may not be as a result of anything he himself may have initiated. Scaredsilent:Perhaps true in part, but one of the things that characterises gay relationships is their having numerous anonymous and cursory affairs - even in countries where it is fully accepted. The scenario painted was gay through and through, and not particularly due to his environment. It is practiced openly where I live - gays love anonymous furtive sex, and don;t really subscribe to the notion of monogamy. Scaredsilent:As ever homosexuals always over-reach in they desperation to rationalise their ways Scaredsilent:There is only "opposite sex" marriage. Not desiring it is no sin, practicing sodomy/homosexuality is. TV |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
dinachi:The dude is a christian by birth. Stop using your religion to judge him- he might be atheist. Thanks |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
TV01: So you did not choose to be attracted to ladies then. I rest my case. Whether you feel gays dont function to the norm. It still happens. I get a hard on when i see a naked guy.
So can you lie with a man. Since nature doesn't determine that...
Its obvious you cannot handle details of human sexuality. Thus you try to evade my statement of sexual diversity and ways. Arent you not the one who said a man is created for a woman. It will not be possible for a single human to get sexual gratification from masturbation then. if your theory is right. but we do.
Yes I am cause apparently I am justifying every statement i have made
Sexual AWareness is not a malfunction. What happens at puberty is ability of creating off spring occurs. Some cases show that children who havent reached the age of puberty still exhibit sexual alertness if stimulated. Mostly nerve and autonomous reactions.
Like I have been saying. There nothing wrong with imperfections in life. i dont see cripples as imperfect beings. They are perfect in their own way. God doesnt bring us here to the world to suffer but to succeed against the conflicts of life. TV [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by beryl04(m): 10:34pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Scaredsilent: i support that with a re-sounding AMEN. He who lives by the swords must surely die by the sword! |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
dinachi: Can I ask you a question? What do you think homosexuality is exactly? Do me a favour and check the dictionary. Homosexuality means attraction to the same sex. Look at the word "ATTRACTION". I didn't need to have sex with a man before i knew i liked men. Did you have sex with a girl before you liked her... I am not in any way looking for sympathy! There is nothing but ANGER and RAGE in my heart and mind. Did you choose too feel sexually attracted to a lady. Did you press any button to choose to like girls. I am not looking for you to see it as normal. I believe we are unique in every way we are. We STAND out, We are DIFFERENT. Why dont you seek men that are feminine and catwalk if that is what attracts you to women? 2 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by maclatunji: 10:51pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
I believe this can be taken out of him. It is when people condone such acts that those who commit them think they are victims. You are not a victim so go learn how to stop being a pervert Mr.Laila Ikeji blog reader. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
maclatunji:Like a sexuality transplant abi? :/ 3 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 11:04pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Scaredsilent:I am designed to be attracted to ladies - as are all men - anything else is dysfunction. Some men get hard-ons when they see the fleshy buttocks of a horse, so what? Scaredsilent:Any two people of any sex can lie together, that doesn't make it right does it? Functionally or morally. Men lie with beasts, or get erections when looking at animals. Are you pleading "I feel, therefore it's right/normal"? Scaredsilent:So, because people can sexually gratify themselves in various ways, all the ways are natural and moral, healthy and good? You still ahven;t told us how anal sex in this age is different - i.e. healthier and in no way more harmful than vaginal sex - and hence permissable! Scaredsilent:Only to yourself and only in your own mind. Scaredsilent:So that means that babies are born sexually aware? Ot that response to stimuli means that the stimuli is a good thing. Or that teenagers who express same-sex feelings are going to become adult homosexuals? Scaredsilent:So you admit homosexuality is an imperfection? End of. My only point has been their acts are dysfunctional and their unions not being marriage. Please don't wear yourself out trying to justify your acts to me. I've heard it all before, same old strained self-justification and willingness to miss-interpret, butcher, twist, warp and pervert everything to do so. TV |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by mutter(f): 11:18pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
One step away from Asylum. If he cannot face the heat in Nigeria and his life is threatened in Nigeria he can seek asylum. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
TV01: I agree with you that Gods main aim for making sex feel so good was because of procreation. So humans can procreate. But tell me It seems you are a married man. When you want to make love with your wife. Is the first thing in your head to want to have babies from the act. its not.... Because you love your wife body and soul. Making love to your wife also has a primary function of showing how much you love her. and how much she can make you love her.
You are right here,I would admit. I threw the question back at you when i should have answered it. Homosexuality cannot be as grand heterosexual relationship in the sense of being blessed with a miraculous gift of a bouncing baby. But it shouldn't be every time you deny the existence of love and attraction and base it instead on the benefits of the relationship. Cause that is what you where doing when you asked me that question.
I have said what i had said and quoted the parts in the bible that listed out their major sin. You choose what your want to put your mind on in this part
But you have... You claimed a man is only made systematically for a woman. You said a normal "MAN" is only sexually attracted to a woman. Like I have been saying homosexuality means attraction to males. The use in the new testament was wrongly interpreted. how come the old testament had no words for homosexuality. But in the old and new testament you see the full word of fornication and adultery. The word homosexuality never existed until the late 1890s. Thats when they decided to interchange the word for male prostitute.
Then you aren't thinking of the scenario I gave you. Your entire life will be miserable. As you would see females walking around and you wouldn't be able to have a good public relationship. You may probably end up looking for love underground and maybe in the laps of a street prostitute!. Just because you can not open up about your feelings for girls.
But your sexless life has ended right? I also Thank God for You. Thank God you were able to meet the one who caught your eyes Thank God you were able to take her to your parents and her to her own parents Thank God people came for your wedding ceremony! and approved of your love Thank God you can have a peaceful life and not be judge every time you walk hand in hand with her
So you can see how sad his situation was cause honestly he didn't realise what he was doing or getting him self into looking for love online
Then how can he express his desire in liking guys and not girls. Society does not accept what it doesn't understand and condone
Just because you can see the bad ones does not mean there are no good ones. We punish the entire class for a few number of people noise making. We dont stop to think and see the scared and good ones at the corner of the class trying not to be noticed. I am Gay. i am 24 years old . I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I am still looking but its hard because all the good ones are hiding in their fake cultural Nigerian life. The underground scene is full of perverts and sexual deviants. Tell me how I can find love when there are people who want to kill me because am gay. Or people looking to steal money from me.
I will continue to sing my song! Till I can sing no more. till future generations of Nigeria see that its ok to be gay. And it gets better. Even though 80% of their home country hates them. that they are unique in their own way.
There is for now but I pray in future there wouldnt be only opposite sex marriage TV [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by jmoore(m): 11:26pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Even animals know better. Homosexuality is insanity. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Na wa oo |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 1:19am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Scaredsilent:To be clear when I say that I don't question the "authenticity" of "gay love", I am not endorsing it, I am merely saying I am not questioning the reality or intensity of what they claim to feel. Biblically it is wrong and no amount of scripture twisting can change that. I only joined this thread to post rejoinders to the "homosexuality is congenital" falsehood and the "biblically we've misread the scriptures" lie. And the other one you introduced; anal sex was wrong then, but advances in science and technology make it right now ! Altogether you've been upfront and civil, and alluded to belief in God, so I'll say this; If you truly believe in The God of our Lord Jesus Christ, go to Him just as you are. Don't bother to justify or explain or demand. Just go as a sinner - like we all must - and cast your cares and burden on Him. He'll lead you aright. There may be trials and tribulations, but if you trust in Him, you'll get there. Perhaps see if you can find the original article discussed here; http://www.dennyburk.com/its-okay-to-fight-against-homosexuality/ Best TV |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 6:29am On Jan 12, 2015 |
jmoore:http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior Even animals know homophobia is insanity because they don't engage in it. 1 Like |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by jmoore(m): 6:56am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Superleo: Rubbish link, I didn't bother to read it. My comment was a trap and you fell for it. Have you seen a hegoat mating with another hegoat? Have you seen a cock mating with another cock? Some animals kill their mating partners after sex. So it is okay for a human to kill his/her partner after sex, huh? Once again, homosexuality is insanity. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by dinachi(m): 6:58am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Pls everybody vacate this thread. It is a homosexual promotion thread! |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by ifyalways(f): 7:51am On Jan 12, 2015 |
I don't care about the "gay" story ati yada yada. You chat with a stranger for two weeks and agree for meet up for seeex, are you a whooree? Serves your assss right. |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:01am On Jan 12, 2015 |
jmoore:Stùpid question, I'm not going to answer it. Click on my link... Some animals kill their mating partners after sex. So it is okay for a human to kill his/her partner after sex, huh?Do gays kill their partner after sex as you're implying? You are dumb. Animals engage in heterosexual sex too. That makes heterosexuality an insanity?. Get an education, ASAP! 5 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:18am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Superleo: Nice lol spot on |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 12, 2015 |
ifyalways: Thats not the point of the story. If the only thing you can see here is agreeing to meet up for sex. you shouldnt comment. Have you heard of a story when a man brings a gang to a girls house. Complaining that she wants to have sex with him. Telling the mother that that they would take her to the police station for fornication. That her parents have to pay 1000 naira before they go?? The man issue here is Jungle justice! Extortion and Intimidation! 3 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
dinachi: You can vacate if you want. Where in the title does it say Gay Promotion 2 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:30am On Jan 12, 2015 |
jmoore: What is your point exactly!!! So Wikipedia is a rubbish link!. Are you a zoologist that has studied the Life Cycles of All the He goats in the world! My people are blind because of lack on knowledge. You were given link look at the link 3 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:51am On Jan 12, 2015 |
TV01: Thanks for the link I just checked it. I honestly dont know where the lady is that wrote this. But from her stand point It looks like she has chosen to walk with God. be more of a single individual. Celibacy if i might say. Thats definitely one thing I am doing. I dont believe in having anonymous sex and throwing my self around defiling my body and mind. As sex is sacred and should be shared between two people. BUT I WILL NEVER DENY THE FACT OF MY ATTRACTION TO THE SAME SEX. Thats all I am fighting about. People claim it doesn't exist, its a choice, its a "western culture". But the truth is there are gay sons, daughters, wives and husbands, fathers and mothers in Nigeria that are trying to cope with living a well made up lie that they are not sexually atrracted to the same sex. 2 Likes |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by pesty100(m): 9:55am On Jan 12, 2015 |
One less gay for us to worry about |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 9:59am On Jan 12, 2015 |
pesty100:One more homophobic bigot to worry about 1 Like |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by pesty100(m): 10:46am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Scaredsilent:well am not the one planning on committing suicide |
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 11:05am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Morning SS, Scaredsilent:Her testimony is one among many and for a Christian with SSA I would counsel they read up more on this - if onlt to be fully informed and be considered in the choice they evedntually make. Again, I absolutely believe that God is able to heal fully - i.e. lead previously gay men into wholesome relationships with women. Scaredsilent:And you are absolutely right to do so. Whatever the genesis of the issue, don't deny it. Your decision is what will you do about it. Here again, testimonies abound. There are those who believe to healing, those who are content to live a celibate life, and of course those who embrace the homosexual lifestyle whole heartedly. Be that with a rejecting of the scripture, or an attempt to re-interpret them as approving of same-sex relationships in order to affirm their Christianity. Scaredsilent:I don't believe anyone has denied it's existence. The reasons, occurence, scope and morality are what is being discussed. It may not be choice akin to flicking a switch - although it is for some - it is certainly a choice to act on the attraction. Further, for many it will be a series of experiences that lead to that point. I sympathise with any living with SSA - especially those who are seeking God. I don't believe those who experience or even act on such should be criminalised or discriminated against. I don't believe we should normalise it and embed it into the culture. May God be with you. Journey well. TV |
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