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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 11:09am On Jan 12, 2015
Superleo:

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior

gringrin
Even animals know homophobia is insanity because they don't engage in it.
Firstly, animals are instinct driven, they do not possess higher consciousness like humans
Secondly, what is described as homosexual behaviour in animals rarely includes sex. Even in animals, SSA is an oddity
Thirdly, nothing animals do mirrors the homosexual lifestyle adopted by a small minority of humans
Lastly, try reading the link you posted

TV
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by s3nn2x(m): 11:11am On Jan 12, 2015
But wait oooo...

Are you guys for real?

As in, the guys who plan on killing because of one's sexuality?

It surprises me how someone who claims is not gay would chat with a gay guy for 2 weeks, for goodness sake, 2 weeks!!! What were they discussing?

If you know you hate gays, why not avoid them, than going out of your way to look for them.

Don't you people have something better to do? I am sure most of you are still looking for admission, because I don't see how a responsible man would have time to start stalking gay people.

If I hate something, I'd avoid it with passion.

As for the guy in question, suicide it never a solution. This is the time for him to walk with his head held high. He is gay and nothing can change that, not even prayers. He should get his act together and invest his time on doing productive things. Make money, enjoy life....and be more careful!!! You only have one life.

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 11:35am On Jan 12, 2015
TV01:

Firstly, animals are instinct driven, they do not possess higher consciousness like humans
Your point exactly?
Secondly, what is described as homosexual behaviour in animals rarely includes sex.
What are you saying? Homosexual and heterosexual in Animal can never be defined through anything except sex, because we are unaware of their feelings.
Do you think homosexuality in man/woman is all about sex. Dur! Homosexuality is about feelings.
A heterosexual man might agree to have sex with a homosexual rich guy for money and it doesn't make him gay. Get it!
I'm gay/bisexual and I have never had sex with a man or woman but i'm sexually attracted to both- attraction to man outweighs the woman.
Even in animals, SSA is an oddity
What's SSA?
Thirdly, nothing animals do mirrors the homosexual lifestyle adopted by a small minority of humans
Man never adopted homosexuality.
I believe no one is born of any sexuality.
Hormorne determines what you be.
At a young age when I wasn't sexually active, I was trying to belong i.e playing daddy's role in childrens playground. I never knew anything about gay. We all share how we will love to marry one day(heterosexual relationship).
I became sexually active at 11 or 12 and was attracted to both gender.
Lastly, try reading the link you posted

TV
I read it. undecided

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 12:22pm On Jan 12, 2015
Superleo:

Your point exactly?
Oh ah, smart-alec grin!

Superleo:
What are you saying? Homosexual and heterosexual in Animal can never be defined through anything except sex, because we are unaware of their feelings.
...and this is why your attempt at smart-alecarry falls flat - animals don;t act on feelings - like I clearly pointed out, thet are instinct driven. When a dog gets the urge to mate, it will attempt to do so with a mans leg if tha't the only thing available cheesy. It doesn;t mean the dog is a Zoophile grin!

Superleo:
Do you think homosexuality in man/woman is all about sex. Dur! Homosexuality is about feelings.
Nope, cos I have male friends I love, but not sexually. Are my feelings somehowe inauthentic?

Plus the drive for gay-rights is not the right to "feel", it's to do, be and have. That very notion poisons normal healthy male/male companionship as it insinuates feelings are somehow erotic and can/should be expressed sexually.

Superleo:
A heterosexual man might agree to have sex with a homosexual rich guy for money and it doesn't make him gay. Get it!
Make my case for me why don;t you. It's behaviour/action, and should be subject to our higher consciousness. Do animals engage in intercourse for financial gain grin!

Superleo:
I'm gay/bisexual and I have never had sex with a man or woman but i'm sexually attracted to both- attraction to man outweighs the woman.
Identify yourself how you wish. It's a disorder if the attraction to you same sex is of a sexual nature

Superleo:

What's SSA?
Same-sex attraction. Go and train jor...you don;t have the wherewithal for this discussion. Drop and gimme 50 you weakling cool!

Superleo:

Man never adopted homosexuality.
I believe no one is born of any sexuality.
Hormorne determines what you be.
At a young age when I wasn't sexually active, I was trying to belong i.e playing daddy's role in childrens playground. I never knew anything about gay. We all share how we will love to marry one day(heterosexual relationship).
I became sexually active at 11 or 12 and was attracted to both gender.
If your orientation/sexuality is not in accordance with your "functionality", there is a prima facie case of dysiorder is there not?


Superleo:
I read it. undecided
Read it again and then study more widely - not just Pink News cheesy!


TV
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2015
TV01:

Oh ah, smart-alec grin!
...and this is why your attempt at smart-alecarry falls flat - animals don;t act on feelings - like I clearly pointed out, thet are instinct driven. When a dog gets the urge to mate, it will attempt to do so with a mans leg if tha't the only thing available cheesy. It doesn;t mean the dog is a Zoophile grin!
Too dumb of you. grin
Inorder words, there heterosexual sex aren't acted on feelings, right?.
By the way, I never wrote "animals don't act on feelings"- i only opined that it can't be use as a determinant since we are not one of them. cheesy
Nope, cos I have male friends I love, but not sexually. Are my feelings somehowe inauthentic?
Too myopic. I implore you study deeper about human sexuality.
I'm not attracted to all men.
I love my dad, brothers, cousins etc. And i'm not attracted to them.
I'm not attracted to some of my heterosexual friends. I'm not attracted to all men. So you're talking crap. Probably, I won't be attracted to you, either... wink
Plus the drive for gay-rights is not the right to "feel", it's to do, be and have. That very notion poisons normal healthy male/male companionship as it insinuates feelings are somehow erotic and can/should be expressed sexually.
Gays aren't attracted to all men.
Straight aren't attracted to all women.
Heterosexual male and female can be friends without any feelings attached to it.
I roll with guys that I won't think of having sex with...
Make my case for me why don;t you. It's behaviour/action, and should be subject to our higher consciousness. Do animals engage in intercourse for financial gain grin!
Commercial sex workers actually sleep with men that they don't love. cheesy
I repeat that some heterosexuals, sleep with men to make money- it's a choice to them but not a choice to people that were born gay.
Identify yourself how you wish. It's a disorder if the attraction to you same sex is of a sexual nature
Says TV01 only. smiley
Same-sex attraction. Go and train jor...you don;t have the wherewithal for this discussion. Drop and gimme 50 you weakling cool!
Dumb and boring! -_- sad
[s]If your orientation/sexuality is not in accordance with your "functionality", there is a prima facie case of dysiorder is there not?[/s]
Dweebish and dumb question.
Ask google
Read it again and then study more widely - not just Pink News cheesy!


TV
Lmao! You are already weary. tongue

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by jmoore(m): 1:12pm On Jan 12, 2015
Superleo:

Stùpid question, I'm not going to answer it.
Click on my link...


Do gays kill their partner after sex as you're implying? You are dumb.

Animals engage in heterosexual sex too. That makes heterosexuality an insanity?.

Get an education, ASAP!
You are the dude that needs education!! Mumu!!!

Upgrade your IQ!! If you use animals to justify homosexuality, then other behaviours of animals like killing of sexual mates should not be condemned if humans decide to practice it too.


Even the famous ex-gay advocate Michael Glatze has rejected homosexuality saying " Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.http://www.wnd.com/2007/07/42379/
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by jmoore(m): 1:15pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:


What is your point exactly!!! So Wikipedia is a rubbish link!. Are you a zoologist that has studied the Life Cycles of All the He goats in the world!

My people are blind because of lack on knowledge.

You were given link look at the link

It is a foolish link. Homosexuality in animals has been debunked.

Any stupid person can write nonsense on wikipedia. Like they wrote that your ancestors are apes.

These links debunked homosexuality in animals.

http://www.conservapedia.com/Homosexuality_in_animals_myth

http://www.narth.org/docs/animalmyth.html
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 12, 2015
jmoore:

You are the dude that needs education!! Mumu!!!

Upgrade your IQ!! If you use animals to justify homosexuality, then other behaviours of animals like killing of sexual mates should not be condemned if humans decide to practice it too.


Even the famous ex-gay advocate Michael Glatze has rejected homosexuality saying " Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.http://www.wnd.com/2007/07/42379/
So foolish and dumb of you. cry
Who is using Animal to justify homosexuality?
You said Animal don't practise and i gave you a proof.
Sayanora

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jan 12, 2015
jmoore:

Any stupid person can write nonsense on wikipedia. Like they wrote that your ancestors are apes.
The stupid cave men that wrote God created heaven and earth without proof? cheesy
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 12, 2015
jmoore:

You are the dude that needs education!! Mumu!!!

Upgrade your IQ!! If you use animals to justify homosexuality, then other behaviours of animals like killing of sexual mates should not be condemned if humans decide to practice it too.


Even the famous ex-gay advocate Michael Glatze has rejected homosexuality saying " Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.http://www.wnd.com/2007/07/42379/

Apparently Michael Glatze was Bisexual and not gay. He felt attracted to both sexs. But Choose to be with a woman. After 10 years of being in relationship with a man

Watch this Interview with Michael Glatze.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PO2xJcrP9aw
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:


Apparently Michael Glatze was Bisexual and not gay. He felt attracted to both sexs. But Choose to be with a woman. After 10 years of being in relationship with a man

Watch this Interview with Michael Glatze.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PO2xJcrP9aw
Ignore the dude. He is dumb.
He might want to check this link...

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/so-it-turns-out-giraffes-are-gayest-animal-planet231014

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by jmoore(m): 1:47pm On Jan 12, 2015
Superleo:

So foolish and dumb of you. cry
Who is using Animal to justify homosexuality?
You said Animal don't practise and i gave you a proof.
Sayanora

Fagg0t, Now go and sleep!!!
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 12, 2015
jmoore:


Fagg0t, Now go and sleep!!!
Proudly Gay. grin
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 12, 2015
Superleo:

Ignore the dude. He is dumb.
He might want to check this link...

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/so-it-turns-out-giraffes-are-gayest-animal-planet231014

I agree with you as well. Even the links I sent to me are is a homophobic version of wikipedia.
http://www.conservapedia.com/

Never heard of it. So funny even from the name you will realise how biased they are

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:


I agree with you as well. Even the links I sent to me are is a homophobic version of wikipedia.
http://www.conservapedia.com/

Never heard of it. So funny even from the name you will realise how biased they are
Lol. Conservapedia grin
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by TV01(m): 2:48pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:


I agree with you as well. Even the links I sent to me are is a homophobic version of wikipedia.
http://www.conservapedia.com/

Never heard of it. So funny even from the name you will realise how biased they are
And wikipedia is not biased. It's a well known gay-friendly resource. In fact, try editing it to incude content tha tis not pro-gay and it will be redacted.

Both are resources and both proffer opinions. Or are you taking this source as gospel http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/so-it-turns-out-giraffes-are-gayest-animal-planet231014? cheesy!


TV
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jan 12, 2015
TV01:

And wikipedia is not biased. It's a well known gay-friendly resource. In fact, try editing it to incude content tha tis not pro-gay and it will be redacted.

Both are resources and both proffer opinions. Or are you taking this source as gospel http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/so-it-turns-out-giraffes-are-gayest-animal-planet231014? cheesy!


TV

Thats not true.... It takes all parts. there's a difference condemning someone and looking at arguments against them.... The latter is what Wikipedia does. The website management sees both sides. if you go there you will definitely see Every article on homosexuality. From Religion to Cultural Norms. I have not seen any "gay friendly" issues there.

Just compare both sites take on homosexuality

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality
http://www.conservapedia.com/Homosexuality

The first thing before listing out the contents of the topic is Bible quotations... Translations that has been misinterpreted.

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jan 12, 2015
TV01:

Or are you taking this source as gospel http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/so-it-turns-out-giraffes-are-gayest-animal-planet231014? cheesy!


TV

To be honest I dont take any thing on Gay Star News Seriously because to me most of the stuff posted they are not Christian. Promotion of fornication and promiscuity.
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by beryl04(m): 7:55pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:




Thanks for the link I just checked it. I honestly dont know where the lady is that wrote this. But from her stand point It looks like she has chosen to walk with God. be more of a single individual. Celibacy if i might say. Thats definitely one thing I am doing. I dont believe in having anonymous sex and throwing my self around defiling my body and mind. As sex is sacred and should be shared between two people.

BUT I WILL NEVER DENY THE FACT OF MY ATTRACTION TO THE SAME SEX.

Thats all I am fighting about. People claim it doesn't exist, its a choice, its a "western culture". But the truth is there are gay sons, daughters, wives and husbands, fathers and mothers in Nigeria that are trying to cope with living a well made up lie that they are not sexually atrracted to the same sex.





i have a lot of gay fathers and husbands in my circle and i am a soon-to-be gay father and a husband,but one thing i assure u is, we are living our lives to the fullest.some us our families know about our attraction to the same sex ,so i can't exactly say that some if not most are living a life of lies. it's not exactly the kind most of us want but we try to make good out of it.
i'm not advising anybody to live such double lives but i just want to u tell that some of us who out of pressure have chosen this part are making the most of it.

that being said ,i must commend you for how u buttress ur point here in a non-confrontational matter ,some times i wish some of us older gays have enuf knowledge and courage to speak up.well done ,ur doing a good job.

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 12, 2015
beryl04:




i have a lot of gay fathers and husbands in my circle and i am a soon-to-be gay father and a husband,but one thing i assure u is, we are living our lives to the fullest.some us our families know about our attraction to the same sex ,so i can't exactly say that some if not most are living a life of lies. it's not exactly the kind most of us want but we try to make good out of it.
i'm not advising anybody to live such double lives but i just want to u tell that some of us who out of pressure have chosen this part are making the most of it.

that being said ,i must commend you for how u buttress ur point here in a non-confrontational matter ,some times i wish some of us older gays have enuf knowledge and courage to speak up.well done ,ur doing a good job.



Thanks for your commendation. I am also happy that you shared your thoughts. Sorry about the point i made of saying its living a lie. I have had my share chatting up with married gay men. All of them told me their spouses dont know. I find it hard to wrap my head around that.

What do you mean by living life to the fullest?

You also said some thing about family knowing, Are there girls who would willing get married to a gay guy.

I dont know about most people. Isn't sex outside marriage is adultery.

And do you have a single lover outside you marriage. Or you cruise Around?

I am just asking all these questions for advise from your own perspective
I am not married still in school I am 25 years old. Maybe we can in box and talk.
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by beryl04(m): 9:55pm On Jan 12, 2015
Scaredsilent:


Thanks for your commendation. I am also happy that you shared your thoughts. Sorry about the point i made of saying its living a lie. I have had my share chatting up with married gay men. All of them told me their spouses dont know. I find it hard to wrap my head around that.

What do you mean by living life to the fullest?

You also said some thing about family knowing, Are there girls who would willing get married to a gay guy.

I dont know about most people. Isn't sex outside marriage is adultery.

And do you have a single lover outside you marriage. Or you cruise Around?


1)when life throws u a challenge u try and make the most of it by being true to urself .some of us try to so hard to hide our true selves to our wives but the women always eventually finds out and it's their choice to either leave the marriage or stick it out which is what happens more often.yes,we do lie and cover up some times but we don't go about denying ourselves happiness cos of our sexuality challenges.we have boyfriends on the side infact some go as far as living 2geda with both partners.now,don't get me wrong,it's not an ideal situation and hence i'm not advising it for the up coming generation ,but with the way Nigeria is structured now as regards the gay issue one cannot but be obliged to do likewise. my wife is lying down next to me as am typing this and i don't owe her any explanations.we're all together in the east for the holidays and almost every member of my immediate family are in the family house and yes they re all aware that i'm gay.i live as happy as i can ,damn the hate and often too misplaced expectations!

2)most women know that their husbands are gay but out of pressure and prolly for the fact that we take very good care of our wives financially they enter into the marriage,often times with the hope that the man will change just like what happened in the Kenny Badmus case.

3)that term adultery in this case is relative,some don't believe in the whole bible stuff .and when u throw in the gay stuff, u'll find out that the whole adultery stuff cud be explained out as the other person involved is of the same sex.i don't even know the meaning of adultery grin

I am just asking all these questions for advise from your own perspective

4)i used to have a single partner until our relationship got strained last year due to the fact that it's a long distant relationship.that is what happens in the case of Nigeria and gay life as no one gay guy will want to stay here for the rest of his life due to the prevalent hate and ignorance.i have more of my friends also who are married here in Nigeria but living with men abroad .lots .and yes i have a guy right now that we are trying to make it work .



I am not married still in school I am 25 years old. Maybe we can in box and talk.

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by beryl04(m): 11:51pm On Jan 12, 2015
got this from a blog...


How would you treat homosexuals if your were straight? Its easy to know. How do you treat people whose beliefs and actions are different from yours? How do you react when you come across the odd ones in society, who flow against the norm? How do you treat persons who firmly hold on to ideas you find repulsive and even disgusting, even when they bring no harm to your person? Answer these honestly and you will know if you’d have been homophobic. The intolerance among us is simply unbelievable. Homosexuality, as far as I’m concerned is a gift from God. Why? Because it places on you a severe stigma and forces you to experience first hand the marginalization that the scorned and oppressed feel. Then you begin to identify with the rejects of society, and then your mind opens up, like the morning rose to the gentle caress of dawn, and then you gain the gift of vison; an ability to see the true hellish state of this world we live in. Dear brothers, your sexuality is a gift. If from it you do not learn tolerance and compassion, then this gift would have been wasted on you. They call you dung of the earth; but from dung, flowers may grow. I love you guyz!

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Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by Nobody: 12:19am On Jan 13, 2015
beryl04:




i have a lot of gay fathers and husbands in my circle and i am a soon-to-be gay father and a husband,but one thing i assure u is, we are living our lives to the fullest.some us our families know about our attraction to the same sex ,so i can't exactly say that some if not most are living a life of lies. it's not exactly the kind most of us want but we try to make good out of it.
i'm not advising anybody to live such double lives but i just want to u tell that some of us who out of pressure have chosen this part are making the most of it.

shocked shocked angry angry
Re: A Gay Wants To Commit Suicide. Advice Him by mployer(m): 6:01am On Jan 13, 2015
The story sounds so fake

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