Here are 10 obvious signs this guy does not Love you like you thought and and can dump you at any moment and vanish or disappear into thin air.

1. HE INTRODUCES YOU AS A FRIEND TO OTHERS ESPECIALLY WOMEN. A Man that Loves you will be proud to let the whole world know you are his girl. He won't hide it.

2. HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE SEEN WITH YOU IN PUBLIC: If he avoids introducing you to people he knows, he is hoping to avoid the ridicule that can occur as a result of associating with you. He doesn't Love you.

3. HE IS ALWAYS TOO BUSY TO CALL OR VISIT YOU. We “men” are never too busy for a lady we really care about. You will be surprised at the ability of a man to manufacture free time just to be with the girl he loves.

4. HE TREATS YOU LIKE YOU ARE PART OF "THE CROWD." If a guy is into you, he won’t treat you like someone COMMON. He will treat you like royalty and make you feel very special.

5. HE MAKES HOLLOW PROMISES. If he promises you sun, moon & stars but gives you nothing than a regular one night stand, kindly dump this dude before he does the same with you. He does not love you.

6. HE FINALLY CALLED: You feel delighted he finally called you. But what you didn't realize was that he randomly called because others were not available so you are his last minute choice. Hahaha! Chaii! Diaris god oo.

7. HE AVOIDS THE "GETTING TO KNOW YOU CONVERSATION." If he avoids talking about himself & throws tantrum when you try to know more about him & his life, he doesn't Love you. He is hiding things.

8. A SEX PARTNER OR A LIFE PARTNER: You need to know what you are to him. If after 3months he is yet to propose but want plenty of sex, charlie does not love you. You are merely his sex partner. Get ready to be dumped.

9. READ HIS ACTIONS MORE THAN HIS WORDS. If he says A and does B, then he is not living up to his words. If he says he Loves you but his actions says another, follow his actions.

Actions never lie but words does.

10. HE DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Does he avoid talking about the future between you and him? If he doesn’t want to be tied to you for the rest of his life, he does not Love you.
source http://www.jovialmum.com/2015/01/10-obvious-signs-he-is-not-into-you-he.html

then the girl has friendzoned.

ok so who is he into

eheyaa so d girl becums his plaything only a foolish lady wont realize dat.

@mirexxx he is into ChubbyT

motherlode:
@mirexxx he is into ChubbyT

OK who is u and chubbyT

With all dis signs
Any girl involved in such a relationship should pulse for a while and ask herself wot she is doing in such a relationship!!

play them hearts like a ball

@OP


Very nicely written.I particularly like the use of the words "obvious signs", because quite frankly any girl that has "these symptoms" in her relationship ought to know when to leave, but the truth is for many people or to be better balanced, for some people, the thought of loneliness is such a scare and so they would rather remain in a dysfunctional, lobe-sided relationship in order to have that loose, faint and pseudo-claim to companionship instead of leaving the relationship out rightly to be faced with the true presence of loneliness.

I think in many situations, even beyond our relationships, we know we deserve much more than we are getting, but when we continually form it a habit to personify the adage "A bird in hand is worth two in the bush", even if it's just a bird's feather, instead of a whole live bird; it makes us unconsciously, habitually subjugated to these situations and with this mindset, you just end up going through cycles and cycles of worth-depriving relationships

I think the key is this: Define your worth before you go into any relationship, set a standard for yourself on how you know you should be treated and by all means hold yourself accountable to that standard and when you notice that someone in your life is treating you less than this set standard.... It will give you the much needed motivation to leave.

mirexxx:
OK who is u and chubbyT

we+you are members of this forum called Nairaland. You gerrit!

motherlode:

we+you are members of this forum called Nairaland. You gerrit!

toh wats my own na

bye!

Yes, you don't expect the people you are into, to also be into you always. Likewise, you were not into some that were into you..

motherlode:
@mirexxx he is into ChubbyT

lol...mami,pls oooo

motherlode:

we+you are members of this forum called Nairaland. You gerrit!

mynd her nt jare. Mayb she no dy lyk joke.

oya bolanle come and read this .........its why i avoid you