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Why Do We Fall In Love? by kevinedet01: 12:41pm On Jan 13, 2015
Why Do We Fall In Love? Especially Men
Love evokes numerous emotions that are not always based around reproducing or sex alone.

Even though we may not be in a relationship, all of us have certain ideas about the type of person that could attract us.

There is a difference between meeting up with a friend or a potential partner. Why do we fall in love?

We set up certain yardsticks in our minds and when we come across someone that may fit; we feel a stirring deep within us and know that we have finally found the person of our dreams.

The psychology of falling in love -

Our natural instincts lie dormant within each one of us and when we fall in love, we feel an awakening deep within us. We yearn to bond with that person and make a strong connection.

All of us store a certain criteria in our minds about the person we would like to fall in love with. When we meet someone new, we check this criterion subconsciously in our minds.

For instance, we may visualize a redhead who is well qualified and has the same interests as we have. You may want her to be positive and confident about things.

Once you come across someone like that you know that this is the girl you have been waiting for even though you are not ready to be in a relationship. We live a healthier and more satisfying life when we are involved in a relationship.

Is it possible to fall in love instantly?

Yes. If you have mentally formed a picture of the type of girl you would like to fall in love with, you will know when you meet her that she is the one for you. That is because you have formed a mental picture of a beautiful girl and she fits the bill.

You will automatically be attracted to her and her to you. Make sure to take advantage of the opportunity and move forward or you may miss the boat!

What are the reasons for falling in love?

Opposites attract. She may not have the same skin or hair color as you and these appeals to you. She may not have the same confidence levels as you but you feel protective towards her and want to help her become more assertive.

You may also be attracted to her because she reminds you of someone who meant the world to you when you were younger. She has the same interests and beliefs as you and this makes for interesting conversation.

You are comfortable associating with someone you can connect easily especially when discussing various topics.

Let your emotions rule -

The mind is very powerful and helps you make up your mind when you are hesitating. You observe and talk to her and when you are satisfied, you will know that you are head over heels in love with her.

There is a certain chemistry that sparks between the two of you that you will identify and acknowledge.

Your next step is to make sure that she feels the same way about you. It is important to woo and charm her so that she is equally attracted to you and you end up in a loving relationship.

Perfect timing -

When the time is opportune, you will come across the girl of your dreams. Make sure not to let this opportunity slip by. Pursue your dreams and charm her so that she does not look for someone else and remains yours in a wonderful relationship.

Use the above pointers when you are wondering "Why do we fall in love" and make sure you make the vital connection when you feel those stirrings in your heart.

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Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Iamvictor(m): 12:49pm On Jan 13, 2015
We fall in love because we want to fall in love.. look at a girl too much and you will fall for her.... simple.
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by iceberylin(m): 12:49pm On Jan 13, 2015
To get Laid wink
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by merxi55(f): 12:56pm On Jan 13, 2015
we fall in love because Love is a beautiful experience. ...chei....to love and be loved in return eh. ...I actually don't know the right adjective to qualify or express how it feels like. ...those who said they don't believe in love. ..are rily mizzzzinnnnnn....nna. .ehh...love a'
toka
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jan 13, 2015
no one knows the reason we fall in love. It just happens
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by dmcdad: 12:58pm On Jan 13, 2015
merxi55:
we fall in love because Love is a beautiful experience. ...chei....to love and be loved in return eh. ...I actually don't know the right adjective to qualify or express how it feels like. ...those who said they don't believe in love. ..are rily mizzzzinnnnnn....nna. .ehh...love a'
toka
True...
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by dmcdad: 12:59pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:
no one knows the reason we fall in love. It just happens
You are right... You don't force it, it just happens.
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 13, 2015
dmcdad:

You are right... You don't force it, it just happens.
Exactly! !!
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 13, 2015
dmcdad:

You are right... You don't force it, it just happens.
What is your shoe size?
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 1:15pm On Jan 13, 2015
iceberylin:
To get Laid wink

International Badman grin
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by dmcdad: 1:17pm On Jan 13, 2015
Mmadukaku:

What is your shoe size?
Lol... Why do you ask?

Anywayz, I wear 43 large, 44 and 45 small.cheesy
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 1:17pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:
no one knows the reason we fall in love. It just happens
DollyBoo smiley
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:

DollyBoo smiley
hi. how u doing?
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 1:29pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:

hi. how u doing?
Am doing Great..
Missed u fa
How's ur day going?
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:

Am doing Great..
Missed u fa
How's ur day going?
fyn ooooo. urs nko?
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 1:34pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:

fyn ooooo. urs nko?
Going on well..

Am even thinking of soaking ijebu Garri wit warm water Cuz dis harmattan cold is Wickedt fa sad
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:

Going on well..

Am even thinking of soaking ijebu Garri wit warm water Cuz dis harmattan cold is Wickedt fa sad
must u take gaari? be tosh joor
take bread and hot tea
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by lanicky(f): 1:49pm On Jan 13, 2015
@OP....so Binta don agree to date u..right?

Very soon, u'ld come here to right *WHY'RE GIRLS SO WICKED*
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 1:57pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:

must u take gaari? be tosh joor
take bread and hot tea

Tosh food?

Oya dey come my apartment make u come prepare am cool
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:


Tosh food?

Oya dey come my apartment make u come prepare am cool
naaaaaaaahhh am busy moreover this i can't come out in this weather
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 2:28pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:

naaaaaaaahhh am busy moreover this i can't come out in this weather

Oya Lemme come n cuddle u wink
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:


Oya Lemme come n cuddle u wink
waiting patiently cheesy
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by alberto2k(m): 2:40pm On Jan 13, 2015
dorlapoh20:

waiting patiently cheesy

Shift na... Abi na for ground I go sleep? undecided
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:


Shift na... Abi na for ground I go sleep? undecided
go back bring bed jare. i no fit shift
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by tomsingun4(m): 3:17pm On Jan 13, 2015
Because love is stupid, grin
Re: Why Do We Fall In Love? by iceberylin(m): 9:27pm On Jan 13, 2015
alberto2k:


International Badman grin
Na me worst pass sad

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