A7:
Relationship huh, I frown at the type you are getting at.

Advice : Don't fall for a guy you're not ready to have "re-la-tions" with, you are still young, there's more to life than pleasure.

ronald4lif:


Oh Chimu you never even read and you want him to be ditched, no dey spoil market for guys

Whatever is written up there will always be against the guys.. So yesss
Ditch the guy

ronald4lif:


There was a post of feminists earlier today, did you miss it?

I think i did
But how is that my business?

ronald4lif:


Lol! You already grasp the message, abeg no dey spoil market for bobos

If person market too fresh. Him market go sell na

ronald4lif:


Sure but unfresh market still dey equally sell, maybe on a cheaper rates.

Imagine say (mana ka Chineke ewke ri) Romeo carry una matter go another social platform and market spoilers come dey tow this part of yours

That na bad market na lol

ronald4lif:



Hmmm okay, I don talk my own sha.

Please do na, shakara adiro kwa gi nma

wynie:
[/quote][quote author=Lilprincey post=29773137]He's changed from what he's used to be to what he's now and am pretty sure he's gonna value you cuz he knows ur worth..ACCEPT HIM tnk me later

wynie:

thank you sooo much i really appreciate dis

eckersley:
Your question/topic shd be
Should I date him or not.

1. You only ditch someone u r into anytn with
And u r obviously nt into ath wt our guy here

Within the space of 4 years he's changed from a boy to a grown man

Naturally, male/female human or animal shd mature/grow significantly
So that part is natural



Back then, U felt nothing for him initially cos he was stubborn - GOOD

HERE'S WHERE THE ENTIRE PROBLEM LIES
He has bkm understanding,concerned and loving and would do just anything to be with me
When did being UNDERSTANDING, CONCERNED AND LOVING become criminal or sinful
Cud he hv put up an appearance for 4 solid years?
[For girls this may be easy but not for guys]

His change cud hv been a consequence of natural maturity and CIVILIZATION due to his change of location
[going abroad]

It's ur type dt
1. FALLS head over heels for a BAD BOY, gets used, abused and dumped like refuse.

2. Will never give good, nice, and loving guys a chance and after suffering the things in number 1,
will cry back or just repackage ur expired product and bring it to the
nice, naive and unsuspecting guy cos u know his love for u is boundless
and he will re-accept u unconditionally

It's indeed true that nice, good guys finish last
But I don't intent transforming a bad guy for the sake of any BIMBO of a girl.
If I'm not acceptable to any lady bc of the abv good qualities,
I wud rather not date, let alone marry [Just adopt kids as I like them a lot - if the law allows a single man to do so]

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but his behavior back then really gets me scared sometimes like he may not love me but
just want see if am cheap or not i really want to believe he loves me

A secondary school behaviour getting ur scared?
Come oooon.
Is that to say u nvr had unacceptable and detestable behaviours yl in sec sch?
Everybody had

The highlighted statement shows u have a very low self worth [and he may be too good for you]
This may also be due to abuse suffered in ur previous rships from BAD BOYS
Work on your self esteem.
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Don't expect a pity party from anyone.
I blv in a kick butt approach.
Just get ursf a narcissistic, uncaring, unloving BAD BODY and date him.
[COS THAT'S WHAT APPEALS TO FISH-BRAINED LADIES]

And return to NL in a yr or two wt a thread titled;
Bad boy lover dates, uses, abuses and dumps me after 5 abortions for him
What shd I do.

Plenty of advice awaits you then
Mtchhewww

wynie:
[b][/b]Hi guys am a girl schooling outside the country and so is dis guy am talking about but we are both in different countries (names withheld) i wouldn't say we were friends back then in secondary school but we weren't enemies either we were just there but we never spoke to each other most probably cos i was a prefect and he was sort of one of the stubborn or should i say rule breakers as at then so i really didn't want to associate myself with him and i think he also had a reason about why he refused to talk to me too but to cut the whole long story short secondary school ended and we all parted ways........... became friends on Facebook and all spoke once in a while especially cos he travelled b4 me just wanted to know what been abroad felt like and he kept me on track.
Note: we didn't talk the whole of 2014 maybe cos i was in a relationship and so was he
My relationship ended in may 2014 and since then I've been single haven't even had any fling well early this year i saw a picture of his on fb and went to his inbox to just caution and should i say advice him one thing led to another after i asked him about his girlfriend and he told me they were over and he has been single for about a year, truth be told i wasn't really surprise cos for a while their picture hasn't been on fb and even the previous ones he had had been deleted and we continued conversing and then after that day we talked like two or three times and if i really want to be frank i like him already and he said the same for me but that his started a long time ago but he couldn't tell me cos my cousin was overprotective of me back then in school he said a whole lot of things that got me tripping even though i said i wasn't going to date after what happened with my ex but i just found myself falling uncontrollably for him within the space of 4 years he's changed from a boy to a grown man understanding,concerned and loving and would do just anything to be with me and he has already asked me out i want to do this cos its long distance and wunt be easy tho but we've both got nothing to lose thing but his behavior back then really gets me scared sometimes like he may not love me but just want see if am cheap or not i really want to believe he loves me cos he's been on my mind all week long and even when i told my frnd she was like he must have really changed for u to be in love with him he doesn't care about the distance and so do i he said wen we get to that bridge we will cross it cos he's even invited me over but i cant go for some reasons but am convinced i like/love him just want to be sure he loves me b4 i say yes
so now i need u guys advice am open to questions plzzz just help me out thank u and i trust to make d best decision out of all ur contributions..... THANK YOU